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Honestly, a part of me felt prettier than I had ever felt in my life. In
the past five years I've gotten so much better at makeup, two years of
HRT has helped to sculpt my face, and I've been working my way to a
healthier weight.
Faith prefers the brunette look but oh does she rock the look as a Blonde Bombshell. You'll love this post. It's about fashion, shopping and hair.....with lots of pictures of this absolutely gorgeous girl.
The People - Personal Thoughts
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States!
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Two states surprisingly did the right thing and one state is doing what is
expected from a Republican controlled state.
Surprise! Surprise!
*Tennessee bec...
9 minutes ago
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GENEVIEVE'S GEMS
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*There is nothing impossible to him who will try.*
~Alexander The Great
38 minutes ago
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no one pushing but me
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I am slated to see Dr. Morris again in July and to be honest I don’t
exactly know what I am going to say to him. After meeting me, he was open
to letting m...
1 hour ago
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Cosmo Girl?
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As I have mentioned previously here in *Cyrsti's Condo,* I have become a
regular reader of "Cosmopolitan Magazine." Of all places, I started to read
it in ...
4 hours ago
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Stonewall and gender diversity
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Are there really 600,000 trans people in the UK? That would be nearly 1% of
the population. Most of that half million would never consider transition,
and ...
9 hours ago
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“Snacks and Beverages”
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There are days, and there are days. Days you so look forward to, sometimes
disappoint. Then there are the simple days when the extraordinary happen.
This w...
10 hours ago
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Palm Beach Super Car Week - A Gallery Show
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Art Show in Delray Beach
This time of year Palm Beach has events going to entertain. The many that
travel south to escape the cold and snow need something...
10 hours ago
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Infectious Affection
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Believe it or not, my previous post ("Affection") was inspired by the Boston
Red Sox.
Tuesday evening, the MLB Network showed two documentaries back-to-b...
14 hours ago
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It's hard to believe that started my volunteer stint a little earlier than usual...
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When I got up today, I knew I had to get moving early - my cleaning lady
was coming sometime in the afternoon, and I didn't want to have her see me
in Ma...
15 hours ago
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30 DAYS!
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Yes! Yes! Yes! I did it……So what do I think about the adventure? Well, a
lot has changed and some changes are very exciting for me. Weight loss,
Food Taste...
23 hours ago
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Heart-broke
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I shouldn’t need to do this. Unlike last Valentines Day, I’m working. I
actually now have two steady jobs! Those of you who read this blog
regularly know M...
1 day ago
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Men of the Skull Chapter 43: Letter from Judy II
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Yes, another one that I didn't write.
Judy was concerned. She didn't know how I felt. She wasn't the only one
because neither did I.
Soon enough, things...
1 day ago
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Cupids Lament
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[Dark Emotion Warning] I’m naturally a glass-is-half-empty kind of person,
please don’t read this if you are having a tough time with relationships.
This i...
1 day ago
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I am not ashamed to be transgender
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Shame: a painful feeling of humiliation or distress When I asked my son
(who is transgender) what kind of impact our support had, he looked me
straight in ...
1 day ago
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When it’s Spring Again
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Ok they’re not tulips, and they’re probably not from Amsterdam. Oh, and I
suppose it’s not technically Spring yet either. However, sometimes we all
need a...
1 day ago
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Risk to human rights after Brexit?
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This recent article from the Guardian gave me some cause for thought
https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2019/feb/13/post-brexit-trade-partners-ask-uk-to-l...
2 days ago
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Wavy hair! [Flickr]
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Sandra M. Lopes posted a photo:
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2 days ago
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the cartography of deer
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This snow has let the deer redraw the map.
Now waymarked paths lie buried in the drifts,
and hoofprints thread the beechwoods to the rifts
of new-scraped v...
2 days ago
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Cold wintery night at Starbucks
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Okay it is Sunday and I am going to venture out for a little Starbucks
time. Now we had a few inches of snow Friday night and they were
forecasting more Sa...
2 days ago
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OBSESSION by Kelli
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First thing first, I'm not talking about the perfume. I'm talking about
our little ol' minds taking in something, not being able to forget it, and
consta...
2 days ago
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My weirdest boss ever…
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It was 2004 and I’d just moved the kids and I to a high rise complex. Then
I got a job at the doughnut store across the street. It was almost perfect.
Ther...
2 days ago
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Floral Obsession
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Black Floral Print Tea Dress
Recently I've found myself becoming obsessed with floral dresses which as
led to me purchasing not one but several of th...
2 days ago
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Feeling Normal
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Life is a study in contrasts. You don't know excitement until you've
experienced boredom. You don't know peace unless you've felt pain.
I know in my heart ...
2 days ago
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Carolyn–The adventure begins
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I thought I’d tell my crossdressing tale in two parts. The second part,
where I make my first public appearance as Carolyn hasn’t happened yet; it
will ha...
3 days ago
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It's Just A Ball Game? & The FA Chairmans reception
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Life just seems to whizz by so quickly. I need to be more attentive and
keep my blog updated more regularly. It is not as if I don't have lots of
blog pos...
3 days ago
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When transition just isn’t enough anymore
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Hey everyone, I am finally back to my blog, which feels wonderful as well
as scary. It is not because all that much has happened, or because there
has been...
3 days ago
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Little Black (Mesh) Dress!
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This is the second outfit that I wore for my teeny-tiny photo shoot with
Shannonlee last month. When I first started to dress beyond lingerie, I
was rea...
3 days ago
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You’ve got a friend in me
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I asked my counsellor to call me Dee for the first time last session, I
think I want to see how it feels to be called it in real life. Turns out it
feels c...
3 days ago
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Going to the Dogs
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K and I are alpha one and two to "the girls", a pack of three miniature
dachshunds. As K says, they are 'love me' dogs and nothing I'm going to
mention bel...
4 days ago
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A bit of Ferroequinology from the 1970's:
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Came across the following interesting sight, derailed in the snow in rural
PA during the 1980's.
The raillroad sent an engine from a nearby terminal to re...
4 days ago
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Sleeping on tour, when it's very cold outside
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Those four views look pretty bleak, don't they? They were taken on 20th
April 2010, travelling north on the A836 between Crask and Tongue in the
far north ...
4 days ago
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Womanhood: of Vulvas, Gender and Sex
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This is a very interesting if long read.
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/feb/09/me-and-my-vulva-100-women-reveal-all-photographs
It discusses...
4 days ago
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Flashy Lashes!
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One may have thought that on a morning like this I would wake with a smile
on my face and a spring in my step. Today was after all going to be the
day th...
4 days ago
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I’m Devastated
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⌈Trigger Warning; language, female body functions, eating disorder, self
harm, mention of suicide⌋ When I started testosterone my period stopped
instantly....
4 days ago
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Lost essentials
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Last year when I moved house I had an accident right whilst I was actually
doing the removals. Most of my things are in a self-storage depot but one
box I ...
5 days ago
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If It Ain’t Broke
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Been thinking about revamping the page a little. Whether it actually
happens remains to be seen. Procrastination is my middle name. It’s not
that I think t...
5 days ago
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Whirlwind
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So many of my blogs start this way these days, and I am sorry about that. I
dislike being repetitive, but I am truly unsure where to start on this one
si...
5 days ago
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Finances and the LGBTQ community
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It’s been long-known and proven over and over that, in general, people who
identify as LGBTQ are worse off, financially. Discrimination at work and
within...
5 days ago
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Update 2019
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2018 ended on some high notes and 2019 seemed to be going fairly well,
until recently. Starting off 2019 with a Break A few weeks ago I was in an
accident ...
6 days ago
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We Must Endure!
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Many in the transgender community feel under siege. The current
administration continues its attacks on transgender people. All of the
Obama era protectio...
6 days ago
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What to wear, what to wear?
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Hi,
A long time ago, on a computer somewhere far, far, away I signed up to a
retailer's feedback forum. Surveys and questions come and go with fairly
long...
1 week ago
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I got the white powder from the mother-in-law!
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It was only 6 posts ago that I was showing you all the Christmas presents I
received. Which obviously means I don't post that often because not much
happen...
1 week ago
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#148 – Because I can do art once in a while
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https://www.deviantart.com/julieannem/art/SketchWIP-2019-2-6-2135-AZMT-784546398
I did mention I had a deviantArt account, right?
I did also mention on h...
1 week ago
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‘Republi-cons Quoted – Make Believe It’s Not Just Madness’
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* ‘Republi-cons Quoted – Make Believe It’s Not Just Madness’ (05 Feb 2019)
* The ‘Wall’ and Crooked Drumpf’s Shut-down #1 … boasted, then denied.
Drumpfian...
1 week ago
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Harvesting a book
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https://stefaniwrites.wordpress.com/2019/02/05/harvesting-a-book/
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1 week ago
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Finding the good in the bad
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Even though it’s been very mild on the whole, it has been a very long and
lonely winter. Severe bouts of depression have been interrupted by our
transgende...
1 week ago
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Harvesting a book
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Why do I do this to myself? I have never made an attempt to publish a
damned thing, and yet here I am, sitting in front of my laptop, trying to
get into wr...
1 week ago
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New research shows that gender variance does not follow sexual orientation
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*New research indicate that as many as one third of non-transgender people
may dream about being or presenting as the opposite gender. Crossdreaming
is c...
1 week ago
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Somewhere, nowhere.
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The decks were cleared some more the other day. It wasn’t much but it was
a further step along some pathway or another. The Twitter profile had its
profil...
1 week ago
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GRS – 3 Surgeries and One Beautiful Nightmare (Part 3/3)
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[Content warnings for graphic depictions/images of bodily functions,
surgery, suicide, mental illness, swearing] This is Part III of my little
tale about h...
1 week ago
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Outgrow
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It flickered sharp blue, lilac, ice white and pink randomly. I watched that
star for a moment as it captivated me as it always does. Two stars entwined
wit...
1 week ago
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Five Years of HRT
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It will be five years of continuous estrogen therapy* for me on the 6th of
February 2019. Over that span of time my body has changed shape to follow
ancien...
1 week ago
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Windmill Mcturbineface
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A while back I mentioned wind turbines and how I generally thought them to
be a good thing aesthetically and in filling our need for electric
especially ...
1 week ago
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Detaching Myself from My Dysphoria
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The other day, I was trying to imagine how my life would be different if
I’d never suffered from gender dysphoria. The point wasn’t to create a
fantasy lif...
1 week ago
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Reality
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One evening about two weeks after Dana’s gender reassignment surgery I had
let the dog out before turning in for bed. He scampered out the front door
and w...
2 weeks ago
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Forever young
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This will most likely be my last blog post here. I started it in January
2012, and I suspect my brains have said all they need to (at least on the
subject ...
2 weeks ago
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The All-New Ralph In A Dress 2.0
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Can you believe I started this site 10 years ago? It originally came about
because I’d get into discussions with crossdressers and when I described my
nonc...
2 weeks ago
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RIP Alison Laing
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It doesn’t matter if you know it’s coming or not – the news of the death of
someone you loved and respected is always hard to hear. From Dallas Denny:
Alis...
2 weeks ago
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The Covington High School Racists
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People keep trying to exonerate those Covington High School students based
on a little additional footage. So, since people want to introduce even
more foo...
2 weeks ago
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You need to worry about this
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In late November 2018, I was asked by my doctor if I could be available for
media interviews in late January. St Michael’s Hospital in Toronto had
conducte...
2 weeks ago
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New podcast episode: Eleven
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It’s official: She’s a tween. It seemed like a good time to sit down and
ask my 11-year-old about her world, and get a snapshot of what she thinks
and how ...
2 weeks ago
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Diversity awareness with my industry peers
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NLNOG has an all inclusive policy, which is repeated each meeting. So it
was about time that I confirmed that having such a policy is a good thing
and work...
3 weeks ago
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The Issue is Transphobia
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Hbomberguy's fundraiser for Mermaids did an awful lot more than raise
$336,000+ for Mermaids, the inspirational charity that supports trans
children, and ...
3 weeks ago
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Purging -- Part 2
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Last month I wrote about how I have emotional attachments to everything in
my closet. I'm thinking there are many others like me.
Occasionally I am asked...
3 weeks ago
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my thoughts on Twitter, tagging, subtweeting, & blocking
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I *joined Twitter* back in 2011 and, for the most part, I've appreciated
the experience – it is the social media platform that I spend the most time
on. It...
3 weeks ago
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Shutdown but Out in Maine
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On SnowshoesThree weeks of *Furlough-di, Furlough-da!* are coming to an
end. Funds were mysteriously found last Thursday with which to pay State
Departme...
3 weeks ago
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Post-Holiday Update: Taking a Ribbing
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Hello all. I'm trying to post a bit more regularly, mostly to write about
something other than software (my day job). Work is crazy right now, so
this wi...
3 weeks ago
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New Year; New Starts; New...........
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I'm feeling rather annoyed, I had drafted most of this post the other day
and was just tidying it up when my computer crashed, it appears that I
hadn't sav...
3 weeks ago
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A Belated Escape
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Anyone who has followed this blog from the early days (assuming anyone has)
will know that it has been a long-standing desire of mine to change my
current ...
4 weeks ago
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Anniversary and end of an era...
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It is that time of year again, an anniversary of note, the start of bliss
with my absolute deletion of facebook seven years ago. Unlike those who
invent...
4 weeks ago
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The Leader Of The Misfits
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I met him when I was in high school. His presence and personality were
large and intimidating. He was the wood shop teacher. The “bad kids” and
“losers” lo...
4 weeks ago
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January 2019 - A New Year but what next?
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The first entry of the New Year but first I need to conclude 2018!
Well the major family event went expected with the lovely sound of the
little patter of...
4 weeks ago
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Deciding who I want/need to be…..
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“I have a perfectly healthy brain. It just doesn’t contain feelings. And
that doesn’t necessarily make me a bad person. It just means I have to work
a litt...
4 weeks ago
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Gender equality, ambivalence and Athena SWAN
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This morning I was delighted to see that an article about Athena SWAN I
co-authored with Charikleia Tzanakou has been pre-published online.
Entitled ‘Moder...
4 weeks ago
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Forwards... and backwards
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Shantel VanSanten: red-hot even in black-and-whiteI haven’t posted on this
blog for a couple of years now. Regular readers – I seem to have a few;
thank y...
4 weeks ago
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Biological Sex and Transgender People
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I’ve nothing against trans people, but they are not … It’s fun to work out
how many ways you can say a trans person is either of no gender or
definitely th...
4 weeks ago
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Reminiscing .....
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I was browsing the internet today and found a post by a newly ‘out’ girl
who had just set up a new website for trans women to chat on and pass on
informati...
5 weeks ago
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Why you need to reject the idea of “passing” as cis
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There is so much pressure, both in the cisnormative world around us and
from other trans people, to achieve some level of "passing" where people on
the str...
1 month ago
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2019 – Year of the Pursuit – Part 2
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I was going to name it differently, but then last min when I was writing
the title, I remembered that the pursuits in our lives don’t just end, they
just g...
1 month ago
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Happy New Year
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Happy New Years everyone, I hope you all have a merry New Year’s where ever
you are in this world. ✌️ ❤️ BY FOR NOW Advertisements
1 month ago
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Notes for a sketch - thinking on Mermaids
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Small cafe, two middleaged women, A and B, sitting down at a table talking
in Northern English accents.
A - So whats been happening whilst I've been down So...
1 month ago
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Pronouns again.
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“Just Do It,” Lynn said. Just write. Okay, so. And as it happens I do have
something to write about...
The problem of pronouns has surfaced again. I got re...
1 month ago
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2018 Review - Part 2
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Part 1 of my review of 2018 covered the goals I set myself. Part 2 deals
with all the other things that happened this year, and there has been quite
a bit ...
1 month ago
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Progress, slowly slowly.
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So things seem now to be heading in a scary but ultimately more positive
direction for me at last. After a recent discussion with my wife she now
seems to ...
1 month ago
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Seasonal Reflections 2018
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The festive season sometimes feels like the world taking a deep breath at
the end of the year, a kind of reflective pause before we all set about
whatever ...
1 month ago
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Nothing to Say...
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Just kidding. I have some stuff to say, my loyal readers.
I'm sorry I haven't kept up with this blog, but do you people really want
to know each week that ...
1 month ago
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What's the big deal about Political Correctness?
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What does being "Politically Correct" mean? According to Merriam-Webster
Online, it means "conforming to a belief that language and practices which
could ...
1 month ago
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Still Alive
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Been a really rough and busy few months. I do have a new job working for a
school district. Nice to be in a liberal environment again and not have to
keep ...
2 months ago
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Anna Claus
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This week has seen possibly the best 2 shows I’ve done in a long time if
ever. I’m my own harshest critic so I rarely think I’ve done well but I got
lucky ...
2 months ago
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First time doing one of these comparison pictures with my scruffy beard. Pre-T vs 4 years on T. ...
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First time doing one of these comparison pictures with my scruffy beard.
Pre-T vs 4 years on T. Hard to believe I’m the same person! I love doing
these b...
2 months ago
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Transgender Day of Remembrance
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Every year, there is a commemoration of Transgender Day of Remembrance
(TDoR) at my local LGBT drop-in centre. Fortunately, there was a lull in
the activit...
2 months ago
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see postings on facebook 11 17 2018
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i haven't posted anything in awhile mainly because i spend most of my
posting time on facebook.
so any of my followers can catch up on my postings there
2 months ago
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Nails III - Press on Nails - Part Four
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[Ed: Dear Reader, please find a link to Part Three or Part One if you
landed here via an exteral link.]
hile writing this mega post I went browsing in...
2 months ago
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Is Wanting Enough?
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In my recent post The Transgender Debate Over Wanting Vs. Needing, the
discussion arose from an article I had read by Andrea Long Chu, were she
says "My...
2 months ago
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Now is the Time for Inclusive Education
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Scotland is to become the first country in the world to have
LGBTI-inclusive education embedded across the national school curriculum.
On 8 November 2018, ...
2 months ago
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An open letter to River Valley Co-op member-owners
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If Northampton wants a fair and cooperative natural foods market, we need
to act now. It was the first week of January, and we’d just had our first
big sto...
2 months ago
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Home alone
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Lately, I’m pleased to say that I’ve have a very strong sense of being
stable and sane. I’m not letting it lull me into a false sense of ease or
flirtatio...
3 months ago
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I Cannot Breathe
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I cannot breathe. Another mass shooting. Another presidential hissy fit.
Another group of strangers throwing hate at an entire community of people –
those ...
3 months ago
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Time to Say Goodbye
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In honor of Samhain and Scorpio season, I’m making a decision to clear
something from my life that hasn’t really been active for a while. I’ll no
longer be...
3 months ago
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Absolutely OUTstanding
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It has been quite a while since I have posted anything on this blog. Five
months, to be precise. Yet a few things have happened within the last week
or s...
3 months ago
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They can't take it away from me
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So then. Here I am, in a nightie and dressing gown, on my friend's
sofa with my feet propped up. Safe and warm, about 10 days after having my
GRS. Alm...
3 months ago
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Not being heard
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I often feel like no one hears when I say something about my rights because
they chalk it up to just being about politics. They put a deaf ear to my
clari...
3 months ago
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Life Update
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Where has this blog been? Where have I been? Where am I going?
4 months ago
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Drag Queen Story Hour: Where dress-up is real!
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Drag Queen Story Hour (DQSH) is just what it sounds like. Fabulous drag
queens reading storybooks to children in public libraries, schools and
children’s...
4 months ago
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Ok, just to spout out an opinion and my understanding of UMBRELLAS.
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There often and lately seems to be a question of who is trans? Who is more
trans? Who suffers more? Who has it harder? Who is an ally and who is part
of th...
4 months ago
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Gabi Talks – Suicide is Not the Solution (video)
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Trigger warning: This video contains personal suicide experience details.
Approximately half the transgender population has attempted suicide, myself
inclu...
4 months ago
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Diagnosis
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It was excruciating. The pain burned all the way up my rib cage to my
shoulder. Even liquid morphine was struggling to keep it at bay. It was
dark and arou...
5 months ago
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Brighton
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So last Tuesday we took ourselves orf to spend a couple of days away and
stay with friends in Brighton. Well it got slightly extended and we came
home on S...
5 months ago
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9-3-2018 Treatment Journal Entry #3
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Hello my darlings. As might be expected I found myself having difficulty
finding the time to write a third entry until now. In truth there were
times when ...
5 months ago
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From 1981. DES.
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5 months ago
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Turns Out I Was Right
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Seems the setbacks I deemed minor actually were minor. I’m down 1.2 lbs
from yesterday, and right back on track with where I was two days ago. I
could se...
6 months ago
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Crash
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Literally...
Wow, I can't beleive how long it is since I wrote the last post.
Firstly, I am doing well with the not calling myself stupid.
And whilst I am...
6 months ago
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Review of The Fence by Lusty Soul
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At one time in my life — for most of it actually — I was a male of the
species. As I read this story by Lusty Soul, long forgotten memories of the
overpow...
6 months ago
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May You Find Peace
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I have made peace with myself, and can no longer in good faith leave or
recommend the content I once posted here. Those writings were my best
desperate ho...
6 months ago
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Dear Youngest Daughter
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When we transition, so many #girlslikeus can lose family. The reasons are
not always straightforward. Family might do their best to stand by us. My
fami...
6 months ago
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Empathetic electrologist highlights ‘Transgender Profiles’
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There’s a classic TV commercial for hair-dyeing (as they used to call it
back then) with the tagline “Does she or doesn’t she: only her hair dresser
knows ...
6 months ago
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Bikini Tan Lines
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Today I am talking about why you should try tanning in a bikini
6 months ago
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How cis lesbians can challenge transphobia after London Pride
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Content note: This blog mentions transphobia, violence and sexual violence
The events at London Pride inflicted huge distress and threat on trans
people. ...
6 months ago
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It’s been awhile
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Warning: this post is different. It talks about things that may make some
readers uncomfortable – especially ones that know me personally and in
parts it ...
6 months ago
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More Thinking. More Progress? Destination?
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So, in light of recent events and how things have changed over the last few
years, as well as finding my mind wandering, questioning what is going on,
I ha...
7 months ago
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Panties – A Special Pleasure
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In our recent poll on lingerie that trans girls and crossdressers prefer,
panties tied for first place with 25% of the vote. I don’t profess to
having th...
7 months ago
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The merry-go-round
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It’s been 14 months since I wrote a Parenting Jeremy. Up until recently
there has been nothing really of note to write about in our lives with
respect to...
7 months ago
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Redefining Realness
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It’s been…..well….like forever since I’ve done a blog post.
There are reasons. Looking back at my blog, much of it is superficial. I’m
a pretty priva...
7 months ago
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Next steps
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Hello blog -
Yesterday marked an anniversary of sorts for me as it was 5 years ago to
the day that I officially came out as Jaclyn to my wife and started to...
8 months ago
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6 weeks and free to roam
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Well, failed at the 2 week updates already. Seems life has a way of doing
that now a days. Been busy getting back to work, kids getting out of
school, bein...
8 months ago
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Profile: Alex
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You can call me… Alex I identify as… Gender-fluid/non-bianary As far as
third-person pronouns go, … they/them and female pronouns sometimes he/him
feels ri...
8 months ago
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This Ain’t About Jobs (10/20/17)
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Maybe you saw or heard about the memo put out by Attorney General Jeff
Sessions on October 4th that essentially ordered the Justice Department to
do a comp...
8 months ago
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Last indolent Spinster Almost Daily Report from DOXA 2018
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My last laconic lazy one take video chatting about the last couple days of
the festival DOXA 2018
9 months ago
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I live
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Haven't posted since July 2017, that's a new record for me. Things haven't
really changed, if I were to put any effort in this post it would be just a
repe...
9 months ago
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What’s the difference between Channel 4’s Genderquake and Jerry Springer?
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Optics, not content. Writing for The Huffington Post on the exploitation of
trans people and out of date controversy. Read it here:
https://www.huffingtonp...
9 months ago
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Things a Phlebotomist Might Say*
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"Which arm is best for you?"
"Roll up your sleeve."
"You may feel a little prick."
Nope.
"Why do you shave your arm hair?"
Keep in mind that I live my li...
9 months ago
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Finale
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Unfortunately, I am finding that this blog and my life is being used far
too often as a political football to promote various agendas and the actual
messag...
9 months ago
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Finale
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Unfortunately, I am finding that this blog and my life is being used far
too often as a political football to promote various agendas and the actual
messag...
9 months ago
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Interesting Article on CNN - Why girls can be boyish but boys can't be girlish
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One topic that I find fascination is the idea of shifting gender
stereotypes and how people, particularly "men" who enjoy trandtionally
"female" things, ar...
10 months ago
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Love the kid you've got, not the one you wish you had
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Parents of LGBTQ kids, or any kids, even young adult kids,
I ask you to listen; to read and to consider:
In recent months, I've had the fortune and misfort...
10 months ago
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The Speed of Life
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Last night the Commander and Chief of this country reiterated that
transgender people will not be allowed to serve in the military.
This proclamation, whic...
10 months ago
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one more cup of coffee
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TW The hustle for work continues, which is discouraging but necessary. I’m
having relationship issues, as all anyone wants to do is date. Decided
that’s ...
11 months ago
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This Week's Calogrenant
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Herder Grin
calogrenant.com
11 months ago
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Online competition redux
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Back in April 2016, I mentioned an online competition where I won a
voucher, which I used to buy a skirt and dress, both in size XL.
According to their si...
11 months ago
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NL Trans Issues Still Low Priority for Gays?
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It's no secret that the media has exploited the gay community and
sensationalized the gay community all thru the 60s 70s 80s 90s. It wasn't
until the early...
11 months ago
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Day 1,245: Moments Frozen in Time
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I have to admit, we had a pretty good run here at So There’s That. 21
podcast episodes and 32 blog posts over the course of a year. And a little
bit of n...
11 months ago
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GET READY TO FIGHT FOR IT, OR LOSE IT
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We let this devil of a person get elected. We have been standing by while
he eviscerates our country and our democracy.
I HATE TRUMP WITH EVERY OUNCE OF MY...
11 months ago
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Flying Solo in Vegas, Part 2
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While I was happy I had arrived at my hotel room without any problems, I
was tired, hungry, and a little sweaty from the journey. I was also behind
my pla...
1 year ago
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2 Hours To Rectify 51 Years Of Physical Abnormality (and 48 Years Of Wrongness)
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Following on from my last post, I have now been through the momentous event
of having my (cosmetic) gender reassignment operation to make the anatomy
betwe...
1 year ago
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at The Outpost… wherever it happens to be.
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here i was, all the way away from anyone, more than a mile down dirt till a
clearing that saw the road drift on into the horizon as just a couple of
dusty ...
1 year ago
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Rachel Dolezal
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Here is a question. Is a person's *identity* something they determine for
themselves? Or is it something which is imposed upon them by society? Is it
a bit...
1 year ago
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So, it's been a while.
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How've you been? It's been a while. Almost a year, looking at the last
post. Starting to feel old, but maybe that's because the kids are becoming
people an...
1 year ago
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Its been a while...
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I’m not really even expecting that anyone will remember me and read this,
but I did think that it was about time my long neglected blog got dusted
off and ...
1 year ago
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What's in a Name?
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Many years ago, while the internet was still in its infancy, I started
looking to find out information from other transgender individuals. At that
time bul...
1 year ago
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Sunday November 19, 2017 - Finally
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I started this Journey in Feb/March of 2010, when after the early death of
some clients and friends , I decided at 54 years of age, it was now or
never.
B...
1 year ago
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Where is the Washing machine?
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We were watching tele and caught the end of a who-dun-it. It involved the
death of a rugby coach and he was murdered for being a cross-dresser or
transgend...
1 year ago
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25 October Journal
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Well Folks, I am still working on my other post. I think it will be part of
the next book of my life, rather than the end of this one. I am closing
this bl...
1 year ago
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Fingernails
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little things aren't they, fingernails? Certainly nothing to get upset
about. But for me fingernails seem to have become the straw that broke the
camel's...
1 year ago
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Streetwalkers Manhattan 1980’s
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Throughout the 1980’s I had a column in ADAM magazine called Veronica
Vera’s New York. Here’s one of the treasures from my archives. I look
forward to shar...
1 year ago
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Step 6: Celebration
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I woke up again, this time back in Patches’ hovel. Morning sunlight was
streaming around the edges of the curtains, dimly illuminating the room. A
head o...
1 year ago
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Apples & Apples
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It was my second year at the Hendersonville Apple Festival in NC. The
previous year I went with my wife, we had a great time and enjoyed the day,
despit...
1 year ago
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The Penultimate Post
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It has been a while since I have blogged on here.... a long while. The
gaps between my blog posts have slowly widened as I have begun to find
myself, more...
1 year ago
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Excuse our dust, but we have moved!
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I have moved my blog over to a dedicated hosting provider, and we have
successfully migrated over to the WordPress platform. We have our own
domain name, a...
1 year ago
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Change is Good
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Well, change sometimes is good, but it is always inevitable, even if we
don’t want things to change. So, at this point, I’ve decided to change,
not only m...
1 year ago
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On the Pride Center of the Capital Region, terfs, and Why Martha Harvey Needs to Resign
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CW: lots of swears, lots of terfs (A quick aside on the word terf because
I’m going to use it about a thousand times. It’s not a slur. Here’s a
doctor tell...
1 year ago
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My friend's Rainbow Journey
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I recently met someone from Japan, one who I now consider to be my friend,
who is traveling around the world talking to Transgender folk and sharing
their ...
1 year ago
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Trying to reconnect with my children
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A lot has been written in the media about cis parents who grow to accept a
transgender child. Sadly, very little is available about the opposite
scenario ...
1 year ago
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What was said. What I’d have loved to have said. In Two Parts.
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What was Said. Part 1*Mrs. Bellejambes* celebrated a birthday recently.
Some of the things I picked up for her were not perfect, and one was a
complete re...
1 year ago
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I'm Not Myself
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I've been calling myself Genderfluid for just over a year now, at the time
it seemed to describe the ever changing nature of how I felt about myself
and my...
1 year ago
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That’s all folks……….
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Between 1955 and 1959, 143 episodes of “The Adventures of Robin Hood”
emerged from a tiny studio in Walton on Thames and burst onto black and
white telli...
1 year ago
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That’s all folks……….
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Between 1955 and 1959, 143 episodes of “The Adventures of Robin Hood”
emerged from a tiny studio in Walton on Thames and burst onto black and
white telli...
1 year ago
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ABC TV Cancels Downward Dog Show
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“Every Day my dog looks at me exactly the same way, like I’m the most
beautiful thing he’s ever seen. And, I just thought, what if we could see
ourselve...
1 year ago
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With Purpose
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The title of this post really highlights the way I’ve felt the last several
months and the experiences I’ve had the chance to take in. Since my last
updat...
1 year ago
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With Purpose
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The title of this post really highlights the way I’ve felt the last several
months and the experiences I’ve had the chance to take in. Since my last
updat...
1 year ago
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Transgender and LGBT++ Rights promised in UK Party Manifestos
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This piece is not written to influence how you vote in the general Election
on June 8th. it’s too late for that and in my humble opinion getting May
out of...
1 year ago
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Trans Twitter Gives Bad Dating Advice
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Trans Twitter Gives Bad Dating Advice — “You have much gold upon your
head,” They answer’d all together: “Buy from us with a golden curl.” —
Christina Ro...
1 year ago
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It has been a long time…
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since my last post. I’m still here. I am still battling with the trauma
of multiple surgeries, a disfiguring scar on my forearm, a devastating
betrayal f...
1 year ago
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I'll miss this platform
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But I don't think I'm going to keep using it. It's sad, because I've been
writing here for such a long time, and blogging for myself is therapeutic,
even i...
1 year ago
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Sex, Drugs and Southern Hospitality: An Interview with Sam Peterson
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Sam Peterson’s Trunky (Transgender Junky): A Memoir of Institutionalization
and Southern Hospitality is the rare book that’s formally experimental AND
impo...
1 year ago
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India Willoughby, transvestites deserve protection too
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Hi India, How are you? Years ago we used to frequent the same forum site
so even though we’ve never met, I view you with the same fondness I feel
for a...
1 year ago
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Thoughts and Updates
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I can't believe it's been almost a year since I've posted anything. Time
flies and we don't...
So...my marriage is still going strong. It's pretty much ...
1 year ago
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And happily ever after...
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Family snuggle timeI've retired from blogging. I've been channeling my
creative energy into other hobbies, and I'm feeling uninspired to write
about my wi...
1 year ago
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Well…didn’t see this Coming.
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The following posts were made to my male Facebook profile. I finally came
to terms with it enough to [ost it here. I was trying to let this [profile
remain...
1 year ago
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Questions related to the surgery
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As mentioned in my previous post i said i would post the questions i asked
the surgeon’s assistant. Also, this post is NSFW as there are some details
regar...
1 year ago
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We Need A “Standards of Care” for Detransitioners
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One of my biggest takeaways from attending the recent USPATH conference is
that many clinicians and other providers sincerely want more information on
unde...
1 year ago
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Apology
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Recently, I undertook the task of going through my blog posts to get a
sense of my history. It has been a bit of a humbling experience – so much
so that ...
1 year ago
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What I’m talking about
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Ok so many of you will have seen this photo, absorbed and passed it by. I
just caught it on a video artical on the BBC website. Quite frankly I was
surpr...
1 year ago
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Watching When We Rise on ABC
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I've been watching *When We Rise*, the four part miniseries on ABC about
the birth and development of the LGBT movement in America and the parts
played in ...
1 year ago
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The door is open
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One of the things that is true; and that I have been pondering, is
that when you come out, your family comes out. I mean; once I am full time,
then al...
1 year ago
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Trying Out A New Name
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I wrote just over a month ago about my anxieties about going away. It’s now
less than a week until I actually go which is really exciting. I’m pumped
to se...
1 year ago
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Stuck In The Middle Again
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How to start? I said long ago when I made my choice to back our new
President that when he did things I felt were wrong I would call him out on
it. Today i...
1 year ago
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New pics … at last!
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Finally got some long overdue “girl-time” yesterday – first time for over 2
years. I really shouldn’t leave it so long because it isn’t good for my
genera...
2 years ago
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Why I'm so passionate about the issues of others.
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*It's been 2.5 years since I've posted. I said I would post if I had
something to say and today, I do. Please note the experience I write about
does not in...
2 years ago
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We Interrupt This Program
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After writing once a week for four years. I’ve finally decided is time to
switch things up and stop posting on schedule and only post when I feel
like it. ...
2 years ago
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Was only a reader, till now
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Me thinks it is time to write something. I’ve been reading T-Central for
almost 7 years now. I have much …
Continue reading →
2 years ago
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Love and Loneliness
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*"I've looked at love from both sides now".... Joni Mitchell.*
Down on the seawall in my town, a few blocks from where I live, the benches
that look ...
2 years ago
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New Year, big changes.
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*Happy **New** Year!*
I begin the new year letting go of some important things. First up is the
pseudonym I have used for years. ‘Haust’ is gone, ...
2 years ago
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Question
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Is looking for an excuse and opportunity to link to and out Susie to my
family and friends on Facebook possibly the most stupid and potentially
self-destru...
2 years ago
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Questioning the Fluctuations
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This isn't the scribbling I intended (or promised) to note as I stated in
the last entry. However, it is part of my developing thoughts on this
future sub...
2 years ago
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Yuletide greetings.
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*Soon be nobody left now that Leonard Cohen is gone too... Someone else who
had to deal with depression and his music soothed my troubled soul. Just
sad to...
2 years ago
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Victoria’s Secret – The Show
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Hey, so yesterday it was time for the amazing show. I haven’t seen the show
but I took a look at a lot of pictures and it seemed amazing and I can’t
wait t...
2 years ago
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Heroes and Hope
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It’s times like these that make me feel the most hopeless. I haven’t always
been good at dealing with feelings like this. But when the future looks
bleak, ...
2 years ago
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Cultivation Corner Starting Seeds
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So you want to sprout those ganja seeds you found in your stash?
First off I want you to be sure that your grow space will be warm enough
for seed germinati...
2 years ago
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I am able to talk again
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I am back on deck and I think more in control of myself than I have been
for quite some time. Will be making more additions to this blog as I go
along. The...
2 years ago
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Ringing the changes part 2
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So, my first post about how I changed my name with various organisations
was starting to get a bit long, so this is a continuation. The first can
be seen ...
2 years ago
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Song for straight crossdressers
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So I found this amazing song by NOFX. It’s called “I’m a Transves-Lite”.
Here is the link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vgEsf8JYqVA The lyrics
given bel...
2 years ago
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September 22 2016
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Thank you. Thank you for the last four years. Thank you for letting me
into your hearts, for letting me be a part of your day, for letting me
bounce my th...
2 years ago
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My response to a post by Tyler Charles Austen
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Dear Mr Austen, On 26th August 2016, you made a post on your eponymous
blog (that means you named it after yourself) called “I Can’t Believe I’m
Saying Th...
2 years ago
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Last Post
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So this is it. The last post I’ll make here (for the foreseeable future
anyway). I’ve moved my fitness adventures over to
http://transtriathlete.com and I’...
2 years ago
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A rediscovered poem
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I found this in my 2013 dream journal, from when I was still in the closet.
My dreams were born from above, not below, or if below, in the primal
ember ...
2 years ago
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This is goodbye (A happy one)
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This is going to be my last post on It’s ok to be a glow stick. I am sad to
be saying goodbye but my life has changed dramatically and sadly, there is
no r...
2 years ago
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Identity Crisis
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I have lost my identity.
I'm not sure if I'm still mom, wife, daughter or 911 dispatcher.
If I'm not any of the above, then who am I besides lost?
2 years ago
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Goodbye
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It's been a couple of months since I last posted, despite my desire to do
an A-Z on the issues I find important. My absence was caused by many
things, but...
2 years ago
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The gym experience
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My fitness in recent years has been something that I have felt has become
very important to me. I remember starting running back in the time when I
was dea...
2 years ago
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The Post-GRS Blues
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On Twitter during the week, I joined in a conversation about Gender
Reassignment Surgery and general fears regarding such a huge operation.
Personally, GRS...
2 years ago
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Me...
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Realized I hadn't posted in a while. That will change starting with an
updated picture of me.
2 years ago
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A new audience
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I am feeling a little humbled. I was asked last week at my college to talk
about transgender issues, to my college group of counsellors in training. I
star...
2 years ago
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A new audience
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I am feeling a little humbled. I was asked last week at my college to talk
about transgender issues, to my college group of counsellors in training. I
star...
2 years ago
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Mid-Year Check In
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At the beginning of this year, I wrote a post about my love of new
beginnings and my resolutions for 2016. I was not too lofty in my goals; I
attempted to ...
2 years ago
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My Return and First Time Out… again
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I’ve been trying to collect my thoughts the last few days. They have been
a jumble of emotions, mostly good. I haven’t felt this way in a long time
and f...
2 years ago
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Thoughts on the Orlando shooting
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There is something surreal, in moments like this, about being a privileged
member of an oppressed minority. I can breeze through airport security
with whi...
2 years ago
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At work
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It's definitely time for me to start thinking about when and how I'm going
to transition at work. Outside of work I'm now living as myself pretty much
full...
2 years ago
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The First Mothers’ Day
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If last year we celebrated the last Father’s Day, this year we introduced
the first Mothers’ Day. And yes, the apostrophe is in the right place. I
admit to...
2 years ago
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An Update
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Hi, everyone. I know, I know, I promised to start blogging again. And
that was a hell of a long time ago. I just found myself far too busy, and
far too ...
2 years ago
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On Being A Transwoman in a Bathroom
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To be perfectly honest, I am actually really surprised this is a topic that
presidential candidates are addressing. Seriously, it’s one thing for
people to...
2 years ago
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Feeling Positive Again :)
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I had been feeling really down about things over the last few months and I
know that my recent posts on here haven’t been very positive about my
situation....
2 years ago
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A good weekend
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It’s been a good weekend. I actually feel pretty confident that I could
pass one day. I know that’s not the most important thing, but it matters a
lot to ...
2 years ago
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A good weekend
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It’s been a good weekend. I actually feel pretty confident that I could
pass one day. I know that’s not the most important thing, but it matters a
lot to ...
2 years ago
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Goin' to North Carolina. Why Do I Feel Like A "Freedom Rider"?
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In NO WAY am I comparing what Transgender people are going through in North
Carolina to what Black Americans went through before and during the Civil
Right...
2 years ago
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My 100th post…
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This is my 100th post. I was hoping to make it a special one with a
description of another outing as Valerie, in my new modern “blending”
outfit. Unfortuna...
2 years ago
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An FAQ Regarding my Gender Identity and Transition
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Since I last posted here, almost a year ago, things have progressed with my
gender transition. More people are now learning about my true identity, as
I wi...
2 years ago
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Back
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Where is she? When is she coming back? What's happening in Tammy World?
These are all questions I've gotten over the last few months. Questions
shouted...
2 years ago
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Ghosts
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So it has been almost a year since I last posted. It is not that I’ve had
a lack of things to write about, more of a case of writers block – finding
words...
2 years ago
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Not sure what to say..
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I am not sure what to do, or what to say, depression is my only constant
“friend”, with me all the time, someone I hate, yet never hates me back.
Medical m...
3 years ago
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Back to the Stone Age.
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I think the song is fitting, It is not mine, the opinions on this page are
mine. In posting this video, I am in no way saying that this group believes
as I...
3 years ago
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End of the Journey
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I've been trying to write this post for a few days. This is actually the
third version I've come up with. Its been 7 years since I started this
blog. In th...
3 years ago
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Come Up to the Lab: My Gender Workshop
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Ever since Time Magazine proclaimed a “Transgender Tipping Point” a year
and a half ago, I’ve been exploring trans identities and expressions that
aren’t i...
3 years ago
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hiatus
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just wanted to let you all know that Will is doing fabulous in recovery
(tracking everything diligently on @journeyintomanhood) and in England for
his se...
3 years ago
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Reminder: Follow my new blog! This one is closing imminently
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This is just a quick reminder, in case anyone who cares missed it the first
time, that GenderDrift is being turned into a private blog where it can
rest pe...
3 years ago
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Being a Gender Critical woman born trans is a very lonely place to be
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My understanding of gender critical theory is limited.
There's no reference text anywhere explaining it, and questioning GC
theorists on their own turf nev...
3 years ago
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Blogging about it….
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I started this blog because I wanted to help people in a similar situation
to me. I was younger and never proclaimed to have all the answers.
Sometimes the...
3 years ago
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Debunking Bathroom Myths
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*Debunking Bathroom Myths*
Original article by *Brynn Tannehill *can be viewed *Here*
*When the Houston Equal Rights Ordinance was defeated, the ostens...
3 years ago
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RUMBLED. BUT IT TURNS OUT TO THE GOOD
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As per usual on a Wed evening I make my way to the Butterfly Club support
premises to get my self ready to face the world. Nothing new in that. And
as per ...
3 years ago
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Caitlyn Jenner Speaks at Chicago House Event
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Caitlyn Jenner Speaks at Chicago House Event:
grvsmth:
sometranslady:
grvsmth:
sometranslady:
snowflakeespecial:
This isn’t a funny story. Trying on y...
3 years ago
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Postscript
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I thought that my urge to blog had departed. It hasn't... but I do need to
move on. Angie's Aspirations — aka About Angie — was written from the
perspecti...
3 years ago
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Got A Little Beautified…
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Not much here, but I went out for a bit of a day, treated by a couple of
friends, and had my brows waxed and got my hair done. Here’s the results.
I s...
3 years ago
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17 Months on T Update
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17 Months on T Next week marks 17 months on T, nearly one and a half
years. I cannot believe I have not posted any update for 5 months, time
just really h...
3 years ago
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10 Ways to Destroy the Earth
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my mother died in this room now it is occupied by my nieces whenever they
sleep over a playroom i currently occupy it sleeping on the lower bunk of
their l...
3 years ago
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While I Am Away...
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So....
I have been away...yup. Not news. Been busy. Plus, not much to write about
really, I've just submerged into 'normal' Nairobi life, with a few bumps ...
3 years ago
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U want to be her!
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[image: U want to be her!]
3 years ago
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Become a girl
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[image: Become a girl]
3 years ago
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Still Here
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I realized last week that I hadn’t written a blog…or a Facebook post…or a
journal entry…or much of anything in five or six months. Part of me was
bothered ...
3 years ago
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5 months in
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*Continued**, from April 5th 2015*
5 months since the hospital I still don't know much about it.
Dissociative Identity Disorder.
My amnesia isn't just hav...
3 years ago
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Through The Looking Glass
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I’m not sure exactly when it happened, but it did. That is, I stopped
considering myself “transitioning.” What does that mean, exactly? Am I
where I want t...
3 years ago
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*Hey!*
So... tomorrow school begins again.
This schoolyear I am planning to come out and start dressing, acting,
talking, etc. like a girl. Honestly, it's ...
3 years ago
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Been Sick
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Isn’t amazing? We tend to think we are the masters of the planet. Then, a
debilitating illness hits and we become subservient cry-babies. Something
crawl...
3 years ago
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Transition Is A Banquet
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Transition is not a one-way street, or a bowling lane with the bumpers up.
Transition is not a recipe with precise measurements, or a fixed
curriculum, or ...
3 years ago
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It’s Inherent
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The frequency and unexpectedness with which being transgendered asserts
itself is ever a source of amazement. Regardless of how deeply in
background one ma...
3 years ago
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This Rain
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Originally posted on chester maynes:
Abruptly, water gushes from the sky. I hear the storm drops too loud. Wind
creeps cold on my skin. Thunder slits these ...
3 years ago
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Telling a Friend
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I recently told a friend about Amy. I didn't go into many details or show
him pictures or anything, but it felt good to talk about and get a positive
reac...
3 years ago
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And Last
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I used that subject last week as well.
It happens. Click to enlarge (the cartoon not the imagination)This is a
hard post to organise and a hard post to wr...
3 years ago
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The world keeps on turning.
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So I guess it’s time to get back into this blog of mine. I mean I’ve been
gone for so long and really it’s just time to start again. Since my last
real b...
3 years ago
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Why Bruce Jenner, Andreja Pejic and other Trans Celebrities Still Don’t Matter
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Recently there have been a number of celebrities that have come out to
announce that they define as transgender. For some of them it wasn’t a
shocker, for ...
3 years ago
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On Reconciling my Beliefs, Depression and Gender
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Howdy. Sorry it's been a while, I am simply the most infrequent blogger in
the world... I've been buried under piles of work for what seems like
forever, a...
3 years ago
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End game...
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So things didn't get better...I slipped further and last Tuesday I went to
my scheduled appointment...when she saw me the choices were go home for a
matter...
3 years ago
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Handbags & Glad Rags……….
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I always feel a bit rotten about writing a new post when I have so many
posts from others to …
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3 years ago
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Commenters and deep thoughts
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I would like to start by apologizing for the long break between posts. A
little thing called life intervenes and my writing suffers. Family, health,
work, ...
3 years ago
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Jenna Talackova, and the importance of transitioning when young
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I greatly admire Jenna Talackova, the beautiful, sexy, and courageous M2F
transgender model, beauty contestant, reality television star, and actress.
I ...
3 years ago
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Motorhead Girls
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Motorhead Girls ... we are girls who love cars, trucks, bikes, planes, and
boats. Anything with a motor. Maybe we love some of them, maybe we love all
of ...
3 years ago
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Shutting down
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I've decided that I am not, after all, the blogging type.
I never managed it in my other identity either, so I don't know why I
should be surprised.
So,...
3 years ago
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Dangerous Situation
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***** This post might be triggering ***** Something really scary happened
last evening. I was standing outside with a friend (who is also homeless
and we u...
3 years ago
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Could it really be THAT easy?
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So, not going to get too excited here, but bear with me, kay? Last night, I
decided to talk to Phyl about her withdrawals and pulling away. I wanted to
try...
3 years ago
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One Year as Me!
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Dianne Piggott
10/30/2013
One year. Just one year. One entire year. All of one year. One circle of
the Earth around the Sun.
A year ago to...
3 years ago
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Cumberbatch and his offense offence
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Poor old Benny Cumberbatch…him and his big old posh, ex slave owning gob.
Actually I feel for the bloke. Trying to do his best for British actors of
colour...
4 years ago
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Coming out on Facebook.
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I have a relatively small number of friends on facebook, I keep it that
way, I don’t add anyone I meet. Everyone on my friends list is actually my
friend o...
4 years ago
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XXY: Reflections of Gender in Children
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A while back, I read a very sad story not related to Leelah Alcorn although
that is another sad story. This one is about an XXY child who was gender
denie...
4 years ago
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New Hair … :) Trying different looks :)
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So the new wig arrived… and figured a day off would be fitting to try it on
:) Here are a few pics… Ya short and sweet post … :P Peace and Love!
Tamara :)
4 years ago
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Transgender Q&A
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When it comes to the subject of transgender and the LGBT community, I think
that there are three different types of people. The first (and the fastest
gro...
4 years ago
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I is for Identity Politics
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Hello all. For my first post of 2015, I am going back to blogging through
ye old alphabet. Today I is for identity politics. Identity politics are
how i...
4 years ago
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Leelah, and all the others who struggle
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Happy New Year!
I'm so sorry I don't update regularly! I have been off school for a couple
weeks, so I have no good excuse, but I hope you all had a wonder...
4 years ago
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A New Christmas with family
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As anyone can expect the end of the year can bring surprises and lots of
joy to one's heart and soul. This year is really an exception for Kay and
I, as w...
4 years ago
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On the other side!
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It’s been a few days since I last posted on my blog, and for good reason.
Thursday, 11th December 2014 I finally had the surgery I had been waiting
so lon...
4 years ago
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Saying goodbye
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The time has come for me to say goodbye and put this blog to bed. I doubt
anyone reads it anymore, but I’m the type of person who likes closure, so I
gue...
4 years ago
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Xmas 2014
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I thought I should drop a post in, and wish everyone a happy Xmas.
If you should be reading this, and you are a Pagan like my son, or any of
the non-christ...
4 years ago
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No Big Deal
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My daughter started high school last month.
The other night she told my wife and me that there's a transgender girl in
her homeroom. During the summer ...
4 years ago
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I finally legally exist!
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On July 1st, 2014 it finally happened. The law that made it impossible for
me and many others like me to change their gender on any official documents
drop...
4 years ago
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A Controversial Stance On The Word “Queer”
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Controversial new video about the use of the word queer in the LGBT
community.
4 years ago
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8 Steps on How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Immediately
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If you are trying to get your ex boyfriend back, but are fighting and get
no results, then you should know this is a common thing that tons of girls
go thr...
4 years ago
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Pigtails
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Last night as I was hugging Kegan good night, I started playing with her
hair and realized her hair is at that almost long enough to put into a
super short...
4 years ago
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She Returns
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Gee, that was a long time coming, wasn't it?
I managed to survive from February to July at the Good Samaritan House at
Westgate. This is a Christian-run fa...
4 years ago
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The Maker of Noses
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Like many of you, I enjoy music, and I look to it for inspiration and
support. My taste in music is quite eclectic, ranging from hymns through
jazz and roc...
4 years ago
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July 18th 2014
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I know I haven't posted in a long time, things have just gotten crazy
around here. We were finally able to get pregnant with our third, and
recently found...
4 years ago
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been proven wrong
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I have had many people walk in and out of my life. And a lot of them have
been anything but nice to me. Over the years most of my friend have turn
against...
4 years ago
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I’m not sure what “normal” means, but i think it feels like this
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It’s been a while since i’ve posted anything here, and historically that
has meant that things aren’t going well. This time, however, it means that
we’ve b...
4 years ago
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Tumor no more
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On January 8, 2012 I was informed that the fight to live was over, I would
not be getting my last Chemo treatment, all scans have no cancer traces in
them ...
4 years ago
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*I think it is time to completely let my fears of letting those who know me
in my life, but may not know 'me' now because I did what I needed to do for
my ...
4 years ago
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Vote for Sophia
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I'm running in a mock election and I need your votes. You might be asking
why I need your vote, and *how in the heck did I wind up in politics?* Well,
my ...
4 years ago
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Keepin’ On
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When I was driving home from work this afternoon I started to think of this
blog and its lack of updates. I think the general trend is that when I
dress mo...
4 years ago
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A Question
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So, I've been doing this girl thing for a while now.
It's good, but there is some weirdness...
Has anyone else experienced this?
[Bumps into a doorjam, or...
4 years ago
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Day 105: Whiskey Aging… DONE!
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So after nearly 3 and a half months it’s done! I ended up with a bottle
and a half of sweet, dark whiskey. It’s amazingly easy to do. At this
point, I’m ...
4 years ago
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Here's a Little Something No One Told You
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Milestones are things to be celebrated. In our culture we have only a few
of them high school graduation, marriage, parenthood, (divorce), and death.
Other...
4 years ago
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Sweeping the Ashes
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“Things change. And friends leave. Life doesn't stop for anybody.”
“I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems
don't rhyme...
4 years ago
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Another new chapter
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*or the next stop on the timeline...*
*Anyway, as some of you may remember, in a galaxy, far, far..wait, wrong
story.*
*I married my other half 13 years a...
4 years ago
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I'm coming out and I want the world to know...
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As the weeks went by I've became more and more emboldened with my
transition. I started buying more clothes, and started laser hair removal.
On Christmas...
4 years ago
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It has been too long since last I blogged
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Yes, I know, more than two years have gone by, and some of you may be
wondering if all is well. YES! Everything remains wonderful. We've now been
happily m...
4 years ago
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It's "her's"
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I've been living as woman for two years now, two really good years. I was
and still am one of the lucky few. I have gone through this transition
without lo...
4 years ago
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Paula Deen Quote
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“I feel like ‘embattled’ or ‘disgraced’ will always follow my name. It’s
like that black football player who recently came out. He said, ‘I just
want to...
4 years ago
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Huffing Post Interview August 9, 2013′
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Interview with me concerning my de-transiton:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/09/transgender-nfl-cheerleader_n_3728301.html
5 years ago
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Link to my daughter’s blog post
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Here’s something my daughter posted today… Hexydezimal A fallen angel
returns. hexydezimal.wordpress.com Questions for the Transgender Community
Happy bela...
5 years ago
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Three Unwise Men
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Yet another bawbag is frothing at the mouth.
This latest cretinous oaf, a Russian actor of whom this reporter at least
has never heard, says he would "stuff...
5 years ago
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Hanging in, hanging out, hanging on
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It has been a while since I have posted anything here. Up to this point, I
have maintained this blog as a combination of sporadic articles, and the
occasio...
5 years ago
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I Dreamed a Dream in Times Gone By...
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This past week has been especially difficult because of the second coming
out of 'Marcy' Michael's female alter gender identity. My strife is
entirely i...
5 years ago
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I realised to day that I still have this account open.
I have moved all of my blog to my website, www.sarah-savage.com
Thanx
5 years ago
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Enough
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Originally posted on Nuclear Unicorn:
My approach to Cathy Brennan has long mirrored my approach to Ann Coulter;
I generally refuse to dignify their delibe...
5 years ago
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UpDate!
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Doesn’t seem possible but I have been on HRT now for over a year and a
half. Life is different and good! For what ever reason my “Cyrsti’s
Transgender Cond...
5 years ago
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Ether Radio
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Last Tuesday I took the day off work to run errands. Around 8:30 in the
morning I was sitting in my boyfriend's car by a gas pump. Peter was
inside colle...
5 years ago
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Hatred, Transphobia & Twitter storms..
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I'm far from surprised that this has blown up like it has.. To be honest it
was only a matter of time, Trans people put up with an awful lot, I don't
want ...
6 years ago
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The Wedding and the Beach House
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It was a balmy June Saturday in Napa valley, California. The winery
Heather’s cousin Rosalind had chosen for the wedding was beautifully placed
amidst rol...
6 years ago
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Retrospect - Spring 2011 - The Highs and Low of being a TGirl
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Widemouth Bay, CornwallBy the spring of 2011 I felt that things were going
quite well and that with my new image I was well on the well to achieving
the g...
6 years ago
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KATIE
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Life is hard. Sometimes it pushes us down with such force that we haven’t
the strength to resist. Trans people are particularly likely to find
themselves f...
6 years ago
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Reality TV
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I was reassembling the bike last weekend with radio 4 on drip-feed and
heard a piece about people who live a second life on the Internet. It
appears that f...
10 years ago
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