I often write of the importance of friends in the life of someone who is trans. Without my close friends, I would be in a world of hurt. I've found that my trans friends are the best friends I've ever had....friends I can share my most private and intimate thoughts with. They are real friends. Friends I can laugh with. Friends I can cry with.
In her latest post, Bree writes about friends, or the lack thereof. It's such a typical story for someone who is trans. Can't relate to men and, as someone presenting as a male, can't be true friends with a woman, as in woman-to-woman.
I can understand her prespective completely. It seems that those in my area try to remain stelth,even when were living full time as the gender we should have ben all alonge. I think most are selfconchus,dreading becoming some bigets target.On one hand I'm comfe as the women I am but I know I'm fragel as well.Sometimes lifes just harsh.
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