To be or to love

For the past few years I have entertained the fantasy that I am queer enough to date across the full gender spectrum. But if I’m being honest with myself I can look back and realize that beyond the trends of convenience there is the sad fact that I just don’t connect as deeply with masculine people.


Our author is about to embark on the feminizing HRT and wonders just where this will take him/her when it comes to love and gender.  To be or to love?  Why not both?