We are attracted to women but also want to emulate and be them. Hence the less dysphoric you are the better you will be able to lead a normal sex life with a female partner. This is why you will often see occasional crossdressers have little conflict with their everyday lives and their secret ones. They are able to compartmentalize them more effectively.
Joanna has written two posts on the subject that is too often swept under the carpet. Start by reading part 1, and then go to part 2.
Headaches and kufuffles - There’s this really nasty tension headache that’s been imposing itself upon me the last few days. Really nasty. So nasty in fact that I had to ask Harry ...
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