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Honestly, a part of me felt prettier than I had ever felt in my life. In
the past five years I've gotten so much better at makeup, two years of
HRT has helped to sculpt my face, and I've been working my way to a
healthier weight.
Faith prefers the brunette look but oh does she rock the look as a Blonde Bombshell. You'll love this post. It's about fashion, shopping and hair.....with lots of pictures of this absolutely gorgeous girl.
The People - Personal Thoughts
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Coming Out and Running for Office as a Trans Lesbian: Alexandra Chandler
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She’s so awesome, and an old friend. Help out her campaign if you can.
32 minutes ago
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Fear?
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I've written many times about how blog entries happen. I write a LOT, but
only some of the things make it to the blog. That's because a LOT of what
I wri...
1 hour ago
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Trouser trouble
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Hi,
The quest for a good pair of trousers continues. Buying clothes when you've
two wardrobes is an odd experience.
What I mean is, when it comes to bloke...
2 hours ago
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They Can’t Pass Our Bill But They Can Pass This…
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The gender identity/expression non-discrimination bill is struggling in the
legislature but they can pass a bill banning Conversion therapy.
*Ban on gay co...
2 hours ago
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GENEVIEVE'S GEMS
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If you have knowledge, let other light their candles by it.
~Chinese Proverb
5 hours ago
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You and Your Mother?
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Perhaps I should save this post for closer to Mother's Day, but I received
another comment from Connie concerning a Cyrsti's Condo post (Whose on
First) ab...
6 hours ago
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The Duality of Trumplican Allies
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I have brushed on this a few times, but I wanted to dive a bit deeper into
the pool. Let me first say that while I am liberal, I am not affiliated
with a p...
9 hours ago
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It could have been me
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2 weeks ago I was on a Southwest Airlines plane flying from Phoenix to Las
Vegas. It was the first time we've flown from our house to Vegas, but as it
was ...
10 hours ago
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framing language
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People who are opposed to transgender people are used to thinking in
reverse. They use language such as the “transgender agenda” to decry the
forcing of ou...
11 hours ago
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Add “Age envy” to “Trans envy” and head for the Prozac
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No names, no pack drill here, but lately things have been getting really
knotted up in my head. The situation is this. I know a certain two trans*
individu...
12 hours ago
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Twin Bill
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It had been about a week since the old gal got out and she was ready. I
set up a double volunteer day. I started by working the afternoon shift at
the in...
12 hours ago
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Nine West Shoes - Good Bye Old Friend
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It was with a sigh that I read last week of the demise of Nine West Shoes.
Nine West will no longer sell shoes. Always a favorite for style and classy
...
12 hours ago
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IMG_6852 [Flickr]
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Sandra M. Lopes posted a photo:
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13 hours ago
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Wednesday of Diva Las Vegas 2018
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It is Wednesday of Diva Las Vegas 2018 and we are having a blast although
we are getting a latter start today as it was a late night again last
night. I sl...
13 hours ago
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Frocking Friday
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[image: Source: Boston Proper]
Wearing Boston Proper (Source: Boston Proper)
[image: Filip Lato]
Filip Lato femulates Florence and the Machine on Polis...
17 hours ago
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A busy Thursday
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Thursday again. And I expected to have a very busy day ahead of me, as I
had the following on my docket when I woke up:
1. Lunch with Vicki #2 (done)...
17 hours ago
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Parenthood and Insecurity
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You know there is just no way around it; while born male, I clearly am not
and have never been typical. Being raised by a single handicapped mother, I
n...
19 hours ago
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“Transgender Rules” and the Doublespeak of Anti-LGBT Rhetoric
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“Transgender Rules” and the Doublespeak of Anti-LGBT Rhetoric: The
doublespeak is strong here. Advertisements
20 hours ago
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Hanging
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When committing suicide by hanging, I would want the right quality bit of
rope: I would want the knot to slip easily as I dropped, then hold tightly
as I t...
21 hours ago
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T-Hex strikes back
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So I’m sitting here on my couch using my daughter’s lap top. Sorry for any
errors or typos. I am the embodiment of T-Hex arms right now. I’m 2 days
post-op...
1 day ago
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A Space to be Me
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We're all unique, yet we all walk similar paths and face similar obstacles
on our journey of discovering just who we are and where we fit in this
world.
...
1 day ago
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Hiding in plain sight
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Hello blog,
Today I feel invisible or at least seem that way somedays when I think of
myself as Jaclyn. I often wonder each day what my day would really b...
1 day ago
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Hey @goddesssherry1, Thank you for the follow!
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Hey @goddesssherry1, Thank you for the follow! (via Twitter
http://twitter.com/VickieDavis/status/986994650992074752)
1 day ago
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We’re back! A new season of podcasts
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We’ve been hard at work on a new season of our podcast, “How to Be a Girl,”
and we hope you’ll enjoy it!. The first episode comes out next week, but
you ca...
1 day ago
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En Femme Style
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I never thought there would be so many options when it comes to businesses
that cater specifically to our community. I’ve been aware of Glamour
Boutique f...
1 day ago
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“Am I Next?”
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My daughter and I took part in last month’s March For Our Lives on the
grounds of Connecticut’s capitol. We left our “pussy hats” from the 2017
protest beh...
1 day ago
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Just Charlie
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Just Charlie is a film that premiered on Sky Cinema yesterday.
#JustCharlie @JustCharlieFilm www.facebook.com/justcharliethemovie
*“A teen footbal...
3 days ago
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"Transvestism" is on its way out of the WHO health manual, but its makers leave a loophole for further invalidation of transgender people
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*It seems the WHO health manual, the ICD-11, will remove the "fetishistic
transvestism" diagnosis from the chapter on paraphilias. This is good new
for the...
3 days ago
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Sheila's View
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Sheila did a nice blog-post on her view of our time together. It's here. Go
take a look.
3 days ago
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World Semicolon Day…
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As most of you know, I struggle with mental health issues. I’ve been
diagnosed with major depressive disorder, severe anxiety, and agoraphobia
(something I...
3 days ago
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What Did You Expect?
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What a privilege it is to have lived as a man and as a woman. My life has
certainly been more interesting than I could have expected. Obvious aspects
that ...
4 days ago
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An incredibly busy year
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There’s a reason why there was no blogging for the rest of 2017…or for the
beginning of 2018, and I think it’s a good one: I’ve been on book tour, on
album...
4 days ago
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‘Accused: Tracie’s Story’. Reviewed
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This blog post is very long overdue. I have been wanting to write this
review for about a year now, but either I have lacked the time to write or
there see...
4 days ago
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Blogs were an Electric Ladyland...
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*This was going to start with a video of Electric Ladyland by Jimi Hendrix,
but as proof that the internet is useless, a long search has only found the
e...
5 days ago
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Fresh Starts
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It's been a busy old weekend, already and it's only just lunch time on
Sunday! Yesterday afternoon I went up to town for a meeting held at
Bloomsbury Bap...
5 days ago
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Is “Love, Simon” the most accurate LGBT film ever?
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PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS IS A COPY OF THE ARTICLE THAT I ORIGINALLY WROTE ON
MY FILM WEBSITE SORRYNEVERHEARDOFIT.WORDPRESS.COM This post does not
contain any ...
5 days ago
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Shaking the lead out of my bag
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I recall an old black-and-white Bob Hope/Bing Crosby comedy film, called
Road to Rio I think, in which there is a sub-plot involving a band of dusty
desper...
5 days ago
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Interesting
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Things have been very quiet lately, and Mandy hasn't been out of the
suitcase since January. However, that doesn't stop my daily life in
androgynous outfi...
6 days ago
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The dreaded lurgy!
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So, I missed last week. (And a few after... This has been a post long in
the making!)
You could be forgiven for thinking that I was not doing so well after...
6 days ago
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Contacting my first therapist – backstory
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In November of my senior year of high school, I had an appointment to see a
counselor – my mom had set it up for me. I’m not sure who she contacted or
wha...
6 days ago
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Showgirl at the seaside …
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Here are a few snaps from my latest photoshoot down in Mathry, West Wales,
in the beautiful Pembrokeshire Coast National Park. This was going to be my
fina...
1 week ago
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‘They/them pronouns have come between my child and me.’
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Facebook Twitter Google+ LinkedIn In my latest advice piece for My Kid Is
Gay I reply to a parent who says they have a hard time remembering to use
the...
1 week ago
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Poetry / Real Life
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If you could really open your eyes and see you would not want to be You
see they make policy behind closed doors to get rid of me For the fee they
wish n...
1 week ago
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Interesting Article on CNN - Why girls can be boyish but boys can't be girlish
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One topic that I find fascination is the idea of shifting gender
stereotypes and how people, particularly "men" who enjoy trandtionally
"female" things, ar...
1 week ago
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daisies on Caen Hill
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The lipstick round the daisy’s mush
‘s enough to make a bullfinch blush
and long before the sun’s first ray
they pucker up and kiss the day
We came up th...
1 week ago
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First quarter 2018
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Well, so much for posting more. In my last post on December 29th 2017, I
talked about posting more. What the heck! It's April. Guess the joke's
on me!
...
1 week ago
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Futanari Convent Book 1 & 2
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When I was preparing to notify the world about my latest book
I came across two reviews that I hadn’t read. Surprised me. I thought
Amazon wa...
1 week ago
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Silly Work Outfit
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Top - ?? - Similar @Amazon
Undershirt - Vetemin - @Amazon
Jeans - Levi Denizen - Modern Boot Cut - @Target
Shoes - New Balance - Similar @Amazon
Beanie - F...
1 week ago
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Every Day Transitions
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This morning I read two stories on Facebook that brought sadness; each
touched me in a very different way. Part One Tony Trupiano, a lifelong
learner and a...
1 week ago
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Gold Star Transexuals and Changing Labels
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People change and you can change how you describe yourself if you want to.
Much like gold star lesbians, nobody cares if your a gold star transsexual ...
1 week ago
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4-9-2018 Picture Entry: 3 years on HRT
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So it occurred to me that my 3 year anniversary of hormones happened about
a month ago and I never wrote anything about it. To me, the 3 year mark is
an i...
1 week ago
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Love the kid you've got, not the one you wish you had
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Parents of LGBTQ kids, or any kids, even young adult kids,
I ask you to listen; to read and to consider:
In recent months, I've had the fortune and misfort...
1 week ago
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Catching up with old friends
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Now that my skin is somewhat better and I can wear makeup once more, I am
gradually getting more active in my trans life again. I'm suffering a
certain los...
1 week ago
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Transition transition
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So good they named it twice, as the song (sort of) goes. This post is about
some of the practical side of transitioning, as I’ve been spending the past
few...
1 week ago
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AMA #3 -- Advice on choosing and buying wigs?
Ask Me Anything #3
Do you have any advice on choosing and buying wigs?
I purchased my first wig from an advert...
1 week ago
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Because SIWOTI
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You can be almost certain that someone will never change their mind because
of a comment posted on social media. Does that mean we should never try?
When y...
2 weeks ago
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Gabi Talks – Dressing Age Appropriate (video)
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Do you think it’s more important to “dress age appropriate”, regardless? Or
to dress appropriate to your body type and personal style? Check out my
take on...
2 weeks ago
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April 2018 - A quiet six months!
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Will this entry be a short one I wonder? Well it will be six months next
Friday, 13th April since I have made an appearance and it has been the
longest per...
2 weeks ago
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new music videos & a live show this Sunday!
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Many of you who follow me here do so because of my writings, but I
occasionally write and perform music as well. For many years, I was in a
noise-pop band ...
2 weeks ago
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Trans Day of Visibility
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I know I’m late on this one since Trans Day of Visibility was Saturday, but
since it was a big weekend for my interfaith household (Passover and
Easter) yo...
2 weeks ago
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I am Somewhere
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The living room hadn’t changed size but it felt like the walls had slowly
closed in at an imperceptive rate like the moon across a black sky. Shining
brigh...
2 weeks ago
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April Fools’
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1 April again. My second transition anniversary passed less eventfully than
the first. I mowed the lawn with the push mower and cut down a dying spruce
and...
2 weeks ago
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WE ARE REVOLTING: my first Trans Pride
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There are a couple of looks I am very familiar with as a trans person. One
is primarily a look of confusion. It is the kind of look you might expect
to rec...
2 weeks ago
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This Year We Need Transgender Visibility More Than Ever
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Trans Invisibility allows others to pretend there is bland homogeneity and
that diversity in sex or gender is deviance. Saturday March 31st marks
Transgend...
3 weeks ago
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Why Ghosting Is a Form of Self-Care
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You match with someone on Tinder. Y’all text for like three days straight.
Things seems to be going really well. You go on a coffee date. They seem
inter...
3 weeks ago
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Not A Life Choice – Surgery Prep
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Just so people understand, transitioning isn’t like flipping a switch. It
is a long, long process. I have been on hormones for over two years now. I
was no...
3 weeks ago
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Tomorrow Will Be Different for Trans People
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Tomorrow Will Be Different, and so will this memoir, written by trans
activist Sarah McBride about her experiences since coming out in her senior
year of c...
3 weeks ago
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Being Flexable
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Well bugga! Last week really was a bad one. Sorry to say but all books have
been put on hold so I can sort out some real life issues. One Book Leaves
might...
3 weeks ago
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Burlesque for Beginners
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As the song goes…. ‘Where do you go to my lovely …. ?’
Traditional Burlesque
So you have a lovey outfit, fab shoes and a fashionable hairdo, the next
q...
3 weeks ago
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ObserVation: Heel marks
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hen we moved into the house there was carpets in most rooms, as with the
flat we had just left. Well that’s not strictly true, we had a ‘great’ time
havin...
3 weeks ago
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Teenage Fanclub And Me
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Among the multitude of potential subject that I could write about, I kept
coming back to one. The group of middle-aged Glaswegian men collectively
known a...
3 weeks ago
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Short Story: First step
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Originally posted on Joe Hinojosa:
“Look at that fat fuck,” my employee Deborah said with a laugh. I turned
towards the front of the gym I owned, and at th...
3 weeks ago
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The Speed of Life
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Last night the Commander and Chief of this country reiterated that
transgender people will not be allowed to serve in the military.
This proclamation, whic...
3 weeks ago
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My Son is Tripped, Kicked, Stabbed, Told He’s Invisible At School
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Hi Mrs. Cora, All of these things are true. I’m not making these up for
people to feel bad for me. I just want you to know what has been happening
to me. I...
4 weeks ago
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Rebecca Reid and the Production of Ignorance
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I was talking to a non-binary trans student recently and they said that
explaining about trans people is easy, it usually took them about 5
minutes. This p...
4 weeks ago
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Alert – possible system attack
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I received the following email a short while ago. Actually, I received
two – one in my inbox and one in spam. Dear Corel Customer, Did you know
WordPerfe...
4 weeks ago
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66th Birthday Bash
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Not mine but my friend, Dana, had her 66th birthday and her very special
wife, Kiki, arranged a special time for her here in Merida. And I was
invited to...
5 weeks ago
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one more cup of coffee
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TW The hustle for work continues, which is discouraging but necessary. I’m
having relationship issues, as all anyone wants to do is date. Decided
that’s ...
5 weeks ago
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Profile: Mish
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You can call me… Mish I identify as… Transgender/genderfluid asexually gay
person As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/him they/them NEVER CALL ME
SHE!...
5 weeks ago
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This Week's Calogrenant
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Herder Grin
calogrenant.com
5 weeks ago
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‘Misfit’
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* ‘Misfit’ * (11 Mar 18) (Draft) * Let’s get right to beeswax. I am a
misfit in today’s world of Trans, Transsexual, Inter-sex, gender identity,
sexual o...
5 weeks ago
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Online competition redux
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Back in April 2016, I mentioned an online competition where I won a
voucher, which I used to buy a skirt and dress, both in size XL.
According to their si...
1 month ago
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Women Must
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Today is International Women’s Day and, not surprisingly, I have a few
thoughts. Women must support one another. That does not mean that they
need to agr...
1 month ago
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Pictures in an exhibition
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Whilst I am enjoying a period of enforced unemployment I thought I’d take a
day off from using avoidance tactics from looking for jobs. I popped into
Lond...
1 month ago
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EMDR
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Here we are in March then, after a weekend during which we had
unseasonal snowfall over the British Isles, today had a real air of spring.
I even saw s...
1 month ago
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Path Forward
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After the latest blowup at the house, I have started looking into
apartments. It appears that moving out is the only way to make life a
little less chaotic...
1 month ago
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NL Trans Issues Still Low Priority for Gays?
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It's no secret that the media has exploited the gay community and
sensationalized the gay community all thru the 60s 70s 80s 90s. It wasn't
until the early...
1 month ago
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Moving, 'Mones, & The Mane Thing
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Greetings all. Hope everyone is enjoying the weekend. It's been one of the
strangest winters I can recall here in New England. We started off bitterly
...
1 month ago
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Day 1,245: Moments Frozen in Time
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I have to admit, we had a pretty good run here at So There’s That. 21
podcast episodes and 32 blog posts over the course of a year. And a little
bit of n...
1 month ago
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Album Review: “Tits of Steel”
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Originally posted on A Belated Existence:
A brilliantly eclectic combination of performance poetry and punk … I was
lured to this album by C. T. Herron’s g...
1 month ago
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The Indolent Spinster weekly Report #12
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Not so weekly as monthly lately, but I've been back working at the video
store 5 daze a week, is my excuse, getting my artistic rhythm used to
working and ...
2 months ago
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GET READY TO FIGHT FOR IT, OR LOSE IT
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We let this devil of a person get elected. We have been standing by while
he eviscerates our country and our democracy.
I HATE TRUMP WITH EVERY OUNCE OF MY...
2 months ago
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Mass Shootings and Society
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The shooter wasn’t mentally ill in Florida. He was pure rage,
uncontrolled. His primary rage appears directed at his ex-girlfriend, who
dumped him. He jum...
2 months ago
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Lost property
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In a life full of rush, hustle, bustle, priorities and a seemingly endless
list of things to do and places to be that makes every day and every week
fly by...
2 months ago
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Flying Solo in Vegas, Part 2
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While I was happy I had arrived at my hotel room without any problems, I
was tired, hungry, and a little sweaty from the journey. I was also behind
my pla...
2 months ago
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Sleet
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Rain ran down the window. A snowflake hit the same pane, melted and
followed the rain drop on its journey to the bottom of the window and
ultimately to the...
2 months ago
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Follow-up to Lost to Follow-up
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I have a lot of conflicted feelings about my piece “Lost to Follow-up/How
Far Can You Follow Me?”. Writing it at the time was healing but when I
reread it ...
2 months ago
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In a Rut.
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Checking my stats today – the seventh anniversary of this blog – I noticed
that my pageviews dropped below 1,000 last month for the first time since
Februa...
2 months ago
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2 Hours To Rectify 51 Years Of Physical Abnormality (and 48 Years Of Wrongness)
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Following on from my last post, I have now been through the momentous event
of having my (cosmetic) gender reassignment operation to make the anatomy
betwe...
2 months ago
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All-women shortlists
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32% of MPs are women — 208 of 650. Party by party, the proportion varies a
lot: it’s only 21% among Conservative MPs, but 45% among Labour MPs, thanks
part...
2 months ago
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The gift that keeps giving
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Apparently my “Modern Love” article and podcast will be featured in a
compilation of podcast listeners’ favorite episodes, airing today. I never
realized h...
2 months ago
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at The Outpost… wherever it happens to be.
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here i was, all the way away from anyone, more than a mile down dirt till a
clearing that saw the road drift on into the horizon as just a couple of
dusty ...
2 months ago
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The upside of falling down
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Tonight I am up late because I couldn’t bring myself to lie by my wife
after what I did. She was out of town and I lost my mind. If you are
dying to know...
2 months ago
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A Stranger Among My Own
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This post could be subtitled "When the World Doesn't Care." For those who
have become accustomed to upbeat articles from me, this will be an
exception.
F...
2 months ago
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The problem with activists
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In 2004 I walked into local council offices for a conversation with local
officials and advisers. Somehow I had come to speak on behalf of local
residents ...
2 months ago
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Rachel Dolezal
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Here is a question. Is a person's identity something they choose for
themselves? Or is it something which is imposed upon them by society? Is it
a bit of b...
3 months ago
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The Transgender Topic Back in the New
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The headlines were crackling with contempt for the Trump administration
today as the administration shied away from its campaign promises to
protect the ...
3 months ago
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Indulge Me
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As a rule, I hate anniversary posts. I have stopped following bloggers who
gave me five paragraphs about the seventeenth anniversary of first wearing
lipst...
3 months ago
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Scottish Labour Thinks Cishet Animals Are More Equal than Others
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Whilst bigotry exists in every country, Scotland in recent years, while by
no means immune from hate, has been a shining example of LGBTQ tolerance
and acc...
3 months ago
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Growing my Hair Out
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One of my New Years resolutions for 2017 was to stop getting my hair cut
and to let it grow out. Bearing in mind I've always had it cut short since
a te...
3 months ago
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So, it's been a while.
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How've you been? It's been a while. Almost a year, looking at the last
post. Starting to feel old, but maybe that's because the kids are becoming
people an...
3 months ago
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2018 Goals
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I have some goals for 2018
Complete Yeovil Half Marathon
I've done this race several times in the last few years. Unfortunately I've
never had a completely...
3 months ago
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2018 – Year of the pursuit
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It’s a tradition which I hate to break; on the first day of every year, I
write about my overall hopes and fears, what I aim to accomplish throughout
the y...
3 months ago
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New Year’s Resolutions and Getting that Femme Body
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Today I am writing about the basics of working out so you can start to
achieve your ideal body type. Be it Masculine or Feminine. As the Gyms are
about to ...
3 months ago
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Its been a while...
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I’m not really even expecting that anyone will remember me and read this,
but I did think that it was about time my long neglected blog got dusted
off and ...
3 months ago
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Patients & Providers: “Transgender” Banned
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Dr. Turban speaking out as a physician on behalf of transgender health, the
importance of transgender research, and the right for trans people to exist
in ...
4 months ago
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#147 – In Hospital, And Then Rehabilitation…
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Admitted to HonorHealth John C. Lincoln Hospital, a Level 1 Trauma center
for Phoenix in the HonorHealth network, I spent around nine days there,
around ...
4 months ago
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What's in a Name?
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Many years ago, while the internet was still in its infancy, I started
looking to find out information from other transgender individuals. At that
time bul...
4 months ago
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It’s hard being true to yourself
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Positive thoughts are fleeting nowadays. I see it when I write, feel it
when I am emotional, think it when I let my thoughts wander. But is it all
that b...
4 months ago
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Sunday November 19, 2017 - Finally
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I started this Journey in Feb/March of 2010, when after the early death of
some clients and friends , I decided at 54 years of age, it was now or
never.
B...
5 months ago
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Where is the Washing machine?
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We were watching tele and caught the end of a who-dun-it. It involved the
death of a rugby coach and he was murdered for being a cross-dresser or
transgend...
5 months ago
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Thinking intersectionally about abuse
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It feels as if there is a big conversation happening currently about abuse
and sexual violence, one that is going beyond the single narrative of
violence b...
5 months ago
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And now for something completely different
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The Red Baron. Freiherr Manfred von Richthofen's early career, and the
aircraft he flew in.
MvR first joined Fliegerabteilung 69 (FA69) in April 1915.
The...
5 months ago
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25 October Journal
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Well Folks, I am still working on my other post. I think it will be part of
the next book of my life, rather than the end of this one. I am closing
this bl...
5 months ago
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A story of desistance
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I found this post on reddit from /u/PTthrowaway0 interesting it because it
has a lot of parallels to my own feelings growing up, though a different
outcome...
6 months ago
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A story of desistance
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I found this post on reddit from /u/PTthrowaway0 interesting it because it
has a lot of parallels to my own feelings growing up, though a different
outcome...
6 months ago
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Fingernails
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little things aren't they, fingernails? Certainly nothing to get upset
about. But for me fingernails seem to have become the straw that broke the
camel's...
6 months ago
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Transgenderism Encourages Rigid Gender Stereotypes
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This is what I’m always on about. The problem with gender identity is that
it’s largely based on a social construct of what it means to be “male” or
“femal...
6 months ago
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Streetwalkers Manhattan 1980’s
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Throughout the 1980’s I had a column in ADAM magazine called Veronica
Vera’s New York. Here’s one of the treasures from my archives. I look
forward to shar...
6 months ago
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Step 6: Celebration
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I woke up again, this time back in Patches’ hovel. Morning sunlight was
streaming around the edges of the curtains, dimly illuminating the room. A
head o...
6 months ago
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My Mother’s Bowl
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Unless you’ve known me for a very long time, you probably don’t know my
mom. She passed away in 1992 at the age of 72. I miss her terribly. Think
of the id...
7 months ago
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Apples & Apples
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It was my second year at the Hendersonville Apple Festival in NC. The
previous year I went with my wife, we had a great time and enjoyed the day,
despit...
7 months ago
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The Penultimate Post
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It has been a while since I have blogged on here.... a long while. The
gaps between my blog posts have slowly widened as I have begun to find
myself, more...
7 months ago
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Excuse our dust, but we have moved!
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I have moved my blog over to a dedicated hosting provider, and we have
successfully migrated over to the WordPress platform. We have our own
domain name, a...
7 months ago
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Ticket check
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On another occasion last week I ran into ticket check in public transport,
and yet again I had to explain that the photograph on my public transport
pass d...
7 months ago
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Change is Good
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Well, change sometimes is good, but it is always inevitable, even if we
don’t want things to change. So, at this point, I’ve decided to change,
not only m...
8 months ago
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Trans Pride Brighton – July 2017
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I take a lot of pride in being myself. I’m comfortable with who I am. James
McAvoy After the eventful shenanigans of Sparkle in Manchester earlier this
mon...
8 months ago
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On the Pride Center of the Capital Region, terfs, and Why Martha Harvey Needs to Resign
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CW: lots of swears, lots of terfs (A quick aside on the word terf because
I’m going to use it about a thousand times. It’s not a slur. Here’s a
doctor tell...
8 months ago
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The ivy is choking you – week 180
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Originally posted on Becoming Me:
English ivy is a noxious weed where I live and I hate it. It’s also a
perfect fucking metaphor for gender dysphoria. Left...
8 months ago
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My friend's Rainbow Journey
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I recently met someone from Japan, one who I now consider to be my friend,
who is traveling around the world talking to Transgender folk and sharing
their ...
8 months ago
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Thinking. Progress. Destination.
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Reflect on the events of this past Saturday and some questions that where
asked of me, along with the phone chat I had recently with the social
worker in H...
9 months ago
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Trying to reconnect with my children
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A lot has been written in the media about cis parents who grow to accept a
transgender child. Sadly, very little is available about the opposite
scenario ...
9 months ago
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What was said. What I’d have loved to have said. In Two Parts.
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What was Said. Part 1*Mrs. Bellejambes* celebrated a birthday recently.
Some of the things I picked up for her were not perfect, and one was a
complete re...
9 months ago
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I'm Not Myself
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I've been calling myself Genderfluid for just over a year now, at the time
it seemed to describe the ever changing nature of how I felt about myself
and my...
9 months ago
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That’s all folks……….
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Between 1955 and 1959, 143 episodes of “The Adventures of Robin Hood”
emerged from a tiny studio in Walton on Thames and burst onto black and
white telli...
9 months ago
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That’s all folks……….
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Between 1955 and 1959, 143 episodes of “The Adventures of Robin Hood”
emerged from a tiny studio in Walton on Thames and burst onto black and
white telli...
9 months ago
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ABC TV Cancels Downward Dog Show
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“Every Day my dog looks at me exactly the same way, like I’m the most
beautiful thing he’s ever seen. And, I just thought, what if we could see
ourselve...
9 months ago
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Nothing much
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Wow it's already the middle of the year, I hate how fast time goes by. But
it's not like I have any plans for what to do with my life, I think I've
come to...
10 months ago
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With Purpose
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The title of this post really highlights the way I’ve felt the last several
months and the experiences I’ve had the chance to take in. Since my last
updat...
10 months ago
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With Purpose
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The title of this post really highlights the way I’ve felt the last several
months and the experiences I’ve had the chance to take in. Since my last
updat...
10 months ago
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Transgender and LGBT++ Rights promised in UK Party Manifestos
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This piece is not written to influence how you vote in the general Election
on June 8th. it’s too late for that and in my humble opinion getting May
out of...
10 months ago
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Trans Twitter Gives Bad Dating Advice
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Trans Twitter Gives Bad Dating Advice — “You have much gold upon your
head,” They answer’d all together: “Buy from us with a golden curl.” —
Christina Ro...
10 months ago
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It has been a long time…
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since my last post. I’m still here. I am still battling with the trauma
of multiple surgeries, a disfiguring scar on my forearm, a devastating
betrayal f...
11 months ago
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Getting curious not furious
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Jeremy Dean is now 20. That’s a milestone within itself. His birthday
festival was spread out to accommodate the hot cross bun baking schedule at
work, b...
11 months ago
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I'll miss this platform
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But I don't think I'm going to keep using it. It's sad, because I've been
writing here for such a long time, and blogging for myself is therapeutic,
even i...
11 months ago
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Fracas
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So, today after an awesome meeting with a group I will be working with for
a time I went to the store. At said store there was a huge line but we were
all ...
11 months ago
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Sex, Drugs and Southern Hospitality: An Interview with Sam Peterson
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Sam Peterson’s Trunky (Transgender Junky): A Memoir of Institutionalization
and Southern Hospitality is the rare book that’s formally experimental AND
impo...
1 year ago
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India Willoughby, transvestites deserve protection too
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Hi India, How are you? Years ago we used to frequent the same forum site
so even though we’ve never met, I view you with the same fondness I feel
for a...
1 year ago
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Thoughts and Updates
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I can't believe it's been almost a year since I've posted anything. Time
flies and we don't...
So...my marriage is still going strong. It's pretty much ...
1 year ago
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And happily ever after...
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Family snuggle timeI've retired from blogging. I've been channeling my
creative energy into other hobbies, and I'm feeling uninspired to write
about my wi...
1 year ago
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Well…didn’t see this Coming.
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The following posts were made to my male Facebook profile. I finally came
to terms with it enough to [ost it here. I was trying to let this [profile
remain...
1 year ago
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Questions related to the surgery
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As mentioned in my previous post i said i would post the questions i asked
the surgeon’s assistant. Also, this post is NSFW as there are some details
regar...
1 year ago
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We Need A “Standards of Care” for Detransitioners
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One of my biggest takeaways from attending the recent USPATH conference is
that many clinicians and other providers sincerely want more information on
unde...
1 year ago
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Apology
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Recently, I undertook the task of going through my blog posts to get a
sense of my history. It has been a bit of a humbling experience – so much
so that ...
1 year ago
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What I’m talking about
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Ok so many of you will have seen this photo, absorbed and passed it by. I
just caught it on a video artical on the BBC website. Quite frankly I was
surpr...
1 year ago
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Watching When We Rise on ABC
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I've been watching *When We Rise*, the four part miniseries on ABC about
the birth and development of the LGBT movement in America and the parts
played in ...
1 year ago
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The door is open
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One of the things that is true; and that I have been pondering, is
that when you come out, your family comes out. I mean; once I am full time,
then al...
1 year ago
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Trying Out A New Name
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I wrote just over a month ago about my anxieties about going away. It’s now
less than a week until I actually go which is really exciting. I’m pumped
to se...
1 year ago
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Stuck In The Middle Again
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How to start? I said long ago when I made my choice to back our new
President that when he did things I felt were wrong I would call him out on
it. Today i...
1 year ago
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“Hidden Figures” in the struggle for civil rights
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Laverne Cox talked about the parallels between the real-life NASA
“computers” from the movie, “Hidden Figures,” on Stephen Colbert’s talk
show recently, an...
1 year ago
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New pics … at last!
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Finally got some long overdue “girl-time” yesterday – first time for over 2
years. I really shouldn’t leave it so long because it isn’t good for my
genera...
1 year ago
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Why I'm so passionate about the issues of others.
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*It's been 2.5 years since I've posted. I said I would post if I had
something to say and today, I do. Please note the experience I write about
does not in...
1 year ago
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We Interrupt This Program
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After writing once a week for four years. I’ve finally decided is time to
switch things up and stop posting on schedule and only post when I feel
like it. ...
1 year ago
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Was only a reader, till now
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Me thinks it is time to write something. I’ve been reading T-Central for
almost 7 years now. I have much …
Continue reading →
1 year ago
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Love and Loneliness
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*"I've looked at love from both sides now".... Joni Mitchell.*
Down on the seawall in my town, a few blocks from where I live, the benches
that look ...
1 year ago
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New Year, big changes.
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*Happy **New** Year!*
I begin the new year letting go of some important things. First up is the
pseudonym I have used for years. ‘Haust’ is gone, ...
1 year ago
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Happy 2017!!!
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Happy New Year everyone. I hope the new year is everything good you hope
and pray for.
I will be returning to my blogs this year. I really can't believe...
1 year ago
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Question
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Is looking for an excuse and opportunity to link to and out Susie to my
family and friends on Facebook possibly the most stupid and potentially
self-destru...
1 year ago
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Transitional thoughts
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Dabrela: womanliness as masquerade?
What would it mean to be a non-transitioning trans woman? Is there even
such a thing? The ever-thoughtful blogger, Tran...
1 year ago
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Questioning the Fluctuations
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This isn't the scribbling I intended (or promised) to note as I stated in
the last entry. However, it is part of my developing thoughts on this
future sub...
1 year ago
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Yuletide greetings.
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*Soon be nobody left now that Leonard Cohen is gone too... Someone else who
had to deal with depression and his music soothed my troubled soul. Just
sad to...
1 year ago
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Victoria’s Secret – The Show
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Hey, so yesterday it was time for the amazing show. I haven’t seen the show
but I took a look at a lot of pictures and it seemed amazing and I can’t
wait t...
1 year ago
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Wait, I was transitioning? (15+ months HRT)
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The Prostap Nightmare I spent the first 14 months of HRT living a
nightmare. The T-blocker I was on (leuprorelin acetate sold as Prostap SR)
crushed and s...
1 year ago
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Heroes and Hope
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It’s times like these that make me feel the most hopeless. I haven’t always
been good at dealing with feelings like this. But when the future looks
bleak, ...
1 year ago
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Cultivation Corner Starting Seeds
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So you want to sprout those ganja seeds you found in your stash?
First off I want you to be sure that your grow space will be warm enough
for seed germinati...
1 year ago
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I am able to talk again
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I am back on deck and I think more in control of myself than I have been
for quite some time. Will be making more additions to this blog as I go
along. The...
1 year ago
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Ringing the changes part 2
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So, my first post about how I changed my name with various organisations
was starting to get a bit long, so this is a continuation. The first can
be seen ...
1 year ago
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Song for straight crossdressers
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So I found this amazing song by NOFX. It’s called “I’m a Transves-Lite”.
Here is the link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vgEsf8JYqVA The lyrics
given bel...
1 year ago
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Long overdue
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As usual no posts for ages, I know, I know I am sooo naughty but there it
is.
Well summer has been and gone and the downward slide to winter is well
under ...
1 year ago
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Community standards
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More and more it seems to me that explaining trans concepts simply in
individualistic terms is a mistake. Can understand it in terms of trans
narratives be...
1 year ago
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September 22 2016
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Thank you. Thank you for the last four years. Thank you for letting me
into your hearts, for letting me be a part of your day, for letting me
bounce my th...
1 year ago
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Ocean Grove beach and dinner day - wed. sept 14th, 2016
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i decided that while the weather was still nice and after the heat wave
somewhat cooled down it was time to head to the Ocean Grove beach.
although the ...
1 year ago
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My response to a post by Tyler Charles Austen
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Dear Mr Austen, On 26th August 2016, you made a post on your eponymous
blog (that means you named it after yourself) called “I Can’t Believe I’m
Saying Th...
1 year ago
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Last Post
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So this is it. The last post I’ll make here (for the foreseeable future
anyway). I’ve moved my fitness adventures over to
http://transtriathlete.com and I’...
1 year ago
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A rediscovered poem
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I found this in my 2013 dream journal, from when I was still in the closet.
My dreams were born from above, not below, or if below, in the primal
ember ...
1 year ago
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This is goodbye (A happy one)
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This is going to be my last post on It’s ok to be a glow stick. I am sad to
be saying goodbye but my life has changed dramatically and sadly, there is
no r...
1 year ago
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Identity Crisis
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I have lost my identity.
I'm not sure if I'm still mom, wife, daughter or 911 dispatcher.
If I'm not any of the above, then who am I besides lost?
1 year ago
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Goodbye
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It's been a couple of months since I last posted, despite my desire to do
an A-Z on the issues I find important. My absence was caused by many
things, but...
1 year ago
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The gym experience
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My fitness in recent years has been something that I have felt has become
very important to me. I remember starting running back in the time when I
was dea...
1 year ago
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The Post-GRS Blues
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On Twitter during the week, I joined in a conversation about Gender
Reassignment Surgery and general fears regarding such a huge operation.
Personally, GRS...
1 year ago
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Me...
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Realized I hadn't posted in a while. That will change starting with an
updated picture of me.
1 year ago
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A new audience
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I am feeling a little humbled. I was asked last week at my college to talk
about transgender issues, to my college group of counsellors in training. I
star...
1 year ago
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A new audience
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I am feeling a little humbled. I was asked last week at my college to talk
about transgender issues, to my college group of counsellors in training. I
star...
1 year ago
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Mid-Year Check In
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At the beginning of this year, I wrote a post about my love of new
beginnings and my resolutions for 2016. I was not too lofty in my goals; I
attempted to ...
1 year ago
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My Return and First Time Out… again
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I’ve been trying to collect my thoughts the last few days. They have been
a jumble of emotions, mostly good. I haven’t felt this way in a long time
and f...
1 year ago
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These Recent Events
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Hello, my amazing readers.
I don't have much to report personally, except to say that Natasha is
scared. She's not exactly letting it run her life. Because...
1 year ago
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Comfortable.
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Well, ok then, saying as this is my last opportunity to be girl for a few
weeks. So instead of continuing with the renovations on my old cottage, i
went fo...
1 year ago
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Thoughts on the Orlando shooting
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There is something surreal, in moments like this, about being a privileged
member of an oppressed minority. I can breeze through airport security
with whi...
1 year ago
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At work
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It's definitely time for me to start thinking about when and how I'm going
to transition at work. Outside of work I'm now living as myself pretty much
full...
1 year ago
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The First Mothers’ Day
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If last year we celebrated the last Father’s Day, this year we introduced
the first Mothers’ Day. And yes, the apostrophe is in the right place. I
admit to...
1 year ago
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An Update
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Hi, everyone. I know, I know, I promised to start blogging again. And
that was a hell of a long time ago. I just found myself far too busy, and
far too ...
1 year ago
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Notice: Blog URL Changing Soon
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Hello Out There! My Life Without Tits is undergoing a little change.
Coming soon, the url will revert back to
http://www.wordpress.com/mylifewithouttits. ...
1 year ago
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The Bond That is Trans
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I have felt, for years, that here is a certain, nearly indestructible,
unspoken bond that exists between anyone who is trans. With me, this is
especially...
1 year ago
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On Being A Transwoman in a Bathroom
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To be perfectly honest, I am actually really surprised this is a topic that
presidential candidates are addressing. Seriously, it’s one thing for
people to...
1 year ago
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Feeling Positive Again :)
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I had been feeling really down about things over the last few months and I
know that my recent posts on here haven’t been very positive about my
situation....
2 years ago
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A good weekend
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It’s been a good weekend. I actually feel pretty confident that I could
pass one day. I know that’s not the most important thing, but it matters a
lot to ...
2 years ago
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A good weekend
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It’s been a good weekend. I actually feel pretty confident that I could
pass one day. I know that’s not the most important thing, but it matters a
lot to ...
2 years ago
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Goin' to North Carolina. Why Do I Feel Like A "Freedom Rider"?
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In NO WAY am I comparing what Transgender people are going through in North
Carolina to what Black Americans went through before and during the Civil
Right...
2 years ago
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My 100th post…
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This is my 100th post. I was hoping to make it a special one with a
description of another outing as Valerie, in my new modern “blending”
outfit. Unfortuna...
2 years ago
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An FAQ Regarding my Gender Identity and Transition
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Since I last posted here, almost a year ago, things have progressed with my
gender transition. More people are now learning about my true identity, as
I wi...
2 years ago
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Back
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Where is she? When is she coming back? What's happening in Tammy World?
These are all questions I've gotten over the last few months. Questions
shouted...
2 years ago
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Ghosts
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So it has been almost a year since I last posted. It is not that I’ve had
a lack of things to write about, more of a case of writers block – finding
words...
2 years ago
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Not sure what to say..
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I am not sure what to do, or what to say, depression is my only constant
“friend”, with me all the time, someone I hate, yet never hates me back.
Medical m...
2 years ago
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Back to the Stone Age.
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I think the song is fitting, It is not mine, the opinions on this page are
mine. In posting this video, I am in no way saying that this group believes
as I...
2 years ago
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End of the Journey
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I've been trying to write this post for a few days. This is actually the
third version I've come up with. Its been 7 years since I started this
blog. In th...
2 years ago
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Come Up to the Lab: My Gender Workshop
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Ever since Time Magazine proclaimed a “Transgender Tipping Point” a year
and a half ago, I’ve been exploring trans identities and expressions that
aren’t i...
2 years ago
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hiatus
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just wanted to let you all know that Will is doing fabulous in recovery
(tracking everything diligently on @journeyintomanhood) and in England for
his se...
2 years ago
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EE screwed up our phone numbers
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Well I haven't posted for ages since nothing really to write about but now
it's time for a bit of a rant so what better way to vent spleen.
First some back...
2 years ago
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Reminder: Follow my new blog! This one is closing imminently
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This is just a quick reminder, in case anyone who cares missed it the first
time, that GenderDrift is being turned into a private blog where it can
rest pe...
2 years ago
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Being a Gender Critical woman born trans is a very lonely place to be
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My understanding of gender critical theory is limited.
There's no reference text anywhere explaining it, and questioning GC
theorists on their own turf nev...
2 years ago
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Blogging about it….
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I started this blog because I wanted to help people in a similar situation
to me. I was younger and never proclaimed to have all the answers.
Sometimes the...
2 years ago
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Debunking Bathroom Myths
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*Debunking Bathroom Myths*
Original article by *Brynn Tannehill *can be viewed *Here*
*When the Houston Equal Rights Ordinance was defeated, the ostens...
2 years ago
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RUMBLED. BUT IT TURNS OUT TO THE GOOD
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As per usual on a Wed evening I make my way to the Butterfly Club support
premises to get my self ready to face the world. Nothing new in that. And
as per ...
2 years ago
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Caitlyn Jenner Speaks at Chicago House Event
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Caitlyn Jenner Speaks at Chicago House Event:
grvsmth:
sometranslady:
grvsmth:
sometranslady:
snowflakeespecial:
This isn’t a funny story. Trying on y...
2 years ago
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Postscript
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I thought that my urge to blog had departed. It hasn't... but I do need to
move on. Angie's Aspirations — aka About Angie — was written from the
perspecti...
2 years ago
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Got A Little Beautified…
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Not much here, but I went out for a bit of a day, treated by a couple of
friends, and had my brows waxed and got my hair done. Here’s the results.
I s...
2 years ago
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17 Months on T Update
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17 Months on T Next week marks 17 months on T, nearly one and a half
years. I cannot believe I have not posted any update for 5 months, time
just really h...
2 years ago
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10 Ways to Destroy the Earth
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my mother died in this room now it is occupied by my nieces whenever they
sleep over a playroom i currently occupy it sleeping on the lower bunk of
their l...
2 years ago
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While I Am Away...
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So....
I have been away...yup. Not news. Been busy. Plus, not much to write about
really, I've just submerged into 'normal' Nairobi life, with a few bumps ...
2 years ago
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U want to be her!
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[image: U want to be her!]
2 years ago
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Become a girl
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[image: Become a girl]
2 years ago
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Still Here
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I realized last week that I hadn’t written a blog…or a Facebook post…or a
journal entry…or much of anything in five or six months. Part of me was
bothered ...
2 years ago
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5 months in
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*Continued**, from April 5th 2015*
5 months since the hospital I still don't know much about it.
Dissociative Identity Disorder.
My amnesia isn't just hav...
2 years ago
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Through The Looking Glass
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I’m not sure exactly when it happened, but it did. That is, I stopped
considering myself “transitioning.” What does that mean, exactly? Am I
where I want t...
2 years ago
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*Hey!*
So... tomorrow school begins again.
This schoolyear I am planning to come out and start dressing, acting,
talking, etc. like a girl. Honestly, it's ...
2 years ago
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Transition Is A Banquet
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Transition is not a one-way street, or a bowling lane with the bumpers up.
Transition is not a recipe with precise measurements, or a fixed
curriculum, or ...
2 years ago
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It’s Inherent
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The frequency and unexpectedness with which being transgendered asserts
itself is ever a source of amazement. Regardless of how deeply in
background one ma...
2 years ago
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This Rain
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Originally posted on chester maynes:
Abruptly, water gushes from the sky. I hear the storm drops too loud. Wind
creeps cold on my skin. Thunder slits these ...
2 years ago
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Telling a Friend
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I recently told a friend about Amy. I didn't go into many details or show
him pictures or anything, but it felt good to talk about and get a positive
reac...
2 years ago
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And Last
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I used that subject last week as well.
It happens. Click to enlarge (the cartoon not the imagination)This is a
hard post to organise and a hard post to wr...
2 years ago
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The world keeps on turning.
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So I guess it’s time to get back into this blog of mine. I mean I’ve been
gone for so long and really it’s just time to start again. Since my last
real b...
2 years ago
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To be different from other girls: on misogyny, inside and out
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I am not like other girls. Perhaps you are here because you are not,
either. Some variation on the words “I’m different from normal girls” is
one of the t...
2 years ago
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Why Bruce Jenner, Andreja Pejic and other Trans Celebrities Still Don’t Matter
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Recently there have been a number of celebrities that have come out to
announce that they define as transgender. For some of them it wasn’t a
shocker, for ...
2 years ago
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On Reconciling my Beliefs, Depression and Gender
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Howdy. Sorry it's been a while, I am simply the most infrequent blogger in
the world... I've been buried under piles of work for what seems like
forever, a...
3 years ago
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End game...
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So things didn't get better...I slipped further and last Tuesday I went to
my scheduled appointment...when she saw me the choices were go home for a
matter...
3 years ago
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Handbags & Glad Rags……….
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I always feel a bit rotten about writing a new post when I have so many
posts from others to …
Continue reading →
3 years ago
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Commenters and deep thoughts
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I would like to start by apologizing for the long break between posts. A
little thing called life intervenes and my writing suffers. Family, health,
work, ...
3 years ago
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Jenna Talackova, and the importance of transitioning when young
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I greatly admire Jenna Talackova, the beautiful, sexy, and courageous M2F
transgender model, beauty contestant, reality television star, and actress.
I ...
3 years ago
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Motorhead Girls
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Motorhead Girls ... we are girls who love cars, trucks, bikes, planes, and
boats. Anything with a motor. Maybe we love some of them, maybe we love all
of ...
3 years ago
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Shutting down
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I've decided that I am not, after all, the blogging type.
I never managed it in my other identity either, so I don't know why I
should be surprised.
So,...
3 years ago
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Dangerous Situation
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***** This post might be triggering ***** Something really scary happened
last evening. I was standing outside with a friend (who is also homeless
and we u...
3 years ago
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Could it really be THAT easy?
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So, not going to get too excited here, but bear with me, kay? Last night, I
decided to talk to Phyl about her withdrawals and pulling away. I wanted to
try...
3 years ago
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One Year as Me!
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Dianne Piggott
10/30/2013
One year. Just one year. One entire year. All of one year. One circle of
the Earth around the Sun.
A year ago to...
3 years ago
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Cumberbatch and his offense offence
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Poor old Benny Cumberbatch…him and his big old posh, ex slave owning gob.
Actually I feel for the bloke. Trying to do his best for British actors of
colour...
3 years ago
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Coming out on Facebook.
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I have a relatively small number of friends on facebook, I keep it that
way, I don’t add anyone I meet. Everyone on my friends list is actually my
friend o...
3 years ago
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XXY: Reflections of Gender in Children
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A while back, I read a very sad story not related to Leelah Alcorn although
that is another sad story. This one is about an XXY child who was gender
denie...
3 years ago
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New Hair … :) Trying different looks :)
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So the new wig arrived… and figured a day off would be fitting to try it on
:) Here are a few pics… Ya short and sweet post … :P Peace and Love!
Tamara :)
3 years ago
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Transgender Q&A
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When it comes to the subject of transgender and the LGBT community, I think
that there are three different types of people. The first (and the fastest
gro...
3 years ago
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I is for Identity Politics
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Hello all. For my first post of 2015, I am going back to blogging through
ye old alphabet. Today I is for identity politics. Identity politics are
how i...
3 years ago
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Leelah, and all the others who struggle
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Happy New Year!
I'm so sorry I don't update regularly! I have been off school for a couple
weeks, so I have no good excuse, but I hope you all had a wonder...
3 years ago
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A New Christmas with family
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As anyone can expect the end of the year can bring surprises and lots of
joy to one's heart and soul. This year is really an exception for Kay and
I, as w...
3 years ago
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On the other side!
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It’s been a few days since I last posted on my blog, and for good reason.
Thursday, 11th December 2014 I finally had the surgery I had been waiting
so lon...
3 years ago
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Saying goodbye
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The time has come for me to say goodbye and put this blog to bed. I doubt
anyone reads it anymore, but I’m the type of person who likes closure, so I
gue...
3 years ago
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Xmas 2014
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I thought I should drop a post in, and wish everyone a happy Xmas.
If you should be reading this, and you are a Pagan like my son, or any of
the non-christ...
3 years ago
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No Big Deal
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My daughter started high school last month.
The other night she told my wife and me that there's a transgender girl in
her homeroom. During the summer ...
3 years ago
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I finally legally exist!
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On July 1st, 2014 it finally happened. The law that made it impossible for
me and many others like me to change their gender on any official documents
drop...
3 years ago
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A Controversial Stance On The Word “Queer”
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Controversial new video about the use of the word queer in the LGBT
community.
3 years ago
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8 Steps on How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Immediately
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If you are trying to get your ex boyfriend back, but are fighting and get
no results, then you should know this is a common thing that tons of girls
go thr...
3 years ago
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Pigtails
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Last night as I was hugging Kegan good night, I started playing with her
hair and realized her hair is at that almost long enough to put into a
super short...
3 years ago
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She Returns
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Gee, that was a long time coming, wasn't it?
I managed to survive from February to July at the Good Samaritan House at
Westgate. This is a Christian-run fa...
3 years ago
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The Maker of Noses
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Like many of you, I enjoy music, and I look to it for inspiration and
support. My taste in music is quite eclectic, ranging from hymns through
jazz and roc...
3 years ago
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July 18th 2014
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I know I haven't posted in a long time, things have just gotten crazy
around here. We were finally able to get pregnant with our third, and
recently found...
3 years ago
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been proven wrong
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I have had many people walk in and out of my life. And a lot of them have
been anything but nice to me. Over the years most of my friend have turn
against...
3 years ago
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I’m not sure what “normal” means, but i think it feels like this
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It’s been a while since i’ve posted anything here, and historically that
has meant that things aren’t going well. This time, however, it means that
we’ve b...
3 years ago
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Tumor no more
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On January 8, 2012 I was informed that the fight to live was over, I would
not be getting my last Chemo treatment, all scans have no cancer traces in
them ...
3 years ago
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*I think it is time to completely let my fears of letting those who know me
in my life, but may not know 'me' now because I did what I needed to do for
my ...
3 years ago
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Vote for Sophia
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I'm running in a mock election and I need your votes. You might be asking
why I need your vote, and *how in the heck did I wind up in politics?* Well,
my ...
3 years ago
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Keepin’ On
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When I was driving home from work this afternoon I started to think of this
blog and its lack of updates. I think the general trend is that when I
dress mo...
3 years ago
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A Question
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So, I've been doing this girl thing for a while now.
It's good, but there is some weirdness...
Has anyone else experienced this?
[Bumps into a doorjam, or...
3 years ago
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Day 105: Whiskey Aging… DONE!
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So after nearly 3 and a half months it’s done! I ended up with a bottle
and a half of sweet, dark whiskey. It’s amazingly easy to do. At this
point, I’m ...
4 years ago
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Here's a Little Something No One Told You
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Milestones are things to be celebrated. In our culture we have only a few
of them high school graduation, marriage, parenthood, (divorce), and death.
Other...
4 years ago
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Sweeping the Ashes
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“Things change. And friends leave. Life doesn't stop for anybody.”
“I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems
don't rhyme...
4 years ago
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Another new chapter
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*or the next stop on the timeline...*
*Anyway, as some of you may remember, in a galaxy, far, far..wait, wrong
story.*
*I married my other half 13 years a...
4 years ago
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I'm coming out and I want the world to know...
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As the weeks went by I've became more and more emboldened with my
transition. I started buying more clothes, and started laser hair removal.
On Christmas...
4 years ago
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It has been too long since last I blogged
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Yes, I know, more than two years have gone by, and some of you may be
wondering if all is well. YES! Everything remains wonderful. We've now been
happily m...
4 years ago
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It's "her's"
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I've been living as woman for two years now, two really good years. I was
and still am one of the lucky few. I have gone through this transition
without lo...
4 years ago
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Paula Deen Quote
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“I feel like ‘embattled’ or ‘disgraced’ will always follow my name. It’s
like that black football player who recently came out. He said, ‘I just
want to...
4 years ago
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Huffing Post Interview August 9, 2013′
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Interview with me concerning my de-transiton:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/09/transgender-nfl-cheerleader_n_3728301.html
4 years ago
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Link to my daughter’s blog post
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Here’s something my daughter posted today… Hexydezimal A fallen angel
returns. hexydezimal.wordpress.com Questions for the Transgender Community
Happy bela...
4 years ago
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Three Unwise Men
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Yet another bawbag is frothing at the mouth.
This latest cretinous oaf, a Russian actor of whom this reporter at least
has never heard, says he would "stuff...
4 years ago
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Hanging in, hanging out, hanging on
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It has been a while since I have posted anything here. Up to this point, I
have maintained this blog as a combination of sporadic articles, and the
occasio...
4 years ago
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I Dreamed a Dream in Times Gone By...
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This past week has been especially difficult because of the second coming
out of 'Marcy' Michael's female alter gender identity. My strife is
entirely i...
4 years ago
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I realised to day that I still have this account open.
I have moved all of my blog to my website, www.sarah-savage.com
Thanx
4 years ago
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Are you a man or a woman? Yes, thanks.
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This time last week I was getting ready to go to the Attitude Awards, where
I was asked to present the gong for media representation. (I write for
Attitude...
4 years ago
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Enough
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Originally posted on Nuclear Unicorn:
My approach to Cathy Brennan has long mirrored my approach to Ann Coulter;
I generally refuse to dignify their delibe...
4 years ago
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Two Years and 10 Months
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A short update. It has been 2 years and 10 months now without
crossdressing. I continue to live sober and somewhat more peacefully.
Thank you so much for...
4 years ago
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UpDate!
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Doesn’t seem possible but I have been on HRT now for over a year and a
half. Life is different and good! For what ever reason my “Cyrsti’s
Transgender Cond...
4 years ago
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Ether Radio
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Last Tuesday I took the day off work to run errands. Around 8:30 in the
morning I was sitting in my boyfriend's car by a gas pump. Peter was
inside colle...
5 years ago
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Hatred, Transphobia & Twitter storms..
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I'm far from surprised that this has blown up like it has.. To be honest it
was only a matter of time, Trans people put up with an awful lot, I don't
want ...
5 years ago
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The Wedding and the Beach House
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It was a balmy June Saturday in Napa valley, California. The winery
Heather’s cousin Rosalind had chosen for the wedding was beautifully placed
amidst rol...
5 years ago
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Retrospect - Spring 2011 - The Highs and Low of being a TGirl
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Widemouth Bay, CornwallBy the spring of 2011 I felt that things were going
quite well and that with my new image I was well on the well to achieving
the g...
5 years ago
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Dear Jane 2
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Losing my freedom to explore who I am, once I finally figured it out has
been detrimental to my health, almost tragically.
I have been living in the shadow...
6 years ago
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Reality TV
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I was reassembling the bike last weekend with radio 4 on drip-feed and
heard a piece about people who live a second life on the Internet. It
appears that f...
9 years ago
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