Gender Bender

The idea of living the rest of my life as a man is awful. Cross-dressing would maybe make life only marginally more bearable. And yet I am not really comfortable with defining myself solely as a woman, though I identify as more a woman than a man.


Tony uses her name in both male and female mode.  At 68 years old, she likes the term, "two spirits", at this stage of her life.  Gender Bender is another post on discovering one's gender identity.