tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2210993542438732066.post5432278280039954956..comments2024-01-31T18:34:20.733-08:00Comments on T-Central: Transition Thoughts & Reflections - KiddoHallehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03847654451426257182noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2210993542438732066.post-45453627511902702722010-08-05T23:44:48.326-07:002010-08-05T23:44:48.326-07:00That was a great post, very eloquent.
The bit abo...That was a great post, very eloquent.<br /><br />The bit about how you can do everything you want, but it's not the doing it that you want it's to do it as a boy / man. I feel exactly the same way, just switched 180 degrees.<br /><br />BTW I love it when parents call me kiddo (even at 34...).<br /><br />All the best,<br />StaceStacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07907346657510908857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2210993542438732066.post-30242602502352053702010-08-05T19:42:37.299-07:002010-08-05T19:42:37.299-07:00Great post, kiddo! I love that you said you were g...Great post, kiddo! I love that you said you were going to focus on loving who you are. No matter whether you ever transition or not -- and I can see that you have reasons not to -- loving yourself is paramount. And I hope you can continue to express yourself as you feel most comfortable.Véro Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02895169022031921712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2210993542438732066.post-50014241236137020932010-08-05T14:17:03.848-07:002010-08-05T14:17:03.848-07:00Thank you for such an eloquent piece. If you do fi...Thank you for such an eloquent piece. If you do find stuff you can write about, I'm sure I'm not the only one who's looking forward to reading more.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08027942517258679266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2210993542438732066.post-31544772394234256402010-08-05T12:39:48.482-07:002010-08-05T12:39:48.482-07:00@ Gender Fluid Kid
You can always make your blog ...@ Gender Fluid Kid<br /><br />You can always make your blog private, and just invite people you trust and respect to fill your audience.<br /><br />You might take a look at Tumblr. It's not private, but it's a little like a merging of a blog and a social networking site. You can pick and choose who you follow and receive updates from, and I'm pretty sure you can block people you don't like. It seems to be popular with teens and twenty-somethings...I've met lots of gender-questioning people your age there, and they're very supportive of each other.Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15688972226193612658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2210993542438732066.post-19122936447917150812010-08-05T11:35:54.382-07:002010-08-05T11:35:54.382-07:00A lot of people go through waht you do- and there ...A lot of people go through waht you do- and there are lots of different answers. I'm going to suggest a forum you might want to check out, it's really accepting of everyone- gender fluid, genderqueer, genderless, and just regular men and women. http://www.whatisgender.net/phpBB3/index.php It might help with finding yourself- but some people never do know. And that's fine, too. :)Drekihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11035522983979695217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2210993542438732066.post-57725876777227644072010-08-05T10:52:40.239-07:002010-08-05T10:52:40.239-07:00Thank you for the feedback!
I actually do see a th...Thank you for the feedback!<br />I actually do see a therapist, but not for gender reasons. I used to have really bad anxiety and issues with OCD. I've wanted to tell him about my gender identity issues but it's hard for me. Hopefully I can build up the courage one day! I'm thinking maybe about starting a blog to let some feelings out. I made the account but I don't know if I should write.Gender Fluid Kidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11065950785348822261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2210993542438732066.post-87645415511608696782010-08-05T10:33:13.882-07:002010-08-05T10:33:13.882-07:00It's obvious that you've done a lot of thi...It's obvious that you've done a lot of thinking about the emotions and identities that go along with your gender, and I really respect that. It also makes me really happy that the most important thing for you seems to be loving yourself and knowing yourself. Keep on exploring your gender and finding what makes you comfortable and happy. It's never too late to transition, and it's also legitimate to never transition, and there are also a bajillion words out there that are neither "boy" or "girl". Living as a girl or a boy doesn't necessarily living as a particular kind of girl or boy. There's space in the world for small guys and butch women and tall girls and bois in dresses-- essentially, there's room in the world for whatever gender you make yours.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2210993542438732066.post-24569998612512908142010-08-05T09:46:41.869-07:002010-08-05T09:46:41.869-07:00Hey Kiddo,
Wow, for 17 you write much better than ...Hey Kiddo,<br />Wow, for 17 you write much better than many 'adults'I know do. You can have a great career as a writer what ever gender you are. none of us asked for what we got, you can't change your gender any more than you can change the color of your eyes. Just be yourself and you'll do fine. As Melisa said, finding a good therapist can really help and I speak from personal experience. <br /><br />Thanks for sharing, ElEllyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00035201077581960526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2210993542438732066.post-21229725423084959272010-08-05T08:45:57.907-07:002010-08-05T08:45:57.907-07:00Thanks for sharing your story with us, kiddo! What...Thanks for sharing your story with us, kiddo! What great parents you have. Perhaps seeing a therapist, could help you sort out your gender confusion. <br /><br />As for your size and youthful appearance, don't worry about it. There are a couple of transmen in my support group, one of whom almost exactly fits your physical description. He is just starting on his journey. Don't worry about what you look like now. You would be amazed at what the proper balance of hormones can do for your physical appearance. In fact, transmen often benefit to a far greater degree from HRT than transwomen do. Thanks again for sharing your story. All the best to you!<br /><br />Melissa XXMelissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04600684740584460891noreply@blogger.com