It's been a while since we featured Cyrsti on T-Central. Cyrsti is a prolific blogger, who has been at it since 2010. Her blog and her writing are well thought out and well worth your time.
In her latest post, Looking Over My Shoulder, Cyrsti discusses that issue which is so familiar to genetic women and should be given attention by those who are transitioning or just crossdressing out in public. You're not percieved as a male out there and you no longer have that "male security". Cyrsti relates an incident that she experienced several years ago. It taught her a lesson, and perhaps one of you may benefit from her experience.
The People - Personal Thoughts
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How Long
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...has this been going on.
The post How Long appeared first on Kandi's Land!.
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Sometimes, computer systems don't work as expected
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This past weekend, I tried to place an order with Ulla Popken for a
Corduroy Jumper and a white T-shirt that I can wear together as an outfit.
Each t...
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How to Crossdress More Authentically
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Crossdressing is often described as putting on women’s clothes. Clothes are
part of it, of course, but authenticity comes from something deeper:
feeling ...
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TRANS HISTORY
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*FRANCES THOMPSON (1840-1876)*
Former enslaved black trans woman and anti-raoe activist
One of five black women who testified before Congress about...
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The BEST Idea
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The Hannah McKnight Media conglomerate and empire continues to expand with
The Best Idea! Last month I interviewed The Twin Cities Paranormal Society
for w...
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Hermès
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Anyone here have experience with Hermès?
I dove down a rabbit hole recently after reading a fascinating article in
The New Yorker on this French company...
1 day ago
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Trans History Festival Glasgow, 22-30 October
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I am genuinely thrilled to be involved in Glasgow’s first ever Trans
History Festival, which begins next week. It’s hosted by our shiny new
Glasgow Lab for...
2 days ago
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Not for some time
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Hi, A couple of bits of PosiBlog style news this week. How good to be able
to report that as an opener! 🙂 Getting out? With me starting a new job at
the s...
6 days ago
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Check before you panic
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I received the following email today, purporting to be from a
“noreply@Apple” address: Problem with the AppleCare+ coverage for your
deviceApple17:57 (45 m...
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2026 Turkish LGBTQ raids
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2026_Turkish_LGBTQ_raids
(press above)
3 weeks ago
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Life Goes On
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*In Millar & Carter Banbury*Life is tough at the moment for everybody, but
especially so for those of us in the Trans
community, we are under attack lik...
3 weeks ago
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Finding Authenticity Within Gender Dynamics
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*For generations, rigid gender norms have forced people into predefined
roles, at considerable psychological cost to those whose identities or
expressio...
3 weeks ago
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Blog Post #170! And a Special Event
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Wow - 170 posts. And I had a wonderful experience to report on, too.
One of the hardest things for a crossdresser to do is interact with cis
women out i...
4 weeks ago
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Ten Years After
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Sunday, September 13, I turn 60. SIXTY. Seriously.
Oh shit that's today.
It also marks ten years since my last suicide attempt. I wrote about it, ...
4 weeks ago
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Review: Storm Over Camelot: Book Three in the Morgan le Fay trilogy
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[image: Storm Over Camelot: Book Three in the Morgan le Fay trilogy] Storm
Over Camelot: Book Three in the Morgan le Fay trilogy by Sophie Keetch
My rating:...
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Sophie Cunningham
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Enough already! Now we’re harassing teenage girls courtside? Sophie
Cunningham is against trans girls/women competing with cis girls/women. She
has her r...
2 months ago
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Update - HUD by July 29
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*Now is the time to speak up. You can make a difference.*
Federal agencies are required to review and consider public comments before
finalizing a ...
2 months ago
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AI Intrusion and Digital Privacy
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Hey x
I've been quiet for a while, this last 6 months or so I've just not really
been in a mentally good place. I don't know if it's the time of year or ...
3 months ago
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Anna Arendt, RIP? But first we need to get her out of the closet. March
2025. The most awful thing happened. Jay died. A long illness ending with
Five week...
3 months ago
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"Pretty Woman"
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That was it: 165 postings, 450 comments from readers, 30 followers. This
was the last outing of 2025, a good year in terms of crossdressing with a
tota...
4 months ago
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Hand-Me-Overs and More..
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omething weird happened in the second half of last year...
[Ed: Madam is repeating herself.]
I'm what?
[Ed: This is exactly how you started the previous ...
8 months ago
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Memoir Chapter: Wall Street Assets (Pt. 1)
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Crazy Sherman was the most disgusting person I had ever met and that made
him exotic. We became lovers. And I got a different kind of education.
8 months ago
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Good Saturday to you!
I know my posting has been a bit spotty but things are busy in my world.
Here I'm offering some wildflowers as a distraction from t...
9 months ago
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Farewell 2025
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So that was 2025.
To be honest, I won't be unhappy to see it go, though I worry, both
globally and domestically, what it bodes for 2026.
I can't rememb...
9 months ago
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MMXXVI
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Happy happy happy happy New year! Fingers crossed all comes true for you or
ar least it's peaceful.
X
9 months ago
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Routine and a sense of normalcy
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Transgender normalcy and a routine life.
10 months ago
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Hi! :) im so sorry if this is rude just curious/wanting to learn :) i was
wondering, when you transition, do you identify with the physical aspects
of your gender or like the societal aspect? (i’m not wording this right
but) for example someone afab transitioning to male, would they ‘want’ to
be male as in the like (for lack of a better word) illusion society has
made of it (like blue, very masculine, trucks, that kind of stuff) or would
they 'want’ to be male as in the physical aspects (muscles, facial hair,
that kind of stuff) sorry if this is rude i was just wondering! ty <3
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Hi there, that's a great question.
I think it's different for everyone but for me, it was a bit of both and
then some others. There were multiple aspect...
10 months ago
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Winning a Million
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Although I haven't been very active on this blog for a while, I was
astonished to find that my hit counter is approaching a *million* hits.
This makes it...
1 year ago
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The DA is an Anti-LGBT+ Alliance
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Fuck Helen ZilleFuck the DA LeadershipFuck the Democratic AllianceFuck the
TERFs and all who sail with themFUCK THEM ALLWe stand together for women’s
right...
1 year ago
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A Return to Words: Dance, AI, and the Art of Living
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Almost nine years. That’s how long it has been since my last blog post.
Ironically, my most recent entry was about my concern for another friend
whose blog...
1 year ago
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Drag king stories #9
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I’m back to performing, after a 5 year hiatus. “Adam Andro-matic” was last
seen at a small bar downtown doing drag-aoke as a wind-up-doll to the song
“Blue...
1 year ago
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Trans persists, but is not everything
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Yes, I am still here, 12 years on, older and wiser by a street. I ran out
of steam with the trans blog years ago. After all everything had already
been sai...
1 year ago
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Life on the other side
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I am posting less because I feel there is less to post about. Just my
continuing frustrations at not being in work, not being able to continue my
treatment...
1 year ago
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social Media Integration Test 001
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just working out the kinks. (All day and all of the night)
2 years ago
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Reflecting on 8 years of being professionally trans
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Today’s my work anniversary. I’ve been at my current company now for 8
years which is also how long I’ve been out as trans at work. So here’s a
bit of refl...
2 years ago
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Cynthia, Are you there?
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I’m not gone, still here, just really busy. 2023 has been a really
interesting year for me. I’m not going to get into great detail but suffice
to say there...
2 years ago
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Fast Forward
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I have not blogged in three years. This blog post is a short one to say
that I'm still around. I had pulled down all of my blog posts a year or
two ago...
3 years ago
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A Year Later
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I guess it's time. No time like the present, they say.
A year ago today, I experienced my last real feminine day. I wrote about it
in Wednesday on Saturd...
3 years ago
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New & Improved!
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Kandi’s Land has been significantly upgraded. Check it out!
3 years ago
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It's Now or Never
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Thank you for the emails and your comments here checking to see if I'm
okay. Well I thought I was, until certain things happened that caused me to
get dep...
3 years ago
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Ponytail5
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You might only see 4 as the 1st on is hidden. I am posting this now so I
can link it to reddit. I have to say since Stephie came four years ago, I
have bee...
3 years ago
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Stars. Needles. Poop. Plates. Wishes.
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Aside from (very) occasionally checking my horoscope, I am not big into
astrology. That being said, however, I do kinda believe in it and its
impact on us...
4 years ago
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Breasts are Awesome
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A talk about my shiny new cheat assets. Breasts I'm talking about my
breasts.
4 years ago
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Jenna’s Journal - September 2021
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5 years ago
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Why I Left Twitter
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in January of this year I took the difficult decision to leave Twitter. It
was necessary for my own mental health. Having reflected now for a couple
of mon...
5 years ago
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On exceptionalism
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*The exceptional Jennifer Lawrence*
Sometimes I hold my hands out, palm upwards, in the manner of a
Pentecostalist awaiting the descent of the Holy Spirit...
6 years ago
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My Best Sex Ever Was With a Trans Woman
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Why Being Intimate with Your Transgender Lover Could Be the Best Experience
of Your Life Sexual encounters can happen in different ways and between
people ...
6 years ago
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Whinge with mother
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Mick Jagger and his merry men called them ‘Mothers little helpers’. Sadly,
I am not a mother. Antidepressants I’m referring to. I have been popping
these f...
6 years ago
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Posting from the front
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Now that my dad has passed, things have started to settle down to a new
normal. My brother and I have been talking more often, and XGFJ no longer
posts ...
6 years ago
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Transient life, transient humans
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We are transient – traveling from one state to another, and sometimes
combination of different states at once. Hello once again. Sharing this
blog with som...
6 years ago
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Not in my happy place . . .
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As many of you have noticed, I’ve all but stopped writing my blog these
days. I guess I really ought to get around to formally saying “I’m done
with it”...
6 years ago
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From the waist upwards [Flickr]
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Sandra M. Lopes posted a photo:
[image: From the waist upwards]
Flattr me!
6 years ago
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Elie Wiesel’s The Night Trilogy
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About a year ago, a friend of mine took me to the Amarillo Pubic Library,
where they had basement full of books they were giving away to members of
the lib...
6 years ago
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Transitions: From My Heart to Yours
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On this day, seven years ago my world changed. I learned a new word;
transgender became part of my vocabulary. Along with that I learned about
the differen...
6 years ago
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Crossing the line in a blaze of glory
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Recently I was reading some spiritual insight and advice in which there was
a sort of breakdown of the inception and progression of a sin from fleeting
tho...
6 years ago
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The Quads of Hope
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2020 has come. It arrived in the usual way on January 1 for most of the
world that follows the Gregorian calendar, some 13 days later in the Old
Style Ju...
6 years ago
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New Year, Same Stef?
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I know it’s a bit belated, but Happy New Year! It’s finally 2020 and all I
can say is where the hell did all the time go? Didn’t Y2K just happen? When
did ...
6 years ago
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The best laid plans of mice and transwomen
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It has been a while since my last blog entry and until recently I didn’t
have anything really worth talking about, or at least nothing that I was
motivated...
6 years ago
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Holding on
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“Is she going to die?” I ask the firefighter. It’s been 20 minutes
since I’ve dialed 911, my wife is lying collapsed on the living room floor
of our r...
6 years ago
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Advocacy for men presenting as men in dresses
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This is terrific. Of course the mainstream public will write it off as
sensationalism and not take it seriously, but I’m glad of any positive
commentary on...
6 years ago
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The Power of Music
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It’s incredible to me how a song can really change your mood or spark an
idea. I have this weird quirk where I often remember the first time I
heard a son...
6 years ago
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The Three Little Pigs Reimagined
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For a school project, CJ had to design a set for a production of The Three
Little Pigs. CJ being CJ, he insisted on reimagining the classic story and
makin...
6 years ago
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September’s Blog
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Hi folks and followers, It’s been forever since I’ve posted anything new
but it really hasn’t been that much to report. I’ve decided to do a monthly
post...
7 years ago
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Mouse Hunt
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Still shaking off the rust:
If you have delved at all into the first four or five years of posts here
(and why haven't you?!), you know that my wife's re...
7 years ago
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New Beginnings
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“Are you sure you don’t want to come along?” It’d been a few months since I
gave Pandora her tattoo, and now the small shop was completely flooded with
dre...
7 years ago
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Cold
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When everything is dark and the church gives no light, what should you do?
7 years ago
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Perfect Scores Masking Critical Inadequacies and Failures in Trans Wellness
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I had a routine follow-up visit with my surgeon earlier this week to assess
healing from my procedure 3 weeks ago. The good news is that the
discomfort is...
7 years ago
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Stonewall’s radical history
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After the Noho Pride parade on Saturday, May 4th, join me in the Tri-County
Fairgrounds to hear the radical, true story of Stonewall. Continue reading →
7 years ago
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April 2019 - An update
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We are third of the way into the year and only my second blog entry! That
tells a story in itself I suppose and basically means it has been quiet for
me. ...
7 years ago
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12 Week-Recovery, 12-Month Relapse… & Uncelebrated Anniversaries
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About 13 months ago I wrote a euphoric post about my gender reassignment
surgery. I do remain extremely pleased about the physical result, it looks
like it...
7 years ago
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Risk to human rights after Brexit?
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This recent article from the Guardian gave me some cause for thought
https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2019/feb/13/post-brexit-trade-partners-ask-uk-to-l...
7 years ago
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OBSESSION by Kelli
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First thing first, I'm not talking about the perfume. I'm talking about
our little ol' minds taking in something, not being able to forget it, and
const...
7 years ago
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I’m Devastated
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⌈Trigger Warning; language, female body functions, eating disorder, self
harm, mention of suicide⌋ When I started testosterone my period stopped
instantly....
7 years ago
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Absolutely OUTstanding
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It has been quite a while since I have posted anything on this blog. Five
months, to be precise. Yet a few things have happened within the last week
or s...
7 years ago
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Who wears the trousers ?
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So was out with a friend,shopping in Marheinekeplatz market ; there's a
saturday and a sunday one, clothes, a few antiques , bicycles , a chess
stall, all...
8 years ago
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Turns Out I Was Right
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Seems the setbacks I deemed minor actually were minor. I’m down 1.2 lbs
from yesterday, and right back on track with where I was two days ago. I
could se...
8 years ago
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May You Find Peace
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I have made peace with myself, and can no longer in good faith leave or
recommend the content I once posted here. Those writings were my best
desperate ho...
8 years ago
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Processions 2018 - Why Trans Sisters Need to March Alongside Their Sisters
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My Partner and I at Processions 2018 - Credit: Tina Williams I am my
grandmother’s granddaughter. She fought for my right to vote and I wanted
to honour th...
8 years ago
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Panties – A Special Pleasure
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In our recent poll on lingerie that trans girls and crossdressers prefer,
panties tied for first place with 25% of the vote. I don’t profess to
having th...
8 years ago
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‘She Said’ a universal, personal wive’s tale
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The thing that most surprises me and never surprises me at all is how other
“wife of” stories are not at all like my story and totally like my story.
Yep, ...
8 years ago
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We Need to Think Differently About Love
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Time for another rant about sexual and romantic scripts! Today’s pet peeve
is how we talk about love, both finding and having it. Scripts on love are
just ...
8 years ago
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This Week's Calogrenant
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A Change of Venue
calogrenant.com
8 years ago
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Day 1,245: Moments Frozen in Time
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I have to admit, we had a pretty good run here at So There’s That. 21
podcast episodes and 32 blog posts over the course of a year. And a little
bit of n...
8 years ago
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Flying solo in Las Vegas – Part I
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I have had a great last 10 days. I have been on three wonderful outings in
which I did things that I have wanted to for a long time but never either
the c...
8 years ago
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Resetting the body clock
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Years ago, I mentioned that my sleep patterns were screwed up.
On new years eve, I found myself at home alone, with my wife and son having
gone to the last...
8 years ago
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Stuff people say when hearing about someone coming out…
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Whether they believe the things they say themselves is questionable, but
I think the majority of time people tend to jump to conclusions because
they’re ...
8 years ago
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It is time I shared my heart...my mind and a little bit of my soul
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**update**This was written in the middle of the entire experience. We are
now settling into the changes but I wanted to share my emotions, my hurts
and m...
8 years ago
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Patients & Providers: The Mental Health Provider’s Role
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Let's move towards a patient-centered, collaborative model of care – one
that ensures trans patients receive accurate information to help them
understand w...
8 years ago
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25 October Journal
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Well Folks, I am still working on my other post. I think it will be part of
the next book of my life, rather than the end of this one. I am closing
this bl...
8 years ago
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Why there’re no posts ?
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Hi, I decided to take out all my posts from here as it seemed to have given
some people more insight into my life than they should ever have. I seem to
hav...
9 years ago
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Excuse our dust, but we have moved!
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I have moved my blog over to a dedicated hosting provider, and we have
successfully migrated over to the WordPress platform. We have our own
domain name, a...
9 years ago
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On the Pride Center of the Capital Region, terfs, and Why Martha Harvey
Needs to Resign
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CW: lots of swears, lots of terfs (A quick aside on the word terf because
I’m going to use it about a thousand times. It’s not a slur. Here’s a
doctor tell...
9 years ago
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What was said. What I’d have loved to have said. In Two Parts.
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What was Said. Part 1 *Mrs. Bellejambes* celebrated a birthday recently.
Some of the things I picked up for her were not perfect, and one was a
complete r...
9 years ago
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Thoughts on Pride Month
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Growing up is never easy, but the difficulty is compounded when one is
an LGBT youth. Born a boy, I longed desperately to be female. I knew who
I w...
9 years ago
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With Purpose
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The title of this post really highlights the way I’ve felt the last several
months and the experiences I’ve had the chance to take in. Since my last
updat...
9 years ago
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With Purpose
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The title of this post really highlights the way I’ve felt the last several
months and the experiences I’ve had the chance to take in. Since my last
updat...
9 years ago
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Carpe diem, seize the day
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At the funeral of one of our Transmatters friends two weeks ago I reflected
how fortunate we are to have attended very few funerals, though as we - and
fri...
9 years ago
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Dog People, Cat People, Nonbinary People (AKA The Draft For My Facebook
Coming Out)
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If you ask whether someone is a Dog Person or a Cat Person, most people
don’t have to think twice. They’ll immediately reply with which pet they
prefer, an...
9 years ago
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Are You Going To The Women’s March?
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For me, that is an easier question to answer than, “Are you a woman?” or
“What are you going as?” Yes. Donna and I will be going to the NYC Women’s
March o...
9 years ago
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Was only a reader, till now
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Me thinks it is time to write something. I’ve been reading T-Central for
almost 7 years now. I have much …
Continue reading →
9 years ago
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New Year, big changes.
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*Happy **New** Year!*
I begin the new year letting go of some important things. First up is the
pseudonym I have used for years. ‘Haust’ is gone, ...
9 years ago
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Heroes and Hope
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It’s times like these that make me feel the most hopeless. I haven’t always
been good at dealing with feelings like this. But when the future looks
bleak, ...
9 years ago
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The cultivation corner...Marijuana master cultivation tip #1
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So you want to grow good marijuana? Don't we all!
First thing you need is some clones or some seeds. (I sell seeds. Shameless
self promotion.)
Now before yo...
9 years ago
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the thursday lunch run to Popik's Place - thur. sept 15th, 2016
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me at the local hot dog stand last thur sept 15th called "Popiks Place" on
Terrill rd. in Scotch Plains NJ
Steve Popik sells only the best quality ...
10 years ago
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Last Post
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So this is it. The last post I’ll make here (for the foreseeable future
anyway). I’ve moved my fitness adventures over to
http://transtriathlete.com and I’...
10 years ago
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A rediscovered poem
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I found this in my 2013 dream journal, from when I was still in the closet.
My dreams were born from above, not below, or if below, in the primal
ember ...
10 years ago
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This is goodbye (A happy one)
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This is going to be my last post on It’s ok to be a glow stick. I am sad to
be saying goodbye but my life has changed dramatically and sadly, there is
no r...
10 years ago
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Terrorism and the Violence of Otherness: Response to the Orlando Pulse
Massacre
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TW: Orlando Massacre, violence * ** *** **** ***** In the early hours of
Sunday, June 12, 2016, just after last call, a gunman entered the Pulse
Nightclub ...
10 years ago
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These Recent Events
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Hello, my amazing readers.
I don't have much to report personally, except to say that Natasha is
scared. She's not exactly letting it run her life. Because...
10 years ago
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Good News from Oregon
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*The West is the Best. Get here and we'll do the rest. *
Long time no blog. The state of the nation at times looks bleak,
particularly after this w...
10 years ago
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Thoughts on the Orlando shooting
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There is something surreal, in moments like this, about being a privileged
member of an oppressed minority. I can breeze through airport security
with whi...
10 years ago
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An Update
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Hi, everyone. I know, I know, I promised to start blogging again. And
that was a hell of a long time ago. I just found myself far too busy, and
far too ...
10 years ago
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People who influence your life
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I haven't posted to this blog in a very long time, but there really isn't
much in the way of my spouse's transition or my own feelings about it to
report ...
10 years ago
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To be or not to be – gay?
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After a nudge from my most patient follower, I thought I’d pen something I
have been thinking about posting for a while. Nicci has been on a long
journey a...
10 years ago
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My 100th post…
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This is my 100th post. I was hoping to make it a special one with a
description of another outing as Valerie, in my new modern “blending”
outfit. Unfortuna...
10 years ago
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Back on track
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It really sucked having to stop HRT at the beginning of this month. Unable
to get a prescription, and having difficulties importing what I needed to
self-m...
10 years ago
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A Sad Day in North Carolina
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North Carolina is a strange State and a great State (most of the time).
Today, it is a sad State. I have many fond childhood memories of summers
there wh...
10 years ago
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Clue
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This was a test. This was the ultimate test.
To have brought a humble being out of the woods, out of the swamp, out of
the wild
And plop it into her life a...
10 years ago
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Not sure what to say..
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I am not sure what to do, or what to say, depression is my only constant
“friend”, with me all the time, someone I hate, yet never hates me back.
Medical m...
10 years ago
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Back to the Stone Age.
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I think the song is fitting, It is not mine, the opinions on this page are
mine. In posting this video, I am in no way saying that this group believes
as I...
10 years ago
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Reminder: Follow my new blog! This one is closing imminently
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This is just a quick reminder, in case anyone who cares missed it the first
time, that GenderDrift is being turned into a private blog where it can
rest pe...
10 years ago
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Debunking Bathroom Myths
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*Debunking Bathroom Myths*
Original article by *Brynn Tannehill *can be viewed *Here*
*When the Houston Equal Rights Ordinance was defeated, the ostens...
10 years ago
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Postscript
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I thought that my urge to blog had departed. It hasn't... but I do need to
move on. Angie's Aspirations — aka About Angie — was written from the
perspecti...
10 years ago
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10 Ways to Destroy the Earth
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my mother died in this room now it is occupied by my nieces whenever they
sleep over a playroom i currently occupy it sleeping on the lower bunk of
their l...
10 years ago
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Coming soon
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[image: Coming soon]
10 years ago
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Stronger
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So I think it is safe to say that Keira is getting stronger or at the very
least more prevalent. I’ve been getting more confident doing certain
things, I k...
11 years ago
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Through The Looking Glass
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I’m not sure exactly when it happened, but it did. That is, I stopped
considering myself “transitioning.” What does that mean, exactly? Am I
where I want t...
11 years ago
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Finishing therapy
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I looked back to refer to other blog posts about the CBT I have been having
and found none, realising that I had not written anything about it since I
star...
11 years ago
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It’s Inherent
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The frequency and unexpectedness with which being transgendered asserts
itself is ever a source of amazement. Regardless of how deeply in
background one ma...
11 years ago
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The world keeps on turning.
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So I guess it’s time to get back into this blog of mine. I mean I’ve been
gone for so long and really it’s just time to start again. Since my last
real b...
11 years ago
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Motorhead Girls
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Motorhead Girls ... we are girls who love cars, trucks, bikes, planes, and
boats. Anything with a motor. Maybe we love some of them, maybe we love all
of ...
11 years ago
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Dangerous Situation
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***** This post might be triggering ***** Something really scary happened
last evening. I was standing outside with a friend (who is also homeless
and we u...
11 years ago
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New Hair … :) Trying different looks :)
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So the new wig arrived… and figured a day off would be fitting to try it on
🙂 Here are a few pics… Ya short and sweet post … 😛 Peace and Love!
Tamara 🙂
11 years ago
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The year 2015 will bring the blog...
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When I started this blog I felt like I had a lot to say. And I did. And I
said it. Over the years things have changed and we have our challenges, but
...
11 years ago
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Xmas 2014
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I thought I should drop a post in, and wish everyone a happy Xmas.
If you should be reading this, and you are a Pagan like my son, or any of
the non-christ...
11 years ago
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8 Steps on How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Immediately
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If you are trying to get your ex boyfriend back, but are fighting and get
no results, then you should know this is a common thing that tons of girls
go thr...
12 years ago
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Pigtails
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Last night as I was hugging Kegan good night, I started playing with her
hair and realized her hair is at that almost long enough to put into a
super short...
12 years ago
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July 18th 2014
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I know I haven't posted in a long time, things have just gotten crazy
around here. We were finally able to get pregnant with our third, and
recently found...
12 years ago
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Vote for Sophia
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I'm running in a mock election and I need your votes. You might be asking
why I need your vote, and *how in the heck did I wind up in politics?* Well,
my...
12 years ago
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Another new chapter
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*or the next stop on the timeline...*
*Anyway, as some of you may remember, in a galaxy, far, far..wait, wrong
story.*
*I married my other half 13 years a...
12 years ago
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It's "her's"
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I've been living as woman for two years now, two really good years. I was
and still am one of the lucky few. I have gone through this transition
without lo...
12 years ago
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Link to my daughter’s blog post
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Here’s something my daughter posted today… Hexydezimal A fallen angel
returns. hexydezimal.wordpress.com Questions for the Transgender Community
Happy bela...
12 years ago
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Hanging in, hanging out, hanging on
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It has been a while since I have posted anything here. Up to this point, I
have maintained this blog as a combination of sporadic articles, and the
occasio...
12 years ago
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Ether Radio
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Last Tuesday I took the day off work to run errands. Around 8:30 in the
morning I was sitting in my boyfriend's car by a gas pump. Peter was
inside colle...
13 years ago
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The Wedding and the Beach House
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It was a balmy June Saturday in Napa valley, California. The winery
Heather’s cousin Rosalind had chosen for the wedding was beautifully placed
amidst rol...
14 years ago
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Retrospect - Spring 2011 - The Highs and Low of being a TGirl
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Widemouth Bay, CornwallBy the spring of 2011 I felt that things were going
quite well and that with my new image I was well on the well to achieving
the g...
14 years ago
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Trans on TV, A Word Of Caution
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Since the airing of My Transsexual Summer and the enormous reaction it
caused, both in the trans community and the wider public I have been aware
of a numb...
14 years ago
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I suppose an introduction is in order...
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I'm a woman living on the Left coast of America with a very much
appreciated spouse of over a decade and a half. We can usually be found
co-living our lif...
15 years ago
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Reality TV
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I was reassembling the bike last weekend with radio 4 on drip-feed and
heard a piece about people who live a second life on the Internet. It
appears that f...
17 years ago
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Cobweb Corner - Older Blogs, Not Recently Updated
I would have thought you'd have the decency to spell her name correctly
ReplyDeleteShirley Anne
Early into my transition I went to a straight bar that I'd been to maybe a dozen times. The last time I was knocked out by one punch from a man that had kissed without warning. I told him my status, he went to his table, then hit me as I went to the bathroom. I've been frightened of dark places and situational danger since. ...Thanks for posting this, Christie.
ReplyDeleteOops! Sorry Cyrsti.
Delete@Shirley Anne - Thanks for pointing this out. I have a friend who spells her name Crysti. My mistake. I try to be so careful and then mess up on the most obvious.
ReplyDeleteMy apologizes to Cyrsti.
Calie
Too bad that like most transie blogs, free and open commentary is not allowed.
ReplyDeleteApology accepted!!! Just happy to be featured...makes it all worthwhile :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Calie!!!!
Cyrsti