All Dressed Up and Nowhere to Go

In my opinion it is best to avoid places where large numbers of single, young, heteronormative, cisgender men will gather. These people often drink alcohol and alcohol seldom encourages tolerance and a respect for diversity. They may identify you as trans and want to prove a point or worse one my be attracted to you, find out you are trans and feel a need to assert and (re)prove his manliness. 



Daniella lives in South Africa, but her advice would spot-on here in California and, I suppose, just about anywhere else in the free world.  She offers advice on how to dress and where best to go if you're in the position of being, All Dressed Up and Nowhere to Go.