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Honestly, a part of me felt prettier than I had ever felt in my life. In
the past five years I've gotten so much better at makeup, two years of
HRT has helped to sculpt my face, and I've been working my way to a
healthier weight.
Faith prefers the brunette look but oh does she rock the look as a Blonde Bombshell. You'll love this post. It's about fashion, shopping and hair.....with lots of pictures of this absolutely gorgeous girl.
The People - Personal Thoughts
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At the Corner of Impostor Syndrome and Internalized Transphobia
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Once upon a time, there was a little girl who was raised as a boy. She was
told she was a boy, told to act like a boy, and was teased and bullied when
she ...
1 hour ago
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A quick visit by GFJ.
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Hudson Valley Restaurant Week. The days each participating restaurant has
special meals is up to the restaurant. And GFJ and I made a wonderful
mistake...
2 hours ago
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I just wanted to let you know that there’s less than two...
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I just wanted to let you know that there’s less than two days left to pre-order
my new book, “We Won’t be Erased”! Pre-orders will be signed and come with...
5 hours ago
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The rocky road to dating…
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Three nights ago I revived my old OKCupid account and spruced it up. I then
took a look at the people that were available to me. That would be nine,
appare...
10 hours ago
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I’m About To Find Out
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My Primary Care Physician is retiring after something like 40 years as my
PCP and I have to pick a new PCP so I am about to see how trans friendly
they are...
10 hours ago
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199
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I planned to finish a post I started yesterday and post it today, but
something surprising happened that trumps that unfinished post.
I got on the bathroo...
14 hours ago
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You bitch
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You made an adult cry, and then you gloated about it. “She cried like a
small child,” you said. “She had a woman with her with her arm round her,
comfortin...
17 hours ago
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A slow, painful grind: WPATH 2018 conference report
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In the first week of November I attended the 2018 WPATH Symposium in Buenos
Aires, Argentina. This biennial event is one of the largest trans studies
confe...
17 hours ago
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The Fragility of Connections (With Others Like Me)
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I interact with many. Comments here on the blog. Direct e-mails. And of
course, relationships in real life. I have been blessed to be able to
spend tim...
21 hours ago
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Adventures of Huckleberry Finn
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Adventures of Huckleberry Finn Chapter 10-11 Summary
Mark Twain
First Published -December 10, 1884
Very Cute - YouTube
- Now we get to the good stu...
21 hours ago
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TRANS PEOPLE CAN DRESS ACCORDING TO THEIR GENDER
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A court in Guyana struck down a law which banned trans people from dressing
according to their gender. The law, which was enacted in 1893, has been
deemed ...
1 day ago
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So much wasted time and energy
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Oh the bane of writing with Word. But you make do with what you have. I was
working on a couple of my books and one of them that I put in over 20,000
words...
1 day ago
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My trip down Crossdressing’s Rocky Road
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I wanted share my story; some of what is to follow might be upsetting, but
there is a happy ending… I was born August 1970 in Manchester, England to
older...
1 day ago
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Victory March?
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At last night's transgender - cross dresser support group meeting, it
occurred to me how long and drawn out process the journey is to cross the
gender fron...
1 day ago
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Gender Identity Isn’t a Box. It’s a Yardstick.
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One of the big questions I was still left with when I stopped blogging here
for a few years was very simple: What, exactly, is gender identity? If you
read...
1 day ago
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Sunday time as Susan
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It is Sunday November 11th 2018 Veteran’s and the 100th year anniversary of
the ending of WWI. Now I was never in the military but both my parents were
and...
2 days ago
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Gay Trans Men
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I asked friends on Facebook recently for stories, memoir, or narratives of
whatever kind about gay trans men negotiating sex with cis gay men. Here’s
what ...
2 days ago
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Thinking about trauma
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Every year around mid-November, I tend to think back and reflect on a
defining period of time in my adolescence. And for as long as I’ve had
this blog, I’...
3 days ago
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One Month On : Mistakes Were Made!
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So it is now exactly a month since my operation. During that time I have
basically had to re-learn how to do a lot of things and there is a lesson
to defin...
3 days ago
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Well, it’s been a while to say the least.
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But much stuff has been happening…… I started seeing my psychiatrist again
due to extreme depression with life as it is. I’m a father to 3 lovely kids
and ...
4 days ago
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Home alone
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Lately, I’m pleased to say that I’ve have a very strong sense of being
stable and sane. I’m not letting it lull me into a false sense of ease or
flirtatio...
4 days ago
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Saturday Night Insomniac Talking
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So it's late at night- 11:27 as I start dictating this. November 10th,
soon to be the 11th. November 11, 2018 is the 100th anniversary of the end
of Worl...
4 days ago
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Winter is here.
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Winter is knocking on the door. Last week it was cold and raining.
Yesterday it snowed, again, and this time it stuck and stayed; a sign of
things to come....
4 days ago
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The best laid plans...
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In my last post I explained that I was planning to travel abroad this week.
Except I haven't because, whilst in the middle of removals, I had an
accident. ...
4 days ago
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PFLAG Events for November
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PFLAG’s mission is uniting people who are lesbian, gay, bisexual,
transgender, and queer (LGBTQ) with families, friends, and allies. PFLAG
is committed to...
4 days ago
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Christmas Restocking
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My jewellery-making has been rather lax of late, while burlesque consumed
my time and soul, but since it will now be a few months before I can be in
anothe...
5 days ago
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The right frame of mind
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Hi,
There are times, and, I don't know if you get this or not, but there's a
swirl of life's events around you. Most of the time, it's the general
hubbub ...
5 days ago
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Life Before The Internet
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Given how we live today, sharing pictures of coffee on social media, it's
hard to remember the fabric of life before the Internet. And yet that
existed, ...
5 days ago
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What would you do?
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How much should you reveal about yourself online? I don't mean on a blog,
but when you are looking for a potential partner on a dating site. Yes
that's rig...
6 days ago
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Bring him to justice – justice served
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George Flowers, aka Mr Flowas, has entered a plea of guilty to the charges
against him and the court has accepted that plea. Victim impact statements
and s...
6 days ago
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Facial dysphoria
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I’m still in this weird place where I go back and forth almost every other
day about whether I like my face better now or with the beard. But today as
I wa...
6 days ago
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I Cannot Breathe
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I cannot breathe. Another mass shooting. Another presidential hissy fit.
Another group of strangers throwing hate at an entire community of people –
those ...
6 days ago
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Knives, forks and spoons
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In a post on my last holiday in the West Country I mentioned that I'd been
lucky enough to buy a sixteen-piece set of quality stainless steel cutlery
for j...
6 days ago
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Halloween
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Halloween in the UK is not as big a deal as in other parts of the world.
One just has to lurk on crossdressing forums to know what a massive
festival it i...
1 week ago
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Obligatory selfie in the bathroom [Flickr]
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Sandra M. Lopes posted a photo:
[image: Obligatory selfie in the bathroom]
Flattr me!
1 week ago
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The Party Continues…
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My new album has been out in the world for a month now and so far it’s been
received well by those who have heard it but I admit to being a little
underwhe...
1 week ago
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November 2018 - It has been a while!
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Well, it has been a while since I posted anything in this blog but to be
honest, I decided to give it a break for a while but it has now been 7
months sinc...
1 week ago
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Things That Make You Go Hymn
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I am the worst sort of Lapsed Catholic. So I began 2018 with that sort of
mindset. And everything served up this year has only continued to push me
further...
1 week ago
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My Outfit - Bold Red Booties
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Jacket - Guess - Similar @ Amazon
Top - WHBM - Similar @ Amazon
Skirt - WHBM - Similar @ Amazon
Booties - Xappeal, Alexa - @ Rack Room Shoes Similar @ Amazo...
1 week ago
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Garbage: You Should Always Meet Your Heroes
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Me in the lower right - utterly enraptured.
Whoever said "you should never meet your heroes" clearly never met Shirley
Manson. Or Butch Vig, Steve Marker,...
1 week ago
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One Day
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I realize I have a tendency towards melancholia, I always see the darkness
before the light. It must be noted, that despite what I initially see,
there is ...
1 week ago
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Noerasure
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November — No sun — no moon! No morn — no noon, as Thomas Hood gloomily put
it. In the northern hemisphere at least, the days are short, the clocks
have go...
1 week ago
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Time to Say Goodbye
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In honor of Samhain and Scorpio season, I’m making a decision to clear
something from my life that hasn’t really been active for a while. I’ll no
longer be...
2 weeks ago
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Some thoughts over coffee
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I’m sitting in a coffee shop, getting ready for another NaNoWriMo. I posted
a blog on my writer’s page, but I though I’d write a few things here as
well. T...
2 weeks ago
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Another November, Another NaNoWriMo
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I feel like I rehash this little bit of history almost every year around
this time. November 1st begins another NaNoWriMo, or National Novel Writing
Month....
2 weeks ago
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After The Shitshow
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So after the shitshow of the GRA reform consultation, the relentlessness of
which was way too triggering for many. Still it enabled us to see many in
the...
2 weeks ago
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In, off, on, out.
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I count the days down to my regular body wax appointments. They are the
most intensely private periods of ‘me’ time that I can ever enjoy – yes,
even more ...
2 weeks ago
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New podcast episode: To tell or not to tell?
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In the last episode, I asked my listeners to help me answer this question:
Should my daughter tell the kids at her new school that she’s transgender?
In th...
2 weeks ago
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A Thousand Feet, Ten Miles Apart
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‘Round laces –’ I sighed to myself, ‘try them anyway.’ I pulled on those
leather boots, I say leather but they weren’t, I searched the entire boot
but the ...
2 weeks ago
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Absolutely OUTstanding
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It has been quite a while since I have posted anything on this blog. Five
months, to be precise. Yet a few things have happened within the last week
or s...
2 weeks ago
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They can't take it away from me
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So then. Here I am, in a nightie and dressing gown, on my friend's
sofa with my feet propped up. Safe and warm, about 10 days after having my
GRS. Alm...
2 weeks ago
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I ATE'NT DEAD
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Even when I'm not writing apparently I still get views, and messages. I
recently received a message from one reader asking me to share a page they
had wri...
2 weeks ago
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If You Don’t Let Your Kid Pick Their Own Costume, You’re A Monster
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By: C.J. (age 11) Halloween has always been one of my favorite holidays
because I get to dress up however I want and go walking around outside and
nobody j...
2 weeks ago
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Another Wedding Dress for the Collection
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THE ONE THAT GOT AWAY
As a big fan of Wedding Dresses I always find myself looking on eBay from
time to time at some of the second hand dresses for sale. ...
2 weeks ago
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Not being heard
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I often feel like no one hears when I say something about my rights because
they chalk it up to just being about politics. They put a deaf ear to my
clari...
3 weeks ago
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K&A Canal Calendar 2019
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The new Kennet and Avon Canal Calendar 2019 is just back from the printers!
It's full of paintings by me of life on the canal, as you can see. It costs
...
3 weeks ago
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Fragile Discourses
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There is so much wrong with Trevor Phillips’ anti-trans rant in the T*mes
that it is difficult to know where to start, indeed a proper take-down with
a com...
3 weeks ago
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Not A Life Choice -The Government
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Many in the transgender community were concerned about Trump and Pence due
to their hate of the LGBT community. We were told we were unreasonable. We
were ...
3 weeks ago
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A (Brief) Visit to the Tunnel of Love, or My (Mis)Adventure in Stirrups :D
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Greetings and salutations, one and all. Hope all are well. It's been a
looonnnngggg time since I posted. Things have really been hoppin' at Cass's
Casa, ...
3 weeks ago
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Book Launch
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Mea Culpa! Mea Culpa! I have been remiss. I have not told you about the
book launch I attended in mid-September. Apologies. Life has been rather…
busy (and...
4 weeks ago
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Three Little Orleans Log Book Entries
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The Potomac Appalachian Trail Club (PATC) (www.patc.net) is a volunteer
organization that has existed, I believe, since the 1930s and has
responsibility f...
4 weeks ago
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Ooooops, out.
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*I have friends old enough to celebrate their fiftieth wedding anniversary
and was invited to the celebration at a rented large country house in the
nort...
4 weeks ago
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Winter Woollies
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Summer has been an amazing season in the UK this year, with record number
of sunny days and record temperatures, leading to a great outdoor
adventures and...
4 weeks ago
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Finally Heading home....
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Yours truly, standing on a balcony at the Marine Corps Museum in Quantico,
VA on the last day of sightseeing. During this visit, a number of the
soldiers...
4 weeks ago
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Cancer is stalking me
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It’s taken me all week to process this, and share this news. A few days
ago, on my mother’s birthday, I got the results of a genetic test following
my annu...
4 weeks ago
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National Coming Out Day
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Stand with Trans is here for trans youth and their families. Our intention
is to be a resource, a source of support, a safe place, a
non-judgmental-all inc...
4 weeks ago
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2 weeks versus 4 years post op. It’s easy to forget these days how much I’ve changed in...
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2 weeks versus 4 years post op.
It’s easy to forget these days how much I’ve changed in the 4 years since I
started my physical transition. Not only has...
4 weeks ago
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Life Update
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Where has this blog been? Where have I been? Where am I going?
5 weeks ago
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Drag Queen Story Hour: Where dress-up is real!
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Drag Queen Story Hour (DQSH) is just what it sounds like. Fabulous drag
queens reading storybooks to children in public libraries, schools and
children’s...
5 weeks ago
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Twilight’s End
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The United States has been falling into an authoritarian twilight for years
now, decades, since Nixon and Kevin Phillips created the Southern Strategy
to a...
5 weeks ago
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Merging the Multiple Me's
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I've been thinking about my personal gender journey lately and have found
me struggling with trying to merge the multiple parts of me into one
person. Bein...
1 month ago
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Ok, just to spout out an opinion and my understanding of UMBRELLAS.
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There often and lately seems to be a question of who is trans? Who is more
trans? Who suffers more? Who has it harder? Who is an ally and who is part
of th...
1 month ago
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Getting over my Shopping Fears.
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While browsing through the makeup aisle recently, I thought about how long
it has taken me to get to the point where I am comfortable enough on my own
to ...
1 month ago
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Who wears the trousers ?
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So was out with a friend,shopping in Marheinekeplatz market ; there's a
saturday and a sunday one, clothes, a few antiques , bicycles , a chess
stall, all ...
1 month ago
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Aftermath
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The week of the articles and subsequent other media articles being
circulated and the following weeks have been interesting. The Mirror did a follow
up on ...
1 month ago
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Video: How I Feel About My Body
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Transcript: I want to talk a little bit about how I feel about my body
because I see that a lot of people think that detransitioned people all
hate our b...
1 month ago
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Kleinfelter’s – Female-Style
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* Kleinfelter’s – Female-Style (25 Sep 19\8) * Dear Reader: Thank you for
your patience putting up with my old essays these past few months. As you
know, A...
1 month ago
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Gabi Talks – Suicide is Not the Solution (video)
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Trigger warning: This video contains personal suicide experience details.
Approximately half the transgender population has attempted suicide, myself
inclu...
1 month ago
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consider bringing me out to your college campus!
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So a new academic year has begun, and as always, I am looking forward to
having the opportunity to speak/perform at various colleges & universities
this ye...
1 month ago
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Arr thy tail of thy name Deathly Dawn
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https://aguycalledbloke.blog/2018/09/19/international-talk-like-a-pirate-day-recruitment-drive/
Arr listen up ye scurby dogs to thy tail of thy name or I b...
1 month ago
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The suicide rate among FTM transgender youth is much higher than among MTF teenagers. Why?
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*Here is an article that has made me rethink certain preconceptions about
female to male transgender people: "Half Of Transgender Teen Boys Have
Attempted ...
1 month ago
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34 Years Later…This is Us.
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And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more
painful than the risk it took to blossom. – Anais Nin We said “I do” on a
rainy Satu...
1 month ago
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Trans is not a word to understand
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I think some people try to understand what it is to be transgender by
trying to understand the words. If they can construct an argument about the
words, th...
2 months ago
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Diagnosis
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It was excruciating. The pain burned all the way up my rib cage to my
shoulder. Even liquid morphine was struggling to keep it at bay. It was
dark and arou...
2 months ago
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Endings and new beginnings
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Some months ago, I observed how so many blogs similar to this one appear to
have fallen by the wayside and have not been updated for months, even
years. We...
2 months ago
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How to Challenge Unconcious Bias
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I've written before about how to defuse afronts that we may face as
transgender people. Strangers have an idea of who we are before they've
said a word to ...
2 months ago
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Brighton
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So last Tuesday we took ourselves orf to spend a couple of days away and
stay with friends in Brighton. Well it got slightly extended and we came
home on S...
2 months ago
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9-3-2018 Treatment Journal Entry #3
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Hello my darlings. As might be expected I found myself having difficulty
finding the time to write a third entry until now. In truth there were
times when ...
2 months ago
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From 1981. DES.
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2 months ago
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Turns Out I Was Right
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Seems the setbacks I deemed minor actually were minor. I’m down 1.2 lbs
from yesterday, and right back on track with where I was two days ago. I
could se...
2 months ago
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Crash
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Literally...
Wow, I can't beleive how long it is since I wrote the last post.
Firstly, I am doing well with the not calling myself stupid.
And whilst I am...
3 months ago
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Insecurities and Authenticity
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Over the past 3 months I learned much more than I learned over 3 years !! I
learned the difference between ‘Work For’, ‘Work With’, ‘Be For’, and ‘Be
With’...
3 months ago
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Review of The Fence by Lusty Soul
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At one time in my life — for most of it actually — I was a male of the
species. As I read this story by Lusty Soul, long forgotten memories of the
overpow...
3 months ago
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May You Find Peace
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I have made peace with myself, and can no longer in good faith leave or
recommend the content I once posted here. Those writings were my best
desperate ho...
3 months ago
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Fourth Pride.
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Nottingham 28th July. Last Saturday. My fourth Pride in a row. Which was
apparently the biggest yet.
And there was a large trans contingent throughout. It ...
3 months ago
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Dear Youngest Daughter
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When we transition, so many #girlslikeus can lose family. The reasons are
not always straightforward. Family might do their best to stand by us. My
fami...
3 months ago
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Empathetic electrologist highlights ‘Transgender Profiles’
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There’s a classic TV commercial for hair-dyeing (as they used to call it
back then) with the tagline “Does she or doesn’t she: only her hair dresser
knows ...
3 months ago
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Bikini Tan Lines
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Today I am talking about why you should try tanning in a bikini
3 months ago
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How cis lesbians can challenge transphobia after London Pride
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Content note: This blog mentions transphobia, violence and sexual violence
The events at London Pride inflicted huge distress and threat on trans
people. ...
3 months ago
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It’s been awhile
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Warning: this post is different. It talks about things that may make some
readers uncomfortable – especially ones that know me personally and in
parts it ...
3 months ago
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More Thinking. More Progress? Destination?
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So, in light of recent events and how things have changed over the last few
years, as well as finding my mind wandering, questioning what is going on,
I ha...
4 months ago
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Where’s your Pride, London?
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Hello, dears. Been a long time, I know. A little thing called life keeps
getting in the way of my writing. It doesn’t help that I am only back here
with ...
4 months ago
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Panties – A Special Pleasure
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In our recent poll on lingerie that trans girls and crossdressers prefer,
panties tied for first place with 25% of the vote. I don’t profess to
having th...
4 months ago
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Why Do People Hate Nonpassing Trans women?
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The post Why Do People Hate Nonpassing Trans women? appeared first on Rachel
Anne Williams.
4 months ago
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Twilight zone – Stockings VII - CoffeeTime
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y compression stockings don’t last that long as I go bare ‘stocking’ when
I’m at home and the heels start to wear out first and holes appear, or my
toe na...
4 months ago
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The merry-go-round
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It’s been 14 months since I wrote a Parenting Jeremy. Up until recently
there has been nothing really of note to write about in our lives with
respect to...
4 months ago
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Redefining Realness
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It’s been…..well….like forever since I’ve done a blog post.
There are reasons. Looking back at my blog, much of it is superficial. I’m
a pretty priva...
4 months ago
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Next steps
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Hello blog -
Yesterday marked an anniversary of sorts for me as it was 5 years ago to
the day that I officially came out as Jaclyn to my wife and started to...
5 months ago
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A day of celebration and faith
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It's June 7th and it's a momentous day for a few reasons.
1. It's my parents' 48th wedding anniversary!
Happy 48th wedding anniversary to my parents, seen ...
5 months ago
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6 weeks and free to roam
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Well, failed at the 2 week updates already. Seems life has a way of doing
that now a days. Been busy getting back to work, kids getting out of
school, bein...
5 months ago
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Profile: Alex
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You can call me… Alex I identify as… Gender-fluid/non-bianary As far as
third-person pronouns go, … they/them and female pronouns sometimes he/him
feels ri...
5 months ago
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This Ain’t About Jobs (10/20/17)
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Maybe you saw or heard about the memo put out by Attorney General Jeff
Sessions on October 4th that essentially ordered the Justice Department to
do a comp...
5 months ago
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Bright Eyed Immigrant
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There was an elderly woman that sat next to me in the gate area of the
Knoxville flight to Atlanta. She was probably in her early 70s and had the
most br...
5 months ago
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Last indolent Spinster Almost Daily Report from DOXA 2018
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My last laconic lazy one take video chatting about the last couple days of
the festival DOXA 2018
6 months ago
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Goal Update - Outlaw Half Nottingham
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The Outlaw Half in Nottingham is my first triathlon of the year. The first
of the three Outlaw races that I'll be doing.
Training hasn't been optimum for it...
6 months ago
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I live
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Haven't posted since July 2017, that's a new record for me. Things haven't
really changed, if I were to put any effort in this post it would be just a
repe...
6 months ago
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What’s the difference between Channel 4’s Genderquake and Jerry Springer?
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Optics, not content. Writing for The Huffington Post on the exploitation of
trans people and out of date controversy. Read it here:
https://www.huffingtonp...
6 months ago
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Things a Phlebotomist Might Say*
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"Which arm is best for you?"
"Roll up your sleeve."
"You may feel a little prick."
Nope.
"Why do you shave your arm hair?"
Keep in mind that I live my li...
6 months ago
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Finale
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Unfortunately, I am finding that this blog and my life is being used far
too often as a political football to promote various agendas and the actual
messag...
6 months ago
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Finale
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Unfortunately, I am finding that this blog and my life is being used far
too often as a political football to promote various agendas and the actual
messag...
6 months ago
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Interesting Article on CNN - Why girls can be boyish but boys can't be girlish
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One topic that I find fascination is the idea of shifting gender
stereotypes and how people, particularly "men" who enjoy trandtionally
"female" things, ar...
7 months ago
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Love the kid you've got, not the one you wish you had
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Parents of LGBTQ kids, or any kids, even young adult kids,
I ask you to listen; to read and to consider:
In recent months, I've had the fortune and misfort...
7 months ago
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AMA #3 -- Advice on choosing and buying wigs?
Ask Me Anything #3
Do you have any advice on choosing and buying wigs?
I purchased my first wig from an advert...
7 months ago
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Because SIWOTI
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You can be almost certain that someone will never change their mind because
of a comment posted on social media. Does that mean we should never try?
When y...
7 months ago
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The Speed of Life
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Last night the Commander and Chief of this country reiterated that
transgender people will not be allowed to serve in the military.
This proclamation, whic...
7 months ago
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one more cup of coffee
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TW The hustle for work continues, which is discouraging but necessary. I’m
having relationship issues, as all anyone wants to do is date. Decided
that’s ...
8 months ago
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This Week's Calogrenant
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Herder Grin
calogrenant.com
8 months ago
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Online competition redux
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Back in April 2016, I mentioned an online competition where I won a
voucher, which I used to buy a skirt and dress, both in size XL.
According to their si...
8 months ago
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NL Trans Issues Still Low Priority for Gays?
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It's no secret that the media has exploited the gay community and
sensationalized the gay community all thru the 60s 70s 80s 90s. It wasn't
until the early...
8 months ago
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Day 1,245: Moments Frozen in Time
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I have to admit, we had a pretty good run here at So There’s That. 21
podcast episodes and 32 blog posts over the course of a year. And a little
bit of n...
8 months ago
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GET READY TO FIGHT FOR IT, OR LOSE IT
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We let this devil of a person get elected. We have been standing by while
he eviscerates our country and our democracy.
I HATE TRUMP WITH EVERY OUNCE OF MY...
8 months ago
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Flying Solo in Vegas, Part 2
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While I was happy I had arrived at my hotel room without any problems, I
was tired, hungry, and a little sweaty from the journey. I was also behind
my pla...
9 months ago
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2 Hours To Rectify 51 Years Of Physical Abnormality (and 48 Years Of Wrongness)
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Following on from my last post, I have now been through the momentous event
of having my (cosmetic) gender reassignment operation to make the anatomy
betwe...
9 months ago
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at The Outpost… wherever it happens to be.
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here i was, all the way away from anyone, more than a mile down dirt till a
clearing that saw the road drift on into the horizon as just a couple of
dusty ...
9 months ago
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Rachel Dolezal
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Here is a question. Is a person's identity something they choose for
themselves? Or is it something which is imposed upon them by society? Is it
a bit of b...
9 months ago
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So, it's been a while.
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How've you been? It's been a while. Almost a year, looking at the last
post. Starting to feel old, but maybe that's because the kids are becoming
people an...
10 months ago
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Its been a while...
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I’m not really even expecting that anyone will remember me and read this,
but I did think that it was about time my long neglected blog got dusted
off and ...
10 months ago
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#147 – In Hospital, And Then Rehabilitation…
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Admitted to HonorHealth John C. Lincoln Hospital, a Level 1 Trauma center
for Phoenix in the HonorHealth network, I spent around nine days there,
around ...
11 months ago
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What's in a Name?
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Many years ago, while the internet was still in its infancy, I started
looking to find out information from other transgender individuals. At that
time bul...
11 months ago
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Sunday November 19, 2017 - Finally
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I started this Journey in Feb/March of 2010, when after the early death of
some clients and friends , I decided at 54 years of age, it was now or
never.
B...
11 months ago
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Where is the Washing machine?
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We were watching tele and caught the end of a who-dun-it. It involved the
death of a rugby coach and he was murdered for being a cross-dresser or
transgend...
11 months ago
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25 October Journal
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Well Folks, I am still working on my other post. I think it will be part of
the next book of my life, rather than the end of this one. I am closing
this bl...
1 year ago
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Fingernails
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little things aren't they, fingernails? Certainly nothing to get upset
about. But for me fingernails seem to have become the straw that broke the
camel's...
1 year ago
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Transgenderism Encourages Rigid Gender Stereotypes
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This is what I’m always on about. The problem with gender identity is that
it’s largely based on a social construct of what it means to be “male” or
“femal...
1 year ago
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Streetwalkers Manhattan 1980’s
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Throughout the 1980’s I had a column in ADAM magazine called Veronica
Vera’s New York. Here’s one of the treasures from my archives. I look
forward to shar...
1 year ago
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Step 6: Celebration
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I woke up again, this time back in Patches’ hovel. Morning sunlight was
streaming around the edges of the curtains, dimly illuminating the room. A
head o...
1 year ago
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Apples & Apples
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It was my second year at the Hendersonville Apple Festival in NC. The
previous year I went with my wife, we had a great time and enjoyed the day,
despit...
1 year ago
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The Penultimate Post
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It has been a while since I have blogged on here.... a long while. The
gaps between my blog posts have slowly widened as I have begun to find
myself, more...
1 year ago
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Excuse our dust, but we have moved!
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I have moved my blog over to a dedicated hosting provider, and we have
successfully migrated over to the WordPress platform. We have our own
domain name, a...
1 year ago
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Ticket check
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On another occasion last week I ran into ticket check in public transport,
and yet again I had to explain that the photograph on my public transport
pass d...
1 year ago
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Change is Good
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Well, change sometimes is good, but it is always inevitable, even if we
don’t want things to change. So, at this point, I’ve decided to change,
not only m...
1 year ago
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Trans Pride Brighton – July 2017
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I take a lot of pride in being myself. I’m comfortable with who I am. James
McAvoy After the eventful shenanigans of Sparkle in Manchester earlier this
mon...
1 year ago
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On the Pride Center of the Capital Region, terfs, and Why Martha Harvey Needs to Resign
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CW: lots of swears, lots of terfs (A quick aside on the word terf because
I’m going to use it about a thousand times. It’s not a slur. Here’s a
doctor tell...
1 year ago
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My friend's Rainbow Journey
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I recently met someone from Japan, one who I now consider to be my friend,
who is traveling around the world talking to Transgender folk and sharing
their ...
1 year ago
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Trying to reconnect with my children
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A lot has been written in the media about cis parents who grow to accept a
transgender child. Sadly, very little is available about the opposite
scenario ...
1 year ago
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What was said. What I’d have loved to have said. In Two Parts.
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What was Said. Part 1*Mrs. Bellejambes* celebrated a birthday recently.
Some of the things I picked up for her were not perfect, and one was a
complete re...
1 year ago
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I'm Not Myself
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I've been calling myself Genderfluid for just over a year now, at the time
it seemed to describe the ever changing nature of how I felt about myself
and my...
1 year ago
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That’s all folks……….
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Between 1955 and 1959, 143 episodes of “The Adventures of Robin Hood”
emerged from a tiny studio in Walton on Thames and burst onto black and
white telli...
1 year ago
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That’s all folks……….
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Between 1955 and 1959, 143 episodes of “The Adventures of Robin Hood”
emerged from a tiny studio in Walton on Thames and burst onto black and
white telli...
1 year ago
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ABC TV Cancels Downward Dog Show
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“Every Day my dog looks at me exactly the same way, like I’m the most
beautiful thing he’s ever seen. And, I just thought, what if we could see
ourselve...
1 year ago
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With Purpose
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The title of this post really highlights the way I’ve felt the last several
months and the experiences I’ve had the chance to take in. Since my last
updat...
1 year ago
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With Purpose
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The title of this post really highlights the way I’ve felt the last several
months and the experiences I’ve had the chance to take in. Since my last
updat...
1 year ago
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Transgender and LGBT++ Rights promised in UK Party Manifestos
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This piece is not written to influence how you vote in the general Election
on June 8th. it’s too late for that and in my humble opinion getting May
out of...
1 year ago
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Trans Twitter Gives Bad Dating Advice
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Trans Twitter Gives Bad Dating Advice — “You have much gold upon your
head,” They answer’d all together: “Buy from us with a golden curl.” —
Christina Ro...
1 year ago
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It has been a long time…
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since my last post. I’m still here. I am still battling with the trauma
of multiple surgeries, a disfiguring scar on my forearm, a devastating
betrayal f...
1 year ago
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I'll miss this platform
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But I don't think I'm going to keep using it. It's sad, because I've been
writing here for such a long time, and blogging for myself is therapeutic,
even i...
1 year ago
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Sex, Drugs and Southern Hospitality: An Interview with Sam Peterson
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Sam Peterson’s Trunky (Transgender Junky): A Memoir of Institutionalization
and Southern Hospitality is the rare book that’s formally experimental AND
impo...
1 year ago
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India Willoughby, transvestites deserve protection too
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Hi India, How are you? Years ago we used to frequent the same forum site
so even though we’ve never met, I view you with the same fondness I feel
for a...
1 year ago
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Thoughts and Updates
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I can't believe it's been almost a year since I've posted anything. Time
flies and we don't...
So...my marriage is still going strong. It's pretty much ...
1 year ago
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And happily ever after...
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Family snuggle timeI've retired from blogging. I've been channeling my
creative energy into other hobbies, and I'm feeling uninspired to write
about my wi...
1 year ago
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Well…didn’t see this Coming.
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The following posts were made to my male Facebook profile. I finally came
to terms with it enough to [ost it here. I was trying to let this [profile
remain...
1 year ago
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Questions related to the surgery
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As mentioned in my previous post i said i would post the questions i asked
the surgeon’s assistant. Also, this post is NSFW as there are some details
regar...
1 year ago
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We Need A “Standards of Care” for Detransitioners
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One of my biggest takeaways from attending the recent USPATH conference is
that many clinicians and other providers sincerely want more information on
unde...
1 year ago
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Apology
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Recently, I undertook the task of going through my blog posts to get a
sense of my history. It has been a bit of a humbling experience – so much
so that ...
1 year ago
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What I’m talking about
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Ok so many of you will have seen this photo, absorbed and passed it by. I
just caught it on a video artical on the BBC website. Quite frankly I was
surpr...
1 year ago
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Watching When We Rise on ABC
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I've been watching *When We Rise*, the four part miniseries on ABC about
the birth and development of the LGBT movement in America and the parts
played in ...
1 year ago
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The door is open
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One of the things that is true; and that I have been pondering, is
that when you come out, your family comes out. I mean; once I am full time,
then al...
1 year ago
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Trying Out A New Name
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I wrote just over a month ago about my anxieties about going away. It’s now
less than a week until I actually go which is really exciting. I’m pumped
to se...
1 year ago
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Stuck In The Middle Again
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How to start? I said long ago when I made my choice to back our new
President that when he did things I felt were wrong I would call him out on
it. Today i...
1 year ago
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“Hidden Figures” in the struggle for civil rights
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Laverne Cox talked about the parallels between the real-life NASA
“computers” from the movie, “Hidden Figures,” on Stephen Colbert’s talk
show recently, an...
1 year ago
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New pics … at last!
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Finally got some long overdue “girl-time” yesterday – first time for over 2
years. I really shouldn’t leave it so long because it isn’t good for my
genera...
1 year ago
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Why I'm so passionate about the issues of others.
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*It's been 2.5 years since I've posted. I said I would post if I had
something to say and today, I do. Please note the experience I write about
does not in...
1 year ago
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We Interrupt This Program
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After writing once a week for four years. I’ve finally decided is time to
switch things up and stop posting on schedule and only post when I feel
like it. ...
1 year ago
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Was only a reader, till now
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Me thinks it is time to write something. I’ve been reading T-Central for
almost 7 years now. I have much …
Continue reading →
1 year ago
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Love and Loneliness
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*"I've looked at love from both sides now".... Joni Mitchell.*
Down on the seawall in my town, a few blocks from where I live, the benches
that look ...
1 year ago
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New Year, big changes.
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*Happy **New** Year!*
I begin the new year letting go of some important things. First up is the
pseudonym I have used for years. ‘Haust’ is gone, ...
1 year ago
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Happy 2017!!!
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Happy New Year everyone. I hope the new year is everything good you hope
and pray for.
I will be returning to my blogs this year. I really can't believe...
1 year ago
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Question
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Is looking for an excuse and opportunity to link to and out Susie to my
family and friends on Facebook possibly the most stupid and potentially
self-destru...
1 year ago
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Transitional thoughts
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Dabrela: womanliness as masquerade?
What would it mean to be a non-transitioning trans woman? Is there even
such a thing? The ever-thoughtful blogger, Tran...
1 year ago
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Questioning the Fluctuations
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This isn't the scribbling I intended (or promised) to note as I stated in
the last entry. However, it is part of my developing thoughts on this
future sub...
1 year ago
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Yuletide greetings.
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*Soon be nobody left now that Leonard Cohen is gone too... Someone else who
had to deal with depression and his music soothed my troubled soul. Just
sad to...
1 year ago
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Victoria’s Secret – The Show
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Hey, so yesterday it was time for the amazing show. I haven’t seen the show
but I took a look at a lot of pictures and it seemed amazing and I can’t
wait t...
1 year ago
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Wait, I was transitioning? (15+ months HRT)
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The Prostap Nightmare I spent the first 14 months of HRT living a
nightmare. The T-blocker I was on (leuprorelin acetate sold as Prostap SR)
crushed and s...
1 year ago
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Heroes and Hope
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It’s times like these that make me feel the most hopeless. I haven’t always
been good at dealing with feelings like this. But when the future looks
bleak, ...
2 years ago
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Cultivation Corner Starting Seeds
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So you want to sprout those ganja seeds you found in your stash?
First off I want you to be sure that your grow space will be warm enough
for seed germinati...
2 years ago
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I am able to talk again
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I am back on deck and I think more in control of myself than I have been
for quite some time. Will be making more additions to this blog as I go
along. The...
2 years ago
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Ringing the changes part 2
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So, my first post about how I changed my name with various organisations
was starting to get a bit long, so this is a continuation. The first can
be seen ...
2 years ago
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Song for straight crossdressers
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So I found this amazing song by NOFX. It’s called “I’m a Transves-Lite”.
Here is the link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vgEsf8JYqVA The lyrics
given bel...
2 years ago
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September 22 2016
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Thank you. Thank you for the last four years. Thank you for letting me
into your hearts, for letting me be a part of your day, for letting me
bounce my th...
2 years ago
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Ocean Grove beach and dinner day - wed. sept 14th, 2016
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i decided that while the weather was still nice and after the heat wave
somewhat cooled down it was time to head to the Ocean Grove beach.
although the ...
2 years ago
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My response to a post by Tyler Charles Austen
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Dear Mr Austen, On 26th August 2016, you made a post on your eponymous
blog (that means you named it after yourself) called “I Can’t Believe I’m
Saying Th...
2 years ago
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Last Post
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So this is it. The last post I’ll make here (for the foreseeable future
anyway). I’ve moved my fitness adventures over to
http://transtriathlete.com and I’...
2 years ago
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A rediscovered poem
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I found this in my 2013 dream journal, from when I was still in the closet.
My dreams were born from above, not below, or if below, in the primal
ember ...
2 years ago
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This is goodbye (A happy one)
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This is going to be my last post on It’s ok to be a glow stick. I am sad to
be saying goodbye but my life has changed dramatically and sadly, there is
no r...
2 years ago
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Identity Crisis
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I have lost my identity.
I'm not sure if I'm still mom, wife, daughter or 911 dispatcher.
If I'm not any of the above, then who am I besides lost?
2 years ago
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Goodbye
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It's been a couple of months since I last posted, despite my desire to do
an A-Z on the issues I find important. My absence was caused by many
things, but...
2 years ago
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The gym experience
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My fitness in recent years has been something that I have felt has become
very important to me. I remember starting running back in the time when I
was dea...
2 years ago
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The Post-GRS Blues
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On Twitter during the week, I joined in a conversation about Gender
Reassignment Surgery and general fears regarding such a huge operation.
Personally, GRS...
2 years ago
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Me...
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Realized I hadn't posted in a while. That will change starting with an
updated picture of me.
2 years ago
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A new audience
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I am feeling a little humbled. I was asked last week at my college to talk
about transgender issues, to my college group of counsellors in training. I
star...
2 years ago
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A new audience
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I am feeling a little humbled. I was asked last week at my college to talk
about transgender issues, to my college group of counsellors in training. I
star...
2 years ago
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Mid-Year Check In
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At the beginning of this year, I wrote a post about my love of new
beginnings and my resolutions for 2016. I was not too lofty in my goals; I
attempted to ...
2 years ago
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My Return and First Time Out… again
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I’ve been trying to collect my thoughts the last few days. They have been
a jumble of emotions, mostly good. I haven’t felt this way in a long time
and f...
2 years ago
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These Recent Events
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Hello, my amazing readers.
I don't have much to report personally, except to say that Natasha is
scared. She's not exactly letting it run her life. Because...
2 years ago
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Thoughts on the Orlando shooting
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There is something surreal, in moments like this, about being a privileged
member of an oppressed minority. I can breeze through airport security
with whi...
2 years ago
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At work
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It's definitely time for me to start thinking about when and how I'm going
to transition at work. Outside of work I'm now living as myself pretty much
full...
2 years ago
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The First Mothers’ Day
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If last year we celebrated the last Father’s Day, this year we introduced
the first Mothers’ Day. And yes, the apostrophe is in the right place. I
admit to...
2 years ago
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An Update
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Hi, everyone. I know, I know, I promised to start blogging again. And
that was a hell of a long time ago. I just found myself far too busy, and
far too ...
2 years ago
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On Being A Transwoman in a Bathroom
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To be perfectly honest, I am actually really surprised this is a topic that
presidential candidates are addressing. Seriously, it’s one thing for
people to...
2 years ago
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Feeling Positive Again :)
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I had been feeling really down about things over the last few months and I
know that my recent posts on here haven’t been very positive about my
situation....
2 years ago
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A good weekend
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It’s been a good weekend. I actually feel pretty confident that I could
pass one day. I know that’s not the most important thing, but it matters a
lot to ...
2 years ago
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A good weekend
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It’s been a good weekend. I actually feel pretty confident that I could
pass one day. I know that’s not the most important thing, but it matters a
lot to ...
2 years ago
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Goin' to North Carolina. Why Do I Feel Like A "Freedom Rider"?
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In NO WAY am I comparing what Transgender people are going through in North
Carolina to what Black Americans went through before and during the Civil
Right...
2 years ago
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My 100th post…
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This is my 100th post. I was hoping to make it a special one with a
description of another outing as Valerie, in my new modern “blending”
outfit. Unfortuna...
2 years ago
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An FAQ Regarding my Gender Identity and Transition
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Since I last posted here, almost a year ago, things have progressed with my
gender transition. More people are now learning about my true identity, as
I wi...
2 years ago
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Back
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Where is she? When is she coming back? What's happening in Tammy World?
These are all questions I've gotten over the last few months. Questions
shouted...
2 years ago
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Ghosts
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So it has been almost a year since I last posted. It is not that I’ve had
a lack of things to write about, more of a case of writers block – finding
words...
2 years ago
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Not sure what to say..
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I am not sure what to do, or what to say, depression is my only constant
“friend”, with me all the time, someone I hate, yet never hates me back.
Medical m...
2 years ago
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Back to the Stone Age.
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I think the song is fitting, It is not mine, the opinions on this page are
mine. In posting this video, I am in no way saying that this group believes
as I...
2 years ago
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End of the Journey
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I've been trying to write this post for a few days. This is actually the
third version I've come up with. Its been 7 years since I started this
blog. In th...
2 years ago
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Come Up to the Lab: My Gender Workshop
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Ever since Time Magazine proclaimed a “Transgender Tipping Point” a year
and a half ago, I’ve been exploring trans identities and expressions that
aren’t i...
2 years ago
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hiatus
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just wanted to let you all know that Will is doing fabulous in recovery
(tracking everything diligently on @journeyintomanhood) and in England for
his se...
2 years ago
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EE screwed up our phone numbers
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Well I haven't posted for ages since nothing really to write about but now
it's time for a bit of a rant so what better way to vent spleen.
First some back...
2 years ago
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Reminder: Follow my new blog! This one is closing imminently
-
This is just a quick reminder, in case anyone who cares missed it the first
time, that GenderDrift is being turned into a private blog where it can
rest pe...
2 years ago
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Being a Gender Critical woman born trans is a very lonely place to be
-
My understanding of gender critical theory is limited.
There's no reference text anywhere explaining it, and questioning GC
theorists on their own turf nev...
2 years ago
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Blogging about it….
-
I started this blog because I wanted to help people in a similar situation
to me. I was younger and never proclaimed to have all the answers.
Sometimes the...
2 years ago
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Debunking Bathroom Myths
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*Debunking Bathroom Myths*
Original article by *Brynn Tannehill *can be viewed *Here*
*When the Houston Equal Rights Ordinance was defeated, the ostens...
2 years ago
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RUMBLED. BUT IT TURNS OUT TO THE GOOD
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As per usual on a Wed evening I make my way to the Butterfly Club support
premises to get my self ready to face the world. Nothing new in that. And
as per ...
2 years ago
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Caitlyn Jenner Speaks at Chicago House Event
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Caitlyn Jenner Speaks at Chicago House Event:
grvsmth:
sometranslady:
grvsmth:
sometranslady:
snowflakeespecial:
This isn’t a funny story. Trying on y...
2 years ago
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Postscript
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I thought that my urge to blog had departed. It hasn't... but I do need to
move on. Angie's Aspirations — aka About Angie — was written from the
perspecti...
2 years ago
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Got A Little Beautified…
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Not much here, but I went out for a bit of a day, treated by a couple of
friends, and had my brows waxed and got my hair done. Here’s the results.
I s...
2 years ago
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17 Months on T Update
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17 Months on T Next week marks 17 months on T, nearly one and a half
years. I cannot believe I have not posted any update for 5 months, time
just really h...
3 years ago
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10 Ways to Destroy the Earth
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my mother died in this room now it is occupied by my nieces whenever they
sleep over a playroom i currently occupy it sleeping on the lower bunk of
their l...
3 years ago
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While I Am Away...
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So....
I have been away...yup. Not news. Been busy. Plus, not much to write about
really, I've just submerged into 'normal' Nairobi life, with a few bumps ...
3 years ago
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U want to be her!
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[image: U want to be her!]
3 years ago
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Become a girl
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[image: Become a girl]
3 years ago
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Still Here
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I realized last week that I hadn’t written a blog…or a Facebook post…or a
journal entry…or much of anything in five or six months. Part of me was
bothered ...
3 years ago
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5 months in
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*Continued**, from April 5th 2015*
5 months since the hospital I still don't know much about it.
Dissociative Identity Disorder.
My amnesia isn't just hav...
3 years ago
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Through The Looking Glass
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I’m not sure exactly when it happened, but it did. That is, I stopped
considering myself “transitioning.” What does that mean, exactly? Am I
where I want t...
3 years ago
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*Hey!*
So... tomorrow school begins again.
This schoolyear I am planning to come out and start dressing, acting,
talking, etc. like a girl. Honestly, it's ...
3 years ago
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Been Sick
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Isn’t amazing? We tend to think we are the masters of the planet. Then, a
debilitating illness hits and we become subservient cry-babies. Something
crawl...
3 years ago
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Transition Is A Banquet
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Transition is not a one-way street, or a bowling lane with the bumpers up.
Transition is not a recipe with precise measurements, or a fixed
curriculum, or ...
3 years ago
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It’s Inherent
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The frequency and unexpectedness with which being transgendered asserts
itself is ever a source of amazement. Regardless of how deeply in
background one ma...
3 years ago
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This Rain
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Originally posted on chester maynes:
Abruptly, water gushes from the sky. I hear the storm drops too loud. Wind
creeps cold on my skin. Thunder slits these ...
3 years ago
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Telling a Friend
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I recently told a friend about Amy. I didn't go into many details or show
him pictures or anything, but it felt good to talk about and get a positive
reac...
3 years ago
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And Last
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I used that subject last week as well.
It happens. Click to enlarge (the cartoon not the imagination)This is a
hard post to organise and a hard post to wr...
3 years ago
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The world keeps on turning.
-
So I guess it’s time to get back into this blog of mine. I mean I’ve been
gone for so long and really it’s just time to start again. Since my last
real b...
3 years ago
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Why Bruce Jenner, Andreja Pejic and other Trans Celebrities Still Don’t Matter
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Recently there have been a number of celebrities that have come out to
announce that they define as transgender. For some of them it wasn’t a
shocker, for ...
3 years ago
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On Reconciling my Beliefs, Depression and Gender
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Howdy. Sorry it's been a while, I am simply the most infrequent blogger in
the world... I've been buried under piles of work for what seems like
forever, a...
3 years ago
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End game...
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So things didn't get better...I slipped further and last Tuesday I went to
my scheduled appointment...when she saw me the choices were go home for a
matter...
3 years ago
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Handbags & Glad Rags……….
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I always feel a bit rotten about writing a new post when I have so many
posts from others to …
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3 years ago
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Commenters and deep thoughts
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I would like to start by apologizing for the long break between posts. A
little thing called life intervenes and my writing suffers. Family, health,
work, ...
3 years ago
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Jenna Talackova, and the importance of transitioning when young
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I greatly admire Jenna Talackova, the beautiful, sexy, and courageous M2F
transgender model, beauty contestant, reality television star, and actress.
I ...
3 years ago
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Motorhead Girls
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Motorhead Girls ... we are girls who love cars, trucks, bikes, planes, and
boats. Anything with a motor. Maybe we love some of them, maybe we love all
of ...
3 years ago
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Shutting down
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I've decided that I am not, after all, the blogging type.
I never managed it in my other identity either, so I don't know why I
should be surprised.
So,...
3 years ago
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Dangerous Situation
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***** This post might be triggering ***** Something really scary happened
last evening. I was standing outside with a friend (who is also homeless
and we u...
3 years ago
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Could it really be THAT easy?
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So, not going to get too excited here, but bear with me, kay? Last night, I
decided to talk to Phyl about her withdrawals and pulling away. I wanted to
try...
3 years ago
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One Year as Me!
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Dianne Piggott
10/30/2013
One year. Just one year. One entire year. All of one year. One circle of
the Earth around the Sun.
A year ago to...
3 years ago
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Cumberbatch and his offense offence
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Poor old Benny Cumberbatch…him and his big old posh, ex slave owning gob.
Actually I feel for the bloke. Trying to do his best for British actors of
colour...
3 years ago
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Coming out on Facebook.
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I have a relatively small number of friends on facebook, I keep it that
way, I don’t add anyone I meet. Everyone on my friends list is actually my
friend o...
3 years ago
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XXY: Reflections of Gender in Children
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A while back, I read a very sad story not related to Leelah Alcorn although
that is another sad story. This one is about an XXY child who was gender
denie...
3 years ago
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New Hair … :) Trying different looks :)
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So the new wig arrived… and figured a day off would be fitting to try it on
:) Here are a few pics… Ya short and sweet post … :P Peace and Love!
Tamara :)
3 years ago
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Transgender Q&A
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When it comes to the subject of transgender and the LGBT community, I think
that there are three different types of people. The first (and the fastest
gro...
3 years ago
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I is for Identity Politics
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Hello all. For my first post of 2015, I am going back to blogging through
ye old alphabet. Today I is for identity politics. Identity politics are
how i...
3 years ago
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Leelah, and all the others who struggle
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Happy New Year!
I'm so sorry I don't update regularly! I have been off school for a couple
weeks, so I have no good excuse, but I hope you all had a wonder...
3 years ago
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A New Christmas with family
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As anyone can expect the end of the year can bring surprises and lots of
joy to one's heart and soul. This year is really an exception for Kay and
I, as w...
3 years ago
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On the other side!
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It’s been a few days since I last posted on my blog, and for good reason.
Thursday, 11th December 2014 I finally had the surgery I had been waiting
so lon...
3 years ago
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Saying goodbye
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The time has come for me to say goodbye and put this blog to bed. I doubt
anyone reads it anymore, but I’m the type of person who likes closure, so I
gue...
3 years ago
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Xmas 2014
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I thought I should drop a post in, and wish everyone a happy Xmas.
If you should be reading this, and you are a Pagan like my son, or any of
the non-christ...
3 years ago
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No Big Deal
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My daughter started high school last month.
The other night she told my wife and me that there's a transgender girl in
her homeroom. During the summer ...
4 years ago
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I finally legally exist!
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On July 1st, 2014 it finally happened. The law that made it impossible for
me and many others like me to change their gender on any official documents
drop...
4 years ago
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A Controversial Stance On The Word “Queer”
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Controversial new video about the use of the word queer in the LGBT
community.
4 years ago
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8 Steps on How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Immediately
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If you are trying to get your ex boyfriend back, but are fighting and get
no results, then you should know this is a common thing that tons of girls
go thr...
4 years ago
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Pigtails
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Last night as I was hugging Kegan good night, I started playing with her
hair and realized her hair is at that almost long enough to put into a
super short...
4 years ago
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She Returns
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Gee, that was a long time coming, wasn't it?
I managed to survive from February to July at the Good Samaritan House at
Westgate. This is a Christian-run fa...
4 years ago
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The Maker of Noses
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Like many of you, I enjoy music, and I look to it for inspiration and
support. My taste in music is quite eclectic, ranging from hymns through
jazz and roc...
4 years ago
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July 18th 2014
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I know I haven't posted in a long time, things have just gotten crazy
around here. We were finally able to get pregnant with our third, and
recently found...
4 years ago
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been proven wrong
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I have had many people walk in and out of my life. And a lot of them have
been anything but nice to me. Over the years most of my friend have turn
against...
4 years ago
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I’m not sure what “normal” means, but i think it feels like this
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It’s been a while since i’ve posted anything here, and historically that
has meant that things aren’t going well. This time, however, it means that
we’ve b...
4 years ago
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Tumor no more
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On January 8, 2012 I was informed that the fight to live was over, I would
not be getting my last Chemo treatment, all scans have no cancer traces in
them ...
4 years ago
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*I think it is time to completely let my fears of letting those who know me
in my life, but may not know 'me' now because I did what I needed to do for
my ...
4 years ago
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Vote for Sophia
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I'm running in a mock election and I need your votes. You might be asking
why I need your vote, and *how in the heck did I wind up in politics?* Well,
my ...
4 years ago
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Keepin’ On
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When I was driving home from work this afternoon I started to think of this
blog and its lack of updates. I think the general trend is that when I
dress mo...
4 years ago
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A Question
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So, I've been doing this girl thing for a while now.
It's good, but there is some weirdness...
Has anyone else experienced this?
[Bumps into a doorjam, or...
4 years ago
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Day 105: Whiskey Aging… DONE!
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So after nearly 3 and a half months it’s done! I ended up with a bottle
and a half of sweet, dark whiskey. It’s amazingly easy to do. At this
point, I’m ...
4 years ago
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Here's a Little Something No One Told You
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Milestones are things to be celebrated. In our culture we have only a few
of them high school graduation, marriage, parenthood, (divorce), and death.
Other...
4 years ago
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Sweeping the Ashes
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“Things change. And friends leave. Life doesn't stop for anybody.”
“I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems
don't rhyme...
4 years ago
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Another new chapter
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*or the next stop on the timeline...*
*Anyway, as some of you may remember, in a galaxy, far, far..wait, wrong
story.*
*I married my other half 13 years a...
4 years ago
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I'm coming out and I want the world to know...
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As the weeks went by I've became more and more emboldened with my
transition. I started buying more clothes, and started laser hair removal.
On Christmas...
4 years ago
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It has been too long since last I blogged
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Yes, I know, more than two years have gone by, and some of you may be
wondering if all is well. YES! Everything remains wonderful. We've now been
happily m...
4 years ago
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It's "her's"
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I've been living as woman for two years now, two really good years. I was
and still am one of the lucky few. I have gone through this transition
without lo...
4 years ago
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Paula Deen Quote
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“I feel like ‘embattled’ or ‘disgraced’ will always follow my name. It’s
like that black football player who recently came out. He said, ‘I just
want to...
4 years ago
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Huffing Post Interview August 9, 2013′
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Interview with me concerning my de-transiton:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/09/transgender-nfl-cheerleader_n_3728301.html
4 years ago
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Link to my daughter’s blog post
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Here’s something my daughter posted today… Hexydezimal A fallen angel
returns. hexydezimal.wordpress.com Questions for the Transgender Community
Happy bela...
4 years ago
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Three Unwise Men
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Yet another bawbag is frothing at the mouth.
This latest cretinous oaf, a Russian actor of whom this reporter at least
has never heard, says he would "stuff...
4 years ago
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Hanging in, hanging out, hanging on
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It has been a while since I have posted anything here. Up to this point, I
have maintained this blog as a combination of sporadic articles, and the
occasio...
4 years ago
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I Dreamed a Dream in Times Gone By...
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This past week has been especially difficult because of the second coming
out of 'Marcy' Michael's female alter gender identity. My strife is
entirely i...
4 years ago
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I realised to day that I still have this account open.
I have moved all of my blog to my website, www.sarah-savage.com
Thanx
5 years ago
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Enough
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Originally posted on Nuclear Unicorn:
My approach to Cathy Brennan has long mirrored my approach to Ann Coulter;
I generally refuse to dignify their delibe...
5 years ago
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UpDate!
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Doesn’t seem possible but I have been on HRT now for over a year and a
half. Life is different and good! For what ever reason my “Cyrsti’s
Transgender Cond...
5 years ago
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Ether Radio
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Last Tuesday I took the day off work to run errands. Around 8:30 in the
morning I was sitting in my boyfriend's car by a gas pump. Peter was
inside colle...
5 years ago
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Hatred, Transphobia & Twitter storms..
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I'm far from surprised that this has blown up like it has.. To be honest it
was only a matter of time, Trans people put up with an awful lot, I don't
want ...
5 years ago
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The Wedding and the Beach House
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It was a balmy June Saturday in Napa valley, California. The winery
Heather’s cousin Rosalind had chosen for the wedding was beautifully placed
amidst rol...
6 years ago
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Retrospect - Spring 2011 - The Highs and Low of being a TGirl
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Widemouth Bay, CornwallBy the spring of 2011 I felt that things were going
quite well and that with my new image I was well on the well to achieving
the g...
6 years ago
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KATIE
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Life is hard. Sometimes it pushes us down with such force that we haven’t
the strength to resist. Trans people are particularly likely to find
themselves f...
6 years ago
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Reality TV
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I was reassembling the bike last weekend with radio 4 on drip-feed and
heard a piece about people who live a second life on the Internet. It
appears that f...
9 years ago
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