I’d already been living my life as myself outside of work, and
sending around the emails didn’t really change anything on my end except
how people perceived me. For me, sending the email was almost
anticlimactic; just a task to do. I hit a button and – pop! in people’s
eyes on the other end, I transition.
Transition was all the work I’d done prior to hitting that button.
I always bookmark really good blog posts that should be featured. This one, from Heather, dates back to early April, but really deserves to get some attention. If you haven't read Meditations on Transition, you should. It's a post from a woman who is taking her transition in stride, with a positive attitude about herself and the people she works with.
The People - Personal Thoughts
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Lunch with a friend as Marian
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I'm moving with the help of pain killers these days, and can't wait until I
return from my trip to let the doctors get at me. Today could be the last ...
16 hours ago
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Driven by Passion: Finding My Dolce Vita in a Fiat 500C
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[image: Driven by Passion: Finding My Dolce Vita in a Fiat 500C]
A lifelong car lover shares a journey of finding the perfect second-hand
Fiat 500C cabrio...
18 hours ago
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"Sanctuary State"
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When Washington state refused Texas's subpoena for the records of trans
children and the records of women from Texas... it was to protect the
identities of...
1 day ago
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Sex Matters to Quakers on X
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“Sex Matters to Quakers” are a hate group masquerading as Quakers. One of
their leading lights is Robbie Spence. My Friend met Robbie, and told me
after he...
1 day ago
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Six
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Some at-home fun!
The post $5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Six appeared first on Kandi's Land!.
1 day ago
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What you should do … (reblog from 2016)
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“What you should do …” is something we’ve probably heard at various times
throughout out lives. The phrase is usually followed by some suggestion
that, upo...
1 day ago
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‘Memes and Images – 1 Sep 2026’
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** ** I have no control over those ads that appear at this web-site. The
sponsored visual presentations are not mine. Thus, I am reluctant where and
how ...
2 days ago
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The 'Ber Months
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Happy 'Ber Months! (Septem-ber to Decem-ber)
Every year I get to celebrate my birthday (Nov. 3) and favorite holiday
(Halloween) the same week. The arriv...
2 days ago
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It’s Time Once Again for One Minute with Hannah McKnight
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Hi! I am excited to share with you the second video in the new
award-winning* series ‘One Minute with Hannah McKnight’. This amazing
series takes a questio...
2 days ago
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Review: Storm Over Camelot: Book Three in the Morgan le Fay trilogy
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[image: Storm Over Camelot: Book Three in the Morgan le Fay trilogy] Storm
Over Camelot: Book Three in the Morgan le Fay trilogy by Sophie Keetch
My rating:...
3 days ago
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TGirls and their endless photos!
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I thought it was about time I updated the picture gallery here (one of the
tabs at the top). Rather than a few photos in date order I've now arranged
th...
4 days ago
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Saturday and a short outing at Starbucks.
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It is the last Saturday of August and it was a busy day for me so I only
got a short time out. It took me till 2:30 to get things I had to do done
but I di...
4 days ago
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Children are better seen than heard; really?
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When I was eight years old I went to my parents and said, hey, I think this
part of my arm is larger than the other side, while pointing towards my
left de...
5 days ago
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Warning! Warning! Danger, Will Robinson!
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In the old campy sci-fi series “Lost In Space” from the 1960s, the Robinson
family’s robot frequently threw its arms around shouting “Warning! Warning!
Dan...
1 week ago
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Go do that
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After starting to write again in 2023 it looks like I'm done here. There's
been massive change since I first began blogging with my old blog at age
49.
...
2 weeks ago
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a beaver in the Kennet and Avon Canal
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An early morning cruise; suddenly, I was aware of a large creature swimming
alongside the boat. "A beaver? Surely not- must be a muntjac.... no! not...
2 weeks ago
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Excelsior
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My weekend did not go as planned. I had been very much looking forward to
it. Despite all my murbling and worries, I had thought: the weekend will be
a l...
2 weeks ago
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And she's off
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As I start writing this, it's Friday August 14, 2026. (Here's the part
where I insert the cliche "where has the summer gone? But I know that
answer.)....
2 weeks ago
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Your partner as an attack surface
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When it comes to WordPress security, I employ numerous defense-in-depth
techniques. From a WAF to locking down WordPress core and keeping up to
date with...
3 weeks ago
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It will forever be too soon…
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Father’s Day dawned sunny and warm, a quintessentially picture perfect
morning. I called my Dad while making breakfast. Most days he barely knew
where his...
4 weeks ago
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A new look
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Hello blog,
Today I am going to try to maintain some positivity that will be a
departure from many of my past entries here.
While I have not been out as...
4 weeks ago
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Sophie Cunningham
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Enough already! Now we’re harassing teenage girls courtside? Sophie
Cunningham is against trans girls/women competing with cis girls/women. She
has her r...
5 weeks ago
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Blog Name Change
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Just a quickie - the original title of this blog had been annoying me for
some time - it was no longer appropriate so I've changed it to what it
should ...
5 weeks ago
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Serve, and be of service.
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Over the course of the evening, reference was made to the many duties
behind carried out. In reply, I said that I knew my place which drew some
laughter in...
5 weeks ago
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Update - HUD by July 29
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*Now is the time to speak up. You can make a difference.*
Federal agencies are required to review and consider public comments before
finalizing a ...
1 month ago
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Happy Non-Binary Day.
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(Yesterday now. Just. It was today when I started.)
Anyway, how did you celebrate?
I did random stuff.
- Arranged Pergolesi's *Stabat Mater* for re...
1 month ago
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A Want...or a Need
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JJ Hart Discovering her Needs
I am in the first row on the left.
When a want turns into a need, sometimes you can feel it. Other times, not
so much as if ...
1 month ago
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Normal Hormones, Big Changes
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Six months ago, I talked a little bit about how, oh, yadda yadda tumour
messing with my hormones, etc etc. Medicine blah blah blah fixing things. I
don’t...
1 month ago
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Being a Trans Woman in Britain Today
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It’s been a while since I last wrote a blog post, and so it’s about time
for a new one. However, as this may be the first blog post of mine that
some peopl...
2 months ago
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About Turn Article
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*The following is part of the campaign to support the High Court Appeal to
equalise the payments to all who had served and were forced to leave due to
th...
2 months ago
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AI Intrusion and Digital Privacy
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Hey x
I've been quiet for a while, this last 6 months or so I've just not really
been in a mentally good place. I don't know if it's the time of year or ...
2 months ago
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Anna Arendt, RIP? But first we need to get her out of the closet. March
2025. The most awful thing happened. Jay died. A long illness ending with
Five week...
2 months ago
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"Pretty Woman"
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That was it: 165 postings, 450 comments from readers, 30 followers. This
was the last outing of 2025, a good year in terms of crossdressing with a
tota...
3 months ago
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D’Iberville school officials deadname transgender student on social media
days before graduation
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https://mississippitoday.org/2026/05/22/school-deadname-transgender/
Credit: D'Iberville school officials deadname transgender student on
social media d...
3 months ago
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Interview with Us
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18 minutes of us talking about the trans, our relationship, being goth
kids, and various other things. Here’s a short piece I wrote about the
experience of...
5 months ago
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Trans children's suicides and the puberty-blocker ban.
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Durkheim changed forever the way suicide was regarded. Previously suicide
had been regarded as primarily the result of something internal to the
individu...
6 months ago
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Hand-Me-Overs and More..
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omething weird happened in the second half of last year...
[Ed: Madam is repeating herself.]
I'm what?
[Ed: This is exactly how you started the previous ...
6 months ago
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Memoir Chapter: Wall Street Assets (Pt. 1)
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Crazy Sherman was the most disgusting person I had ever met and that made
him exotic. We became lovers. And I got a different kind of education.
7 months ago
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Good Saturday to you!
I know my posting has been a bit spotty but things are busy in my world.
Here I'm offering some wildflowers as a distraction from t...
7 months ago
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Hi! :) im so sorry if this is rude just curious/wanting to learn :) i was
wondering, when you transition, do you identify with the physical aspects
of your gender or like the societal aspect? (i’m not wording this right
but) for example someone afab transitioning to male, would they ‘want’ to
be male as in the like (for lack of a better word) illusion society has
made of it (like blue, very masculine, trucks, that kind of stuff) or would
they 'want’ to be male as in the physical aspects (muscles, facial hair,
that kind of stuff) sorry if this is rude i was just wondering! ty <3
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Hi there, that's a great question.
I think it's different for everyone but for me, it was a bit of both and
then some others. There were multiple aspect...
9 months ago
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all the evidence against "transgender social contagion/ROGD" (plus an
updated timeline)!
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[image: Substack promotion image for my new essay. Background image is a
photo of a sheet of paper with an assortment of different types of graphs,
with ...
9 months ago
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2025 Update
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Looks like 7 year updates might be a thing. I've divorced much of the
transsexual world, as it has pushed into the Intersex communities and at
least in...
11 months ago
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scared.
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I’ve been thinking about this blog since November of last year and whether
it was a good thing to keep up or not anymore. To say I’m scared right now,
woul...
11 months ago
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Callie Update, next instalment
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En route for MulhouseThe short drive from Luxeuil-les-Bains to Mulhouse is
spectacular, I may well be looking for an excuse to go back and drive it
again...
1 year ago
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I’m Glasgow’s Hidden Gem by the way! 😊
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Glasgow’s Hidden Gem: Anna Secret Poet
1 year ago
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Winning a Million
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Although I haven't been very active on this blog for a while, I was
astonished to find that my hit counter is approaching a *million* hits.
This makes it...
1 year ago
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New Facebook Page for Sports Collectables
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Hi Everyone, Been a long long time since i updated this blog. Wanted to let
everyone know that i have created a Buy/Sell/Trade Facebook Group for
sports co...
1 year ago
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I'm still here!
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Excuse the swearing, but holy shit, 5 years!
So much has happened in that time, some of it awesome. Some of it
absolutely not. I have no idea who still ...
1 year ago
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Is my child’s life really worth less?
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Afraid of losing federal funding in response to a threatening executive
order released by the White House, a lot of hospitals treating children
around the ...
1 year ago
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A Return to Words: Dance, AI, and the Art of Living
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Almost nine years. That’s how long it has been since my last blog post.
Ironically, my most recent entry was about my concern for another friend
whose blog...
1 year ago
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Drag king stories #9
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I’m back to performing, after a 5 year hiatus. “Adam Andro-matic” was last
seen at a small bar downtown doing drag-aoke as a wind-up-doll to the song
“Blue...
1 year ago
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Trans persists, but is not everything
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Yes, I am still here, 12 years on, older and wiser by a street. I ran out
of steam with the trans blog years ago. After all everything had already
been sai...
1 year ago
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Life on the other side
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I am posting less because I feel there is less to post about. Just my
continuing frustrations at not being in work, not being able to continue my
treatment...
1 year ago
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ARC Review: The Greatest Superpower
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I received a copy of The Greatest Superpower from the publisher via
Netgalley in exchange for an honest review. The Greatest Superpower by Alex
Sanchez is ...
1 year ago
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social Media Integration Test 001
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just working out the kinks. (All day and all of the night)
1 year ago
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Reflecting on 8 years of being professionally trans
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Today’s my work anniversary. I’ve been at my current company now for 8
years which is also how long I’ve been out as trans at work. So here’s a
bit of refl...
2 years ago
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Out and about in my pretty sandals...
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Out and about in my pretty sandals:
Mandy
2 years ago
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Marking time…
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Well it had to happen at some point: I’ve run out of things to say again!
Way back in the earliest days of this blog, I mentioned that I’d been too
busy do...
2 years ago
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Shine
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Did progress actually stop when I felt like how things are was the place I
was happy to be? I mean I didn’t make any conscious decision to stop making
actu...
2 years ago
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Cynthia, Are you there?
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I’m not gone, still here, just really busy. 2023 has been a really
interesting year for me. I’m not going to get into great detail but suffice
to say there...
2 years ago
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Fast Forward
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I have not blogged in three years. This blog post is a short one to say
that I'm still around. I had pulled down all of my blog posts a year or
two ago...
3 years ago
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Tennis Anyone?
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Image Courtesy Renith R
on UnSplash
Years ago I felt the need to attempt to copy many of the most popular
feminine mannerisms and/or activities I could f...
3 years ago
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Kind of Curiosity
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“I’ve got to get stuff from the garage and the boots so we can clear the
table” I heard him say from behind the garden fence.“Oh, that’s ok. Go sort
it out...
3 years ago
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A Year Later
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I guess it's time. No time like the present, they say.
A year ago today, I experienced my last real feminine day. I wrote about it
in Wednesday on Saturd...
3 years ago
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ferm living glas
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*Glass & Mirrors – ferm LIVING*. WebGlass & Mirrors. We use a broad range
of types of glass in our collection. We use soda lime glass for glass
tablewar...
3 years ago
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Ponytail5
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You might only see 4 as the 1st on is hidden. I am posting this now so I
can link it to reddit. I have to say since Stephie came four years ago, I
have bee...
3 years ago
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As good a time as any
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This might be as good a time as any to stop since the beginning of another
chapter of my life seems like a duly appropriate milestone. I can now say
with...
3 years ago
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That Letter To My Wife
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Thanks for the mail I received from my last blog. It’s amazing how up
lifting your messages of support are to me. THEY DO MAKE A DIFFERENCE.
Thank you. ...
4 years ago
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Intersectionality – Do you know what it is.
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Do you know about this? Do you know how it fits in your life? I know right
now in the […]
4 years ago
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Love again.
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She looked and could not find what her heart was missing. Forgetting what
it was like to touch another Gave up the search, thinking she is cursed
Disadvant...
4 years ago
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Matt Walsh & Piers Morgan You Ain’t Trans Experts So Shut The Fuck Up!
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With the increasing inevitably of armed conflict in Ukraine, I’m sure
there’ll be an increasing frequency of barstool generals in Wetherspoons
pubs across ...
4 years ago
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Stars. Needles. Poop. Plates. Wishes.
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Aside from (very) occasionally checking my horoscope, I am not big into
astrology. That being said, however, I do kinda believe in it and its
impact on us...
4 years ago
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I’ve moved the blog!
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Continue to https://schrodingerswardrobe.blogspot.com/ for further
infrequent ramblings!
4 years ago
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(20) One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest - 1975
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First of all, as I would suggest with all these movies, before reading this
review, see the movie if you haven't. I can't talk about this one without
spo...
4 years ago
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What is “Hate Crime”?
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You have a few options if you live in Fife and need to report a hate crime.
You can report the incident directly to Police Scotland at Police Scotland
Onli...
4 years ago
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Jenna’s Journal - September 2021
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4 years ago
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Farewell
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I’ve been thinking hard about ending this blog and have decided it’s time.
When I first started this it was to leave testament of my coming out and
transit...
5 years ago
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One Year
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Yes, I've been on a one year sort of hiatus. Nothing big happened but just
got wrapped up in things. Will try and post more and start up again. No
chang...
5 years ago
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Why I Left Twitter
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in January of this year I took the difficult decision to leave Twitter. It
was necessary for my own mental health. Having reflected now for a couple
of mon...
5 years ago
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On exceptionalism
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*The exceptional Jennifer Lawrence*
Sometimes I hold my hands out, palm upwards, in the manner of a
Pentecostalist awaiting the descent of the Holy Spirit...
5 years ago
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My Best Sex Ever Was With a Trans Woman
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Why Being Intimate with Your Transgender Lover Could Be the Best Experience
of Your Life Sexual encounters can happen in different ways and between
people ...
5 years ago
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Not in my happy place . . .
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As many of you have noticed, I’ve all but stopped writing my blog these
days. I guess I really ought to get around to formally saying “I’m done
with it”...
6 years ago
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From the waist upwards [Flickr]
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Sandra M. Lopes posted a photo:
[image: From the waist upwards]
Flattr me!
6 years ago
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Elie Wiesel’s The Night Trilogy
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About a year ago, a friend of mine took me to the Amarillo Pubic Library,
where they had basement full of books they were giving away to members of
the lib...
6 years ago
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Today’s dust bunnies
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My newly discovered comfort zone has become a springboard. It reminds me of
attachment theory – a stable centre from which to venture. Each day a new,
mode...
6 years ago
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A sassy Valentine and my love for Mister Rogers.
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No glitter, plastic gems or sparkly rhinestones decorated the valentine I
gave my kid Harry this year. I’m usually drawn to cards with the same items
Har...
6 years ago
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Transitions: From My Heart to Yours
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On this day, seven years ago my world changed. I learned a new word;
transgender became part of my vocabulary. Along with that I learned about
the differen...
6 years ago
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Crossing the line in a blaze of glory
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Recently I was reading some spiritual insight and advice in which there was
a sort of breakdown of the inception and progression of a sin from fleeting
tho...
6 years ago
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The Quads of Hope
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2020 has come. It arrived in the usual way on January 1 for most of the
world that follows the Gregorian calendar, some 13 days later in the Old
Style Ju...
6 years ago
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Holding on
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“Is she going to die?” I ask the firefighter. It’s been 20 minutes
since I’ve dialed 911, my wife is lying collapsed on the living room floor
of our r...
6 years ago
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Merry Christmas to all
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Wishing you all a very merry Christmas. ❤️ ✌️ BY FOR NOW
6 years ago
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Time to Upgrade
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November 5th, 2010 - I began this blog. When I started out, I did what
many bloggers do, I headed to Blogger.com. It is a nice friendly platform
"back e...
6 years ago
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November 2019 - Life on hold for now!
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Currently life is on hold due to ongoing health issue which will sadly not
go away. Mentioned in my previous entry about an ongoing ‘virus’ which I
had fo...
6 years ago
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Bno
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My suit case for the weekend was so big it was the only thing that would
fit in the boot. Mrs Sox's rather small case had to go on the back seat.
For weeke...
6 years ago
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The Three Little Pigs Reimagined
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For a school project, CJ had to design a set for a production of The Three
Little Pigs. CJ being CJ, he insisted on reimagining the classic story and
makin...
6 years ago
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Gratitude Journal
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Caregiver fatigue for the spouse supporting the one who has depression is
real. I’ve been trying to find a new therapist since I stopped seeing mine
due to...
6 years ago
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Transferring to a new Blog
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Due to circumstances beyond my control, I am forced to close down this blog
and open up a new one. Please visit my new blog, "Dotting I's and Crossing
T...
6 years ago
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September’s Blog
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Hi folks and followers, It’s been forever since I’ve posted anything new
but it really hasn’t been that much to report. I’ve decided to do a monthly
post...
6 years ago
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Mouse Hunt
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Still shaking off the rust:
If you have delved at all into the first four or five years of posts here
(and why haven't you?!), you know that my wife's re...
7 years ago
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New Beginnings
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“Are you sure you don’t want to come along?” It’d been a few months since I
gave Pandora her tattoo, and now the small shop was completely flooded with
dre...
7 years ago
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Gabi Talks – Meeting Praise with Self Criticism (video)
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One of my favorite activities is starting conversations with random
strangers. I love meeting people and making friends! One of my “super
powers” is find...
7 years ago
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I Still Live
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It's that time of the year where I start missing my teenage years,
nevermind the fact that was the moment my life went to shit, the beginning
of the end. A...
7 years ago
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Perfect Scores Masking Critical Inadequacies and Failures in Trans Wellness
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I had a routine follow-up visit with my surgeon earlier this week to assess
healing from my procedure 3 weeks ago. The good news is that the
discomfort is...
7 years ago
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Book Launch – Transgressive: A Trans Woman on Gender, Feminism, and Politics
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“Taking unerring aim at the patriarchal transphobia that saturates our
lives, Williams’ piercing insights and vivid personal accounts capture the
heartbr...
7 years ago
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Stonewall’s radical history
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After the Noho Pride parade on Saturday, May 4th, join me in the Tri-County
Fairgrounds to hear the radical, true story of Stonewall. Continue reading →
7 years ago
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DRAB = Dressed As A Boy
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It's been kind of an up and down time for me, so about time for an
update....starting with my time with the Gems.
Eleven years ago, I joined a new trans...
7 years ago
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April 2019 - An update
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We are third of the way into the year and only my second blog entry! That
tells a story in itself I suppose and basically means it has been quiet for
me. ...
7 years ago
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12 Week-Recovery, 12-Month Relapse… & Uncelebrated Anniversaries
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About 13 months ago I wrote a euphoric post about my gender reassignment
surgery. I do remain extremely pleased about the physical result, it looks
like it...
7 years ago
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Afterword
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Thanks for stopping by and taking a look at my blog. I’m sorry to
disappoint, but all content has now been archived. This blog was a way of
recording progr...
7 years ago
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Trans Radio UK first birthday
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Friday 22nd February 2019 was Trans Radio UK’s 1st birthday. We had come
such a long way from all the ideas and planning of a radio station to those
firs...
7 years ago
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Getting one's life back
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Well, (counts...) nearly 5 months between posts is a record, even for
me. But as one might imagine, I've had other things on my mind. Surgical
recovery...
7 years ago
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Sometimes
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Sometimes I look in the mirror To make sure I’m still there I trace the
scars That I made Five … More
7 years ago
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Risk to human rights after Brexit?
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This recent article from the Guardian gave me some cause for thought
https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2019/feb/13/post-brexit-trade-partners-ask-uk-to-l...
7 years ago
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I’m Devastated
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⌈Trigger Warning; language, female body functions, eating disorder, self
harm, mention of suicide⌋ When I started testosterone my period stopped
instantly....
7 years ago
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Detaching Myself from My Dysphoria
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The other day, I was trying to imagine how my life would be different if
I’d never suffered from gender dysphoria. The point wasn’t to create a
fantasy lif...
7 years ago
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Makeup Removal
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I have lost count of all the different things I have tried or used to
remove makeup quickly and efficiently. The past couple of years I have
been using ma...
7 years ago
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GRS – 3 Surgeries and One Beautiful Nightmare (Part 1/3)
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[Content warnings for graphic depictions of bodily functions, surgery,
suicide, mental illness, swearing] This isn’t an in-depth look into GRS,
just a stor...
7 years ago
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2018 Review - Part 2
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Part 1 of my review of 2018 covered the goals I set myself. Part 2 deals
with all the other things that happened this year, and there has been quite
a bit ...
7 years ago
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Transgender Day of Remembrance
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Every year, there is a commemoration of Transgender Day of Remembrance
(TDoR) at my local LGBT drop-in centre. Fortunately, there was a lull in
the activit...
7 years ago
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Absolutely OUTstanding
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It has been quite a while since I have posted anything on this blog. Five
months, to be precise. Yet a few things have happened within the last week
or s...
7 years ago
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Post
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So a word of warning. I received a letter on Saturday from the Clydesdale
Bank asking me to activate a Gold Credit Card. Mmmm, that is odd I mused, I
haven...
8 years ago
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Turns Out I Was Right
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Seems the setbacks I deemed minor actually were minor. I’m down 1.2 lbs
from yesterday, and right back on track with where I was two days ago. I
could se...
8 years ago
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May You Find Peace
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I have made peace with myself, and can no longer in good faith leave or
recommend the content I once posted here. Those writings were my best
desperate ho...
8 years ago
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It’s been awhile
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Warning: this post is different. It talks about things that may make some
readers uncomfortable – especially ones that know me personally and in
parts it ...
8 years ago
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Panties – A Special Pleasure
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In our recent poll on lingerie that trans girls and crossdressers prefer,
panties tied for first place with 25% of the vote. I don’t profess to
having th...
8 years ago
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The merry-go-round
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It’s been 14 months since I wrote a Parenting Jeremy. Up until recently
there has been nothing really of note to write about in our lives with
respect to...
8 years ago
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Profile: Amy
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You can call me… Amy I identify as… Genderqueer/genderfluid I’m not sure??
As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them or she/her I’m attracted
to… Guy...
8 years ago
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almost daily report from DOXA 2018... indolent Spinster variety.
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Here is my report i meant to do yesterday (well i filmed it yesterday after
seeing the movie, but went to work right after, then kitty cat took up my
a...
8 years ago
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Finale
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Unfortunately, I am finding that this blog and my life is being used far
too often as a political football to promote various agendas and the actual
messag...
8 years ago
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Interesting Article on CNN - Why girls can be boyish but boys can't be
girlish
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One topic that I find fascination is the idea of shifting gender
stereotypes and how people, particularly "men" who enjoy trandtionally
"female" things, ar...
8 years ago
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Futanari Convent Book 1 & 2
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When I was preparing to notify the world about my latest book
I came across two reviews that I hadn’t read. Surprised me. I thought
Amazon wa...
8 years ago
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one more cup of coffee
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TW The hustle for work continues, which is discouraging but necessary. I’m
having relationship issues, as all anyone wants to do is date. Decided
that’s ...
8 years ago
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This Week's Calogrenant
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A Change of Venue
calogrenant.com
8 years ago
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Day 1,245: Moments Frozen in Time
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I have to admit, we had a pretty good run here at So There’s That. 21
podcast episodes and 32 blog posts over the course of a year. And a little
bit of n...
8 years ago
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Flying solo in Las Vegas – Part I
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I have had a great last 10 days. I have been on three wonderful outings in
which I did things that I have wanted to for a long time but never either
the c...
8 years ago
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Resetting the body clock
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Years ago, I mentioned that my sleep patterns were screwed up.
On new years eve, I found myself at home alone, with my wife and son having
gone to the last...
8 years ago
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Stuff people say when hearing about someone coming out…
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Whether they believe the things they say themselves is questionable, but
I think the majority of time people tend to jump to conclusions because
they’re ...
8 years ago
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Its been a while...
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I’m not really even expecting that anyone will remember me and read this,
but I did think that it was about time my long neglected blog got dusted
off and ...
8 years ago
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It is time I shared my heart...my mind and a little bit of my soul
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**update**This was written in the middle of the entire experience. We are
now settling into the changes but I wanted to share my emotions, my hurts
and m...
8 years ago
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What's in a Name?
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Many years ago, while the internet was still in its infancy, I started
looking to find out information from other transgender individuals. At that
time bul...
8 years ago
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Wednesday November 15, 2017 - HIV Protection
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Now There's An HIV Prevention App Specifically For Trans Women Each week,
LGBT HealthLink, a program of CenterLink, and researcher and blogger Corey
Prac...
8 years ago
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Patients & Providers: The Mental Health Provider’s Role
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Let's move towards a patient-centered, collaborative model of care – one
that ensures trans patients receive accurate information to help them
understand w...
8 years ago
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25 October Journal
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Well Folks, I am still working on my other post. I think it will be part of
the next book of my life, rather than the end of this one. I am closing
this bl...
8 years ago
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Why there’re no posts ?
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Hi, I decided to take out all my posts from here as it seemed to have given
some people more insight into my life than they should ever have. I seem to
hav...
8 years ago
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The Familial Revelation
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When it comes to family, I think we can all agree that it is never easy and
in a word, complicated. I have spent the last few months letting family
know ...
9 years ago
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On the Pride Center of the Capital Region, terfs, and Why Martha Harvey
Needs to Resign
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CW: lots of swears, lots of terfs (A quick aside on the word terf because
I’m going to use it about a thousand times. It’s not a slur. Here’s a
doctor tell...
9 years ago
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My friend's Rainbow Journey
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I recently met someone from Japan, one who I now consider to be my friend,
who is traveling around the world talking to Transgender folk and sharing
their ...
9 years ago
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What was said. What I’d have loved to have said. In Two Parts.
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What was Said. Part 1 *Mrs. Bellejambes* celebrated a birthday recently.
Some of the things I picked up for her were not perfect, and one was a
complete r...
9 years ago
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That’s all folks……….
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Between 1955 and 1959, 143 episodes of “The Adventures of Robin Hood”
emerged from a tiny studio in Walton on Thames and burst onto black and
white telli...
9 years ago
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That’s all folks……….
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Between 1955 and 1959, 143 episodes of “The Adventures of Robin Hood”
emerged from a tiny studio in Walton on Thames and burst onto black and
white telli...
9 years ago
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With Purpose
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The title of this post really highlights the way I’ve felt the last several
months and the experiences I’ve had the chance to take in. Since my last
updat...
9 years ago
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New Developments on the Sage Smith Case
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Today (3/30/17), the *Daily Progress* reports that THREE MONTHS AGO the
Charlottesville Police Department classified Sage Smith's disappearance as
a homici...
9 years ago
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And happily ever after...
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Family snuggle timeI've retired from blogging. I've been channeling my
creative energy into other hobbies, and I'm feeling uninspired to write
about my wi...
9 years ago
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We Need A “Standards of Care” for Detransitioners
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One of my biggest takeaways from attending the recent USPATH conference is
that many clinicians and other providers sincerely want more information on
unde...
9 years ago
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Not a good week
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I've been angry, depressed and on the verge of tears most of the week. As
an older trans person, life can throw you some crap, especially these days
with ...
9 years ago
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Stuck In The Middle Again
-
How to start? I said long ago when I made my choice to back our new
President that when he did things I felt were wrong I would call him out on
it. Today i...
9 years ago
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Are You Going To The Women’s March?
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For me, that is an easier question to answer than, “Are you a woman?” or
“What are you going as?” Yes. Donna and I will be going to the NYC Women’s
March o...
9 years ago
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Was only a reader, till now
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Me thinks it is time to write something. I’ve been reading T-Central for
almost 7 years now. I have much …
Continue reading →
9 years ago
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When my night collides with my day
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My night will collide with morning, probably without the benefit of
sleep. Too many demons this time. They just smiled, and kept on coming.
This just f...
9 years ago
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Yuletide greetings.
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*Soon be nobody left now that Leonard Cohen is gone too... Someone else who
had to deal with depression and his music soothed my troubled soul. Just
sad to...
9 years ago
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Victoria’s Secret – The Show
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Hey, so yesterday it was time for the amazing show. I haven’t seen the show
but I took a look at a lot of pictures and it seemed amazing and I can’t
wait t...
9 years ago
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More education and awareness
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“Police records show there has been a significant rise in the number of
transgender hate crimes over the last four years - from 361 attacks in the
year en...
9 years ago
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I am able to talk again
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I am back on deck and I think more in control of myself than I have been
for quite some time. Will be making more additions to this blog as I go
along. The...
9 years ago
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The cultivation corner...Marijuana master cultivation tip #1
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So you want to grow good marijuana? Don't we all!
First thing you need is some clones or some seeds. (I sell seeds. Shameless
self promotion.)
Now before yo...
9 years ago
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the thursday lunch run to Popik's Place - thur. sept 15th, 2016
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me at the local hot dog stand last thur sept 15th called "Popiks Place" on
Terrill rd. in Scotch Plains NJ
Steve Popik sells only the best quality ...
9 years ago
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September 22 2016
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Thank you. Thank you for the last four years. Thank you for letting me
into your hearts, for letting me be a part of your day, for letting me
bounce my th...
9 years ago
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My response to a post by Tyler Charles Austen
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Dear Mr Austen, On 26th August 2016, you made a post on your eponymous
blog (that means you named it after yourself) called “I Can’t Believe I’m
Saying Th...
10 years ago
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Last Post
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So this is it. The last post I’ll make here (for the foreseeable future
anyway). I’ve moved my fitness adventures over to
http://transtriathlete.com and I’...
10 years ago
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This is goodbye (A happy one)
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This is going to be my last post on It’s ok to be a glow stick. I am sad to
be saying goodbye but my life has changed dramatically and sadly, there is
no r...
10 years ago
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Identity Crisis
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I have lost my identity.
I'm not sure if I'm still mom, wife, daughter or 911 dispatcher.
If I'm not any of the above, then who am I besides lost?
10 years ago
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Goodbye
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It's been a couple of months since I last posted, despite my desire to do
an A-Z on the issues I find important. My absence was caused by many
things, but...
10 years ago
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Progress report: changes and measurements month 21
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https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1wb8kGWWGmt3HJpo_7PUiBviFdWlOzBoNlvJnJbSr2jE/edit?usp=sharing
Click on the tab ‘year 2’ for the data. Changes Boobs g...
10 years ago
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Texas Transgender Nondiscrimination Summit in Killeen July 29-30
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So yeah. Tough year. And that's why I'm about to say something I've never
said before: I'm really excited to be going to Killeen this weekend. That's
right...
10 years ago
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My Return and First Time Out… again
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I’ve been trying to collect my thoughts the last few days. They have been
a jumble of emotions, mostly good. I haven’t felt this way in a long time
and f...
10 years ago
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Good News from Oregon
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*The West is the Best. Get here and we'll do the rest. *
Long time no blog. The state of the nation at times looks bleak,
particularly after this w...
10 years ago
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Thoughts on the Orlando shooting
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There is something surreal, in moments like this, about being a privileged
member of an oppressed minority. I can breeze through airport security
with whi...
10 years ago
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Honestly Geraldine, why do you need to crossdress?
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This is the very tentative first step by a somewhat bewildered ordinary man
who discovered that at sixty years of age, I needed to crossdress. I hope
to de...
10 years ago
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The First Mothers’ Day
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If last year we celebrated the last Father’s Day, this year we introduced
the first Mothers’ Day. And yes, the apostrophe is in the right place. I
admit to...
10 years ago
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An Update
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Hi, everyone. I know, I know, I promised to start blogging again. And
that was a hell of a long time ago. I just found myself far too busy, and
far too ...
10 years ago
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Feeling Positive Again :)
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I had been feeling really down about things over the last few months and I
know that my recent posts on here haven’t been very positive about my
situation....
10 years ago
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To be or not to be – gay?
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After a nudge from my most patient follower, I thought I’d pen something I
have been thinking about posting for a while. Nicci has been on a long
journey a...
10 years ago
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My 100th post…
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This is my 100th post. I was hoping to make it a special one with a
description of another outing as Valerie, in my new modern “blending”
outfit. Unfortuna...
10 years ago
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Back on track
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It really sucked having to stop HRT at the beginning of this month. Unable
to get a prescription, and having difficulties importing what I needed to
self-m...
10 years ago
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A Sad Day in North Carolina
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North Carolina is a strange State and a great State (most of the time).
Today, it is a sad State. I have many fond childhood memories of summers
there wh...
10 years ago
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Clue
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This was a test. This was the ultimate test.
To have brought a humble being out of the woods, out of the swamp, out of
the wild
And plop it into her life a...
10 years ago
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Not sure what to say..
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I am not sure what to do, or what to say, depression is my only constant
“friend”, with me all the time, someone I hate, yet never hates me back.
Medical m...
10 years ago
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Back to the Stone Age.
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I think the song is fitting, It is not mine, the opinions on this page are
mine. In posting this video, I am in no way saying that this group believes
as I...
10 years ago
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Come Up to the Lab: My Gender Workshop
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Ever since Time Magazine proclaimed a “Transgender Tipping Point” a year
and a half ago, I’ve been exploring trans identities and expressions that
aren’t i...
10 years ago
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Time to myself
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Recently I have been lucky to have a few evenings to myself to let Jenny
out of the wardrobe. Most of these occasions have been just in my room as
usual, ...
10 years ago
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Being a Gender Critical woman born trans is a very lonely place to be
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My understanding of gender critical theory is limited.
There's no reference text anywhere explaining it, and questioning GC
theorists on their own turf nev...
10 years ago
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Blogging about it….
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I started this blog because I wanted to help people in a similar situation
to me. I was younger and never proclaimed to have all the answers.
Sometimes the...
10 years ago
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Debunking Bathroom Myths
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*Debunking Bathroom Myths*
Original article by *Brynn Tannehill *can be viewed *Here*
*When the Houston Equal Rights Ordinance was defeated, the ostens...
10 years ago
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Caitlyn Jenner Speaks at Chicago House Event
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Caitlyn Jenner Speaks at Chicago House Event:
grvsmth:
sometranslady:
grvsmth:
sometranslady:
snowflakeespecial:
This isn’t a funny story. Trying on y...
10 years ago
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Got A Little Beautified…
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Not much here, but I went out for a bit of a day, treated by a couple of
friends, and had my brows waxed and got my hair done. Here’s the results.
I s...
10 years ago
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17 Months on T Update
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17 Months on T Next week marks 17 months on T, nearly one and a half
years. I cannot believe I have not posted any update for 5 months, time
just really h...
10 years ago
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Paranoid Locker Room Fantasies (mostly about naked Trans bodies)
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Remember the 80’s sex comedy? This is where men learned what girls did in
the locker room (or conversely where women learned what men fantasized
about what...
10 years ago
-
Coming soon
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[image: Coming soon]
10 years ago
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Still Here
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I realized last week that I hadn’t written a blog…or a Facebook post…or a
journal entry…or much of anything in five or six months. Part of me was
bothered ...
10 years ago
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A SHORT VID
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10 years ago
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Stronger
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So I think it is safe to say that Keira is getting stronger or at the very
least more prevalent. I’ve been getting more confident doing certain
things, I k...
10 years ago
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Through The Looking Glass
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I’m not sure exactly when it happened, but it did. That is, I stopped
considering myself “transitioning.” What does that mean, exactly? Am I
where I want t...
11 years ago
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Finishing therapy
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I looked back to refer to other blog posts about the CBT I have been having
and found none, realising that I had not written anything about it since I
star...
11 years ago
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*Hey!*
So... tomorrow school begins again.
This schoolyear I am planning to come out and start dressing, acting,
talking, etc. like a girl. Honestly, it's ...
11 years ago
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Can you Rewrite History & Eliminate Hate?
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I read about an attempt to remove another civil war memorial. I shook my
head. It’s obviously an over-reaction to the recent attacks on churches.
With tha...
11 years ago
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Transition Is A Banquet
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Transition is not a one-way street, or a bowling lane with the bumpers up.
Transition is not a recipe with precise measurements, or a fixed
curriculum, or ...
11 years ago
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It’s Inherent
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The frequency and unexpectedness with which being transgendered asserts
itself is ever a source of amazement. Regardless of how deeply in
background one ma...
11 years ago
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The Biggest Changes Come in the Smallest Packages
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I know my posts have been lacking for the past year but I have done a lot
of soul-searching and cleanup around my home and in my life to prepare
myself to ...
11 years ago
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Telling a Friend
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I recently told a friend about Amy. I didn't go into many details or show
him pictures or anything, but it felt good to talk about and get a positive
reac...
11 years ago
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My Friend Beth
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A few weeks ago, I said that I wasn't going to be linking to trans-articles
unless something special occurred. There were so many stories that they
weren'...
11 years ago
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On Reconciling my Beliefs, Depression and Gender
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Howdy. Sorry it's been a while, I am simply the most infrequent blogger in
the world... I've been buried under piles of work for what seems like
forever, a...
11 years ago
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End game...
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So things didn't get better...I slipped further and last Tuesday I went to
my scheduled appointment...when she saw me the choices were go home for a
matter...
11 years ago
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Handbags & Glad Rags……….
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I always feel a bit rotten about writing a new post when I have so many
posts from others to …
Continue reading →
11 years ago
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Commenters and deep thoughts
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I would like to start by apologizing for the long break between posts. A
little thing called life intervenes and my writing suffers. Family, health,
work, ...
11 years ago
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Visibility
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i am a transman. I chose to medically transition so now I am on the other
side of the binary. Being visible for me now means continuing to advocate
for fr...
11 years ago
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Early attempts to deal with my feminine feelings (chapter 2 of my book, My
Transvestite Addictions)
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I began feeling like I wanted to be a girl when I was 10. All these years
later, it’s hard to explain why. It was just like a feeling and knowledge
that c...
11 years ago
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Shutting down
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I've decided that I am not, after all, the blogging type.
I never managed it in my other identity either, so I don't know why I
should be surprised.
So,...
11 years ago
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Could it really be THAT easy?
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So, not going to get too excited here, but bear with me, kay? Last night, I
decided to talk to Phyl about her withdrawals and pulling away. I wanted to
try...
11 years ago
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One Year as Me!
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Dianne Piggott
10/30/2013
One year. Just one year. One entire year. All of one year. One circle of
the Earth around the Sun.
A year ago t...
11 years ago
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Cumberbatch and his offense offence
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Poor old Benny Cumberbatch…him and his big old posh, ex slave owning gob.
Actually I feel for the bloke. Trying to do his best for British actors of
colour...
11 years ago
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Coming out on Facebook.
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I have a relatively small number of friends on facebook, I keep it that
way, I don’t add anyone I meet. Everyone on my friends list is actually my
friend o...
11 years ago
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Transgender Q&A
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When it comes to the subject of transgender and the LGBT community, I think
that there are three different types of people. The first (and the fastest
gro...
11 years ago
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I is for Identity Politics
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Hello all. For my first post of 2015, I am going back to blogging through
ye old alphabet. Today I is for identity politics. Identity politics are
how ...
11 years ago
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Leelah, and all the others who struggle
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Happy New Year!
I'm so sorry I don't update regularly! I have been off school for a couple
weeks, so I have no good excuse, but I hope you all had a wonder...
11 years ago
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A New Christmas with family
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As anyone can expect the end of the year can bring surprises and lots of
joy to one's heart and soul. This year is really an exception for Kay and
I, as w...
11 years ago
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Saying goodbye
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The time has come for me to say goodbye and put this blog to bed. I doubt
anyone reads it anymore, but I’m the type of person who likes closure, so I
gue...
11 years ago
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Xmas 2014
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I thought I should drop a post in, and wish everyone a happy Xmas.
If you should be reading this, and you are a Pagan like my son, or any of
the non-christ...
11 years ago
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11-18-2014 Entry: Pulling Back the Transgender Curtian
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Two days from now will be Transgender Day of Remembrance, which I am sad to
say that before this year, I knew nothing about. I just finished scrolling
thro...
11 years ago
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No Big Deal
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My daughter started high school last month.
The other night she told my wife and me that there's a transgender girl in
her homeroom. During the summer ...
11 years ago
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I finally legally exist!
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On July 1st, 2014 it finally happened. The law that made it impossible for
me and many others like me to change their gender on any official documents
drop...
11 years ago
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A Controversial Stance On The Word “Queer”
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Controversial new video about the use of the word queer in the LGBT
community.
11 years ago
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8 Steps on How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Immediately
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If you are trying to get your ex boyfriend back, but are fighting and get
no results, then you should know this is a common thing that tons of girls
go thr...
11 years ago
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Pigtails
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Last night as I was hugging Kegan good night, I started playing with her
hair and realized her hair is at that almost long enough to put into a
super short...
11 years ago
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She Returns
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Gee, that was a long time coming, wasn't it?
I managed to survive from February to July at the Good Samaritan House at
Westgate. This is a Christian-run fa...
12 years ago
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July 18th 2014
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I know I haven't posted in a long time, things have just gotten crazy
around here. We were finally able to get pregnant with our third, and
recently found...
12 years ago
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been proven wrong
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I have had many people walk in and out of my life. And a lot of them have
been anything but nice to me. Over the years most of my friend have turn
against...
12 years ago
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Tumor no more
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On January 8, 2012 I was informed that the fight to live was over, I would
not be getting my last Chemo treatment, all scans have no cancer traces in
them ...
12 years ago
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Vote for Sophia
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I'm running in a mock election and I need your votes. You might be asking
why I need your vote, and *how in the heck did I wind up in politics?* Well,
my...
12 years ago
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A Question
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So, I've been doing this girl thing for a while now.
It's good, but there is some weirdness...
Has anyone else experienced this?
[Bumps into a doorjam, o...
12 years ago
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Day 105: Whiskey Aging… DONE!
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So after nearly 3 and a half months it’s done! I ended up with a bottle
and a half of sweet, dark whiskey. It’s amazingly easy to do. At this
point, I’m ...
12 years ago
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Sweeping the Ashes
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“Things change. And friends leave. Life doesn't stop for anybody.”
“I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems
don't rhyme...
12 years ago
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Another new chapter
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*or the next stop on the timeline...*
*Anyway, as some of you may remember, in a galaxy, far, far..wait, wrong
story.*
*I married my other half 13 years a...
12 years ago
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I'm coming out and I want the world to know...
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As the weeks went by I've became more and more emboldened with my
transition. I started buying more clothes, and started laser hair removal.
On Christmas...
12 years ago
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Link to my daughter’s blog post
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Here’s something my daughter posted today… Hexydezimal A fallen angel
returns. hexydezimal.wordpress.com Questions for the Transgender Community
Happy bela...
12 years ago
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Three Unwise Men
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Yet another bawbag is frothing at the mouth.
This latest cretinous oaf, a Russian actor of whom this reporter at least
has never heard, says he would "stuf...
12 years ago
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Hanging in, hanging out, hanging on
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It has been a while since I have posted anything here. Up to this point, I
have maintained this blog as a combination of sporadic articles, and the
occasio...
12 years ago
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I Dreamed a Dream in Times Gone By...
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This past week has been especially difficult because of the second coming
out of 'Marcy' Michael's female alter gender identity. My strife is
entirely i...
12 years ago
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I've finally finshed what I started.
-
It's been quite a while since I've written. Again, not because there was
nothing to say. On the contrary, there's been plenty going on. I have
been una...
12 years ago
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Enough
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Originally posted on Nuclear Unicorn:
My approach to Cathy Brennan has long mirrored my approach to Ann Coulter;
I generally refuse to dignify their delibe...
12 years ago
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(S)he said, (S)he said...
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My friend Sarah from Britain and I write back and forth keeping each other
up to date on family and how we are doing. Sarah is the author of the only
guest...
12 years ago
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Transgender children: 3 British case studies
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I was recently asked to speak at the NSPCC about the issues trans children
face. As part of my talk I read out three case studies, published below.
All nam...
13 years ago
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Hatred, Transphobia & Twitter storms..
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I'm far from surprised that this has blown up like it has.. To be honest it
was only a matter of time, Trans people put up with an awful lot, I don't
want ...
13 years ago
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The Wedding and the Beach House
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It was a balmy June Saturday in Napa valley, California. The winery
Heather’s cousin Rosalind had chosen for the wedding was beautifully placed
amidst rol...
14 years ago
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Retrospect - Spring 2011 - The Highs and Low of being a TGirl
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Widemouth Bay, CornwallBy the spring of 2011 I felt that things were going
quite well and that with my new image I was well on the well to achieving
the g...
14 years ago
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Trans on TV, A Word Of Caution
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Since the airing of My Transsexual Summer and the enormous reaction it
caused, both in the trans community and the wider public I have been aware
of a numb...
14 years ago
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A BLOG ON BLOGGER? OLDER POSTS FOUND BY LINK.
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After a flat out hectic two months I am sitting here with no pressing
commitments except perhaps to try and cure this terrible cough and sore
throat. In th...
17 years ago
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