It is a great deal of work. Do you have the motivation? Is not-passing bearable? Does it fulfill some need for attention? Right now I don’t pass. I see that passing might have some advantages, in encounters with people uncomfortable with trans folk- certainly in job interviews-
In Passing, Clare discusses the subject in general and as it applies to her. She says that she doesn't pass. I think she's gorgeous, but aren't we always the hardest on ourselves? With the right outfit, makeup, hair, etc., many, including myself, still see him in the mirror.
Meeting my surgeon’s nurse - Progress has been made! On Friday I had a consultation with the surgeon’s nurse. I handed her the form I’d filled in, which the surgeon had given me at his...
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