Opening Up and Writting Stuff Down

I used used to question whether I was transgender or not and according to what I've read on the internet, some would say yes whilst others would say no. I'm still no clearer to be honest, but to be on the safe side I don't say I'm transgender any more and instead use the term crossdresser.  What do you think? 

Charlotte writes a bit about herself, her gender dysphoria, her stash of clothes, etc.  It's an interesting post.