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Friday, January 22, 2021

Clothes, expression and thoughts

I don’t spend time gazing at myself in the mirror but just go about my day as I would if I was expressing male. I’m me, just happen to be a woman.

 Such a nice and positive outlook on life, from Michelle.

been awhile

Been awhile since I've written and since that time I have dealt with depression, anxiety, happiness and depression again. 






This girl just needs a virtual hug and the more, the better for her.  It can be done easily by leaving her a comment on this post.  Go back and read some of her previous posts while you're visiting her blog. 

Thursday, January 21, 2021

A Dream Deferred

I have a very dear friend who is an artist. They work in pencil, water colours, pen and ink, and among other things also engrave on glass.



This post, from Tish, comes with a message that is much deeper than the subject matter on a beautiful video she has included with the post.

Saturday, January 16, 2021

new map of Genderia

Three years ago Yvonne Aburrow mentioned their survey of the continent of Genderia, demonstrating that it is rather more of a complex landscape than often represented by a binary, a line or spectrum. And I did a hasty map to accompany that work. But we thought it was time to update and improve it, so here's the new version.


Oh, you've got to see this really cool map of the continent of Genderia!  The surveying was done by Yvonne Aburrow and the map was done by Dru Marland.  Nice job girls!


Thanks, Dru, for including a link to T-Central on your blog.   💓

Friday, January 15, 2021

What It Was/What It Is

What It Was:  Disgust.  Guilt.  Self-hate.  A compulsion.  Anxiety.  Tension headaches when an opportunity arose and I attempted to ignore the urge. Almost 50 years of internal struggle.  Stupidity.  Horrendous “outfits”.  Hair, all over.  A crappy mustache.  The almost complete avoidance of photographs.  Certainly never smiling in pictures.  Never, not one single time (and there were many) enjoying “it”.  Denial.



Now, you know What it Was.  Read the post to find out What it Is.  This is a wonderful, from the heart, post, from Kandi.  If you haven't already read it, you should.  There are several great comments and I'm sure Kandi will welcome more.

Thursday, January 14, 2021

Random thoughts.

It reminded me of countless fellow bloggers and almost without exception their online work has vanished. There used to be much grumbling as each blogger did their time, got as far as they felt they could or needed to, and went “stealth”. This was considered a dubious and bad thing, why would they abandon us like that?


What a wonderful post, from one of the longest running bloggers listed on T-Central.  I absolutely connect with what Sweet Caroline has to say in this post.  Love you, girl!

Wednesday, January 13, 2021

THE Surgery

Suffice it to say this is THE surgery. Yup, that one. THE one, lol.




Oh, I love this girl's sense of humor!  A lot has been going on in Kelly's life and she shares much of it with us in this post.

You Must Read This Book

Paria's dedication at the front of the book tells you much about her and the book:

For Ava, who always teaches me much more than I can ever hope to teach her, and every other child brave enough to live their truth.

And for every parent struggling with making the best decisions for their child with the knowledge that they have.
The dedication, above, says a lot about the author and the content.  Thank you, Halle, for letting us know about this book, written by the parent of a child transitioning from male to female.
Thank you, Halle, for including a link to T-Central on your blog! 


Tuesday, January 12, 2021

Freedom to be me

I've talked about my plans for fully coming out a few times already and now it is done! I am no longer hiding myself away, concealing the real me from those in my life and that is liberating in so many ways.

She can finally be herself!  Very nice post, from Jo.  

I'll also note that this is one of the nicest Blogger templates I've seen.

Thanks, Jo, for including a link to T-Central on your blog!

Tuesday, January 5, 2021

She Got That Right.

Kourtney Kardashian implicitly debunks the transphobic "autogynephilia" theory in a new article on her Poosh site. She explains why women may get aroused by their own bodies and sensuality, a kind of sexuality that is used to invalidate the identity of transgender women.
Cross Dreamers
January 1, 2021


Diana's comments on a Crossdreamers post involving Kourt.

Sunday, January 3, 2021

Not a Life Choice – Comparisons

We really need to look into ourselves and become who we were meant to be. One of the things I used to tell them was to venture into Walmart or Target and take note of all the varieties of women. Big women, short women, women kind of plump. Some dressed to the nines and some in sweats. Why are cisgender women allowed so much variety but transgender women have such a narrower space to conform to.


It's a short post, from Emma, but says a lot.

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