The week before the shoot, the photographer emailed me a list of outfit
types to bring; solid tops for the head shots, a cocktail dress, two
more casual brunch type outfits, sporty workout clothes, and a good
variety of heels, sandals, and sneakers. The night before I tried on a
bunch of outfits and did a little fashion show for Kath. Thankfully it
wasn't too hard as I have a closet full of plenty of fun choices.
Faith did a photo shoot. She looks gorgeous (lots of pictures in this post), yet she got clocked. Voice? Certainly not by her appearance. Read all about Faith's first photo shoot.
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Shopping Hacks - *By Paula Gaikowski* Finding the right dress, shoes or foundation garment is always a challenge for a woman. For femulators the task can be even more daunt...13 hours ago
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Guest Author: Ariela Rosa - A partner recently sent me this piece she’d written for a contest and I was struck not just by the writing style but by the deep urge, as ever, to get a pa...3 weeks ago
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MMXXIII - Hoping you had a lovely festive time (and lovely festive bakes). I've moved 2022.doc to the Recycle Bin of history and I'm looking at clean page, so here's...4 weeks ago
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Boots. - You keep saying you got something for me. Skirts, check. Tights, check. (What else with skirts?) How about footwear? I've already mentioned my humming bird...4 weeks ago
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Coconut Lip Balm and Gloss - Another pair hanging there. Same colour? I think so. I had been waiting to find some light grey skinny jeans for ages. My last pair wore out a few years ag...4 weeks ago
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a midwinter song for Saturnalia - Happy St Stephen's Day! Just as a change from Christmas, Yule, or indeed Solstice ('bright blessings' etc), here's a song for Saturnalia, the old feast o...5 weeks ago
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‘Happy Holidays, Seasons Greetings, Merry Christmas 2022, Happy New Year 2023‘ - ** ‘Happy Holidays, Seasons Greetings, Merry Christmas 2022, Happy New Year 2023‘(25 Dec 2022) ** ** DRAFT * Dear Reader: I tried to use Messenger to send...5 weeks ago
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ferm living glas - *Glass & Mirrors – ferm LIVING*. WebGlass & Mirrors. We use a broad range of types of glass in our collection. We use soda lime glass for glass tablewar...1 month ago
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my latest email update - My latest email update is out – you can *read it here*. Highlights include: - *Signed Books for Sale!* (for the holidays or otherwise) - Two new e...1 month ago
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November 2022 - It is all about ‘time’! - I have neglecting my blog over the last three months but may be finding time to write anything interesting is the main reason for doing so? Well I have n...2 months ago
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Specific trauma feels so far away - For as long as I’ve had this blog (9 years!), I’ve written annually around this time of year, about a hospitalization I went through at age 17. I was there...2 months ago
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Mischief Night and Turnip Lanterns - BRING BACK THE BRITISH TURNIP LANTERN! A long time ago, (oh well; the 60's and 70's) children in the West Riding made Turnip Lanterns and most of us kids h...2 months ago
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Trans Children and the Persistence of Transphobia in the NHS - *My opinion of the new NHS Service Spec for trans children* Early this summer Olson et al (2022) published a very significant longitudinal study of 317 t...2 months ago
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Flygirl - Thanks to those lovely folks at Clumsy Cabaret and Tiny Rebel Cardiff I have danced nearly my entire repertoire of burlesque routines this year, more than ...3 months ago
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A Month of Freedom - Hey, I hope you're all doing OK lovelies. x So for about the last month my partner had to go away. Can you guess what I got up to while she was gone? ;) ...3 months ago
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As good a time as any - This might be as good a time as any to stop since the beginning of another chapter of my life seems like a duly appropriate milestone. I can now say with...4 months ago
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An Unexpected Turn is a hit - *I'm currently in the progress of completing "**The Detour**", and the first few chapters are available to read, but meanwhile let's also heck out my ...5 months ago
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Fairy doors and other encounters - A long time ago, long enough that I've forgotten where I wrote about it, when I first started going out and exploring the outside world as Susie back aro...5 months ago
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That Letter To My Wife - Thanks for the mail I received from my last blog. It’s amazing how up lifting your messages of support are to me. THEY DO MAKE A DIFFERENCE. Thank you. ...5 months ago
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Cats, Dogs, Walruses and a Bit of Sex - I've always been a bit antisocial, preferring the company of animals, even though I've never possessed a pet, and with my ecological background I am sens...5 months ago
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A Rhode Island Tragedy - A friend of mine was getting married in Rhode Island, and so our little friend group all flew/drove in from across the country to hang out! I had arrived...5 months ago
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Prohibition Party! - It’s one of my favourite things to get an invitation where the person says “Vivienne is welcome too”. A few weeks ago I got an invitation to a friend’s b...5 months ago
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Windows: The Stash, The Dream and The Wardrobe - ver the years I have, apart from going on about my stockings, nails and heels, mentioned more than once my frustration about having my Stash in boxes i...6 months ago
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Thanksgiving - Trigger warning! This post speaks bluntly about my grandchildren getting hurt in an accident. It is not happy and uplifting. If you have horrible me...6 months ago
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Taking a Break - I have been writing for a long time. I even won an award for writing when I wrote for World Wide Hippies. Unfortunately, I am not in a good place. I lost m...7 months ago
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TransIAm: Wheeling Through Hard Times - *Introductory Note* I wrote this article by request for a compendium of articles on *how* trans folks survived through hard times. I sent it to the edit...7 months ago
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Intersectionality – Do you know what it is. - Do you know about this? Do you know how it fits in your life? I know right now in the […]7 months ago
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Last Post - Hello and good bye blog, I have not been writing much lately because I have been depressed, anxious, sad and just not able to make many coherent thoughts. ...8 months ago
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Space Elevator - The white body I wear is mine, but ill-fitting and not me. A phantom body that is also mine and is me rides within like a ghost, teasing my brain with each...9 months ago
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Wednesday On Saturday - Some of you that go way back with the blog might remember a post I wrote way back near the beginning where my friend Tanya and I were supposed to get make...9 months ago
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#biologicaltrans - If there is one thing that gender-critical or anti-trans people do not understand, it is biology. If there is one thing that they and the anti-woke culture...9 months ago
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...and then some time passed - Hard to believe that its been 7 years since my last posting. I've been busy. Since I last posted, several positive events have happened with a multitud...9 months ago
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Ten Years Later….. - When I posted about my journey as a transgender football fan last May, I never pictured that I wouldn’t write anything for nearly a year. There has been pl...10 months ago
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Hygienic Hijinks - I can’t even imagine what someone might imagine I’d be talking about with such a title in this context… What I do want to talk about is a little bit of an ...11 months ago
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A Tale of Two Court Cases - It was the best of times, it was the worst of times. I’d love to know just what gets into the minds of Scotland’s judiciary, when they can make two judgeme...11 months ago
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Love again. - She looked and could not find what her heart was missing. Forgetting what it was like to touch another Gave up the search, thinking she is cursed Disadvant...11 months ago
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Purse - I had it for years. Sandy colour with shiny silver embroidered brand logo on the face. A single popper to keep it shut and a zip down the edge for coins. I...11 months ago
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Matt Walsh & Piers Morgan You Ain’t Trans Experts So Shut The Fuck Up! - With the increasing inevitably of armed conflict in Ukraine, I’m sure there’ll be an increasing frequency of barstool generals in Wetherspoons pubs across ...11 months ago
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Full Circle - My blog and I go way back. Way, way, way back. I just peeked back at my first post in my earliest blog. It was June 2004. Back in those days blogs we...1 year ago
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Times Square Was My Beat - To correspond with my appearance in Crime Scene: The Time Square Killer (streaming now on Netflix), I publish this article from my archives. It is a far le...1 year ago
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Shareable mantras for 2022. - This past weekend, deconstructing Christmas became absolutely necessary. More pine needles lay under my tree than remained on the branches. And Saturday ...1 year ago
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Stars. Needles. Poop. Plates. Wishes. - Aside from (very) occasionally checking my horoscope, I am not big into astrology. That being said, however, I do kinda believe in it and its impact on us...1 year ago
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It’s been almost 8 years. - As someone who is on the neurodivergent spectrum, I often am faced with a lot of challenges in my daily life and one of those happens to be time blindness....1 year ago
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I’ve moved the blog! - Continue to https://schrodingerswardrobe.blogspot.com/ for further infrequent ramblings!1 year ago
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Confessions of a Bad Girl - I did a bad thing. A very bad thing. I watched a YouTube video. I am a bad girl. Let me explain. (Saffers please feel free to skip the next seven paragraph...1 year ago
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(20) One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest - 1975 - First of all, as I would suggest with all these movies, before reading this review, see the movie if you haven't. I can't talk about this one without spo...1 year ago
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It’s a book! - Dear friends, I just wanted to make sure you knew about my latest news: My book! (It’s officially coming out in print tomorrow, and you can probably find i...1 year ago
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Solderer Of Fortune - One Year After, and it's been a long year. One year after what, you say? Last year I came back from the BornHack hacker camp in Denmark, to find ...1 year ago
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What is “Hate Crime”? - You have a few options if you live in Fife and need to report a hate crime. You can report the incident directly to Police Scotland at Police Scotland Onli...1 year ago
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Coming out of Covid-19 hibernation - The Covid-19 pandemic has been tough for transgender people. Coming out of lockdown means having to socially transition all over again. The post Coming o...1 year ago
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Another Brief Check In - Hello all. I hope everyone is having a good summer. This is just (another) brief post. As I mentioned in my last post, it's been a difficult few months...1 year ago
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BREAKING NEWS: Jennifer McCreath Quits NDP! - Jennifer McCreath has resigned her membership from the NL NDP and Federal NDP effective immediately. More to come.1 year ago
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Of Labels and Identities and Orientation - I have been a bloke who wears dresses almost longer than I can remember. For a half a century I went through countless periods of self-discovery and self-i...1 year ago
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Farewell - I’ve been thinking hard about ending this blog and have decided it’s time. When I first started this it was to leave testament of my coming out and transit...1 year ago
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Liberating Trans Bodies - Content note: discussion of violence, oppression, and abuse Click here to read my article about Liberating Trans Bodies for Shuddhashar1 year ago
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Drifting... - I'm drifting. What is “drift”? According to Gretchen Rubin, drift is the decision you make by not deciding, or by making a decision that unleashes c...1 year ago
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Rainbow Reading: April 14 - Bite-sized reviews of the LGBTQ books I’ve read in the past week. All titles are linked to their Goodreads page. Between April 7th and 13th, I read: Stray ...1 year ago
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One Year - Yes, I've been on a one year sort of hiatus. Nothing big happened but just got wrapped up in things. Will try and post more and start up again. No chang...1 year ago
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Why I Left Twitter - in January of this year I took the difficult decision to leave Twitter. It was necessary for my own mental health. Having reflected now for a couple of mon...1 year ago
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First pages of my book - This excerpt is not formatted or proofread for publishing yet, but I am excited to share it. Real progress on this telling of my life though is exciting...1 year ago
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Short Story: Gloom Dispelled - “Who is she?” Tiriana asked. “Who are you talking about?” Virion asked in return, deflecting his girlfriends question. “You know who I’m talking about,” Ti...1 year ago
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Help! Jane! Stop This Crazy Thing!! JAAANNNNEEEEE!!! - Hey Buckaroos and Buckaritas. I hope the world has been treating you nicely, as you deserve. Depending on your current location of stomping grounds, Things...2 years ago
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Reflections on 2020 (Taking Chances) and Looking ahead to 2021 (Making a positive difference) - Hey Lovelies, It has been a really long time since my last post. Literally a year! I haven’t written my reflections post in time, so half of this post will...2 years ago
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Merry Christmas - Merry Christmas to one and all, may your day be filled with happiness and joy. 😁 ❤️ BY FOR NOW2 years ago
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House of Ill Repair - *It may be years until the day* *My dreams will match up with my pay.* * "Mushaboom"* * ...2 years ago
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What is Transphobia? - (TW/CW: Discussion of transphobia, discussion of paedophilia, brief mention of rape counselling services.) Today I want to do a quick (by my standards – on...2 years ago
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The Love Story - Before this last week, my most recent memory telling a story which caused someone to cry was when Katie and I broke up. As we sat in therapy and I asked th...2 years ago
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Well, there you have it… - Time flies doesn’t it? And again, perhaps it doesn’t? When I consider that three years (today in fact) have passed since I went full time, it seems lik...2 years ago
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Love in the time of Covid-19 - Jeremy is 2000 kilometres or 1242 miles away. It has been about six months since we have seen each other thanks to Covid-19, the Coronavirus, “the Rona”. I...2 years ago
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2020′ Blog addition - I got a bit sidetracked by a move to my new high-rise in February to a place all our own just Oscar and I! I’m grateful for my wonderful friends Ben and Te...2 years ago
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The last post - The sun filters through the trees. The dappled shade keeping me cool as I lay on the sun bed. Pain and discomfort slowly ebbing away as the pain killers ki...2 years ago
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Whinge with mother - Mick Jagger and his merry men called them ‘Mothers little helpers’. Sadly, I am not a mother. Antidepressants I’m referring to. I have been popping these f...2 years ago
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Posting from the front - Now that my dad has passed, things have started to settle down to a new normal. My brother and I have been talking more often, and XGFJ no longer posts ...2 years ago
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Brick Wall - I have not posted in a while. There is nothing exactly new in my gender journey as the shelter at home orders have taken my Tanya time down to zero. I'm ...2 years ago
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It’s Still OK to Make Eye Contact During a Pandemic (video) - An update and message of love from yours truly It’s a time that has most of us practicing physical distancing to prevent the spread of a microscopic and ...2 years ago
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Transient life, transient humans - We are transient – traveling from one state to another, and sometimes combination of different states at once. Hello once again. Sharing this blog with som...2 years ago
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Like a dick pic that runs out of the room - How’s that for click bait (or aversion therapy)? Read on, or not. I understand. Obvious CW apply. My mate and I were sharing sexual awakening stories, as y...2 years ago
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From the waist upwards [Flickr] - Sandra M. Lopes posted a photo: [image: From the waist upwards] Flattr me!2 years ago
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Transitions: From My Heart to Yours - On this day, seven years ago my world changed. I learned a new word; transgender became part of my vocabulary. Along with that I learned about the differen...2 years ago
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New Year, Same Stef? - I know it’s a bit belated, but Happy New Year! It’s finally 2020 and all I can say is where the hell did all the time go? Didn’t Y2K just happen? When did ...3 years ago
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Sideways career - Right... Second attempt at this post 😀 This is a bit of a long story, but rather than keep everything cryptic, and saying it at the end I'm going to do it...3 years ago
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Holding on - “Is she going to die?” I ask the firefighter. It’s been 20 minutes since I’ve dialed 911, my wife is lying collapsed on the living room floor of our r...3 years ago
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Time to Upgrade - November 5th, 2010 - I began this blog. When I started out, I did what many bloggers do, I headed to Blogger.com. It is a nice friendly platform "back e...3 years ago
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Inside Out - Surface elements that reveal the core Abide a moment, Dear Reader, while I reacquaint my fingers with the keyboard. They (my fingers) are stumbling about ...3 years ago
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I Miss 2012 - I was 16, it was the last year of high school. My school had two different buildings in different parts of the city, the first had from kindergarten to the...3 years ago
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Transferring to a new Blog - Due to circumstances beyond my control, I am forced to close down this blog and open up a new one. Please visit my new blog, "Dotting I's and Crossing T...3 years ago
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Standing Up, Speaking Up, Moving Up - It’s almost a year since I posted anything on this blog. Just a case of real life taking over I suppose. During all the years when I was desperately hopi...3 years ago
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Working on a New Book - Hi everyone! Excited to announce I am 21k words into writing my first novel! It’s an adult vampire-lesbian action sci-fi thriller. Vampires! Lesbians! Tran...3 years ago
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September 2019 - New Mk 3 Blog commenced. - I have not updated this blog for a while for many reasons but I have now decided to commence Mark Three Blog of K.D.s life were you will now find it here -...3 years ago
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‘Modern Love’ essay: the gift that keeps giving - The essay that keeps giving returns to the spotlight, in a manner of speaking. Modern Love editor Daniel Jones has revised his compilation of essays to coi...3 years ago
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Lucy's thoughts - one year on - Recently it was the 1 year anniversary of the Sunday Mirror article. So much has happened in that year, personally for us and for Trans Radio UK. As part o...3 years ago
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I Am Female - If you have been reading some or all of my blog, the title of this post will seem a bit odd. From previous posts it should pretty obvious that I’m a woman....3 years ago
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Full Circle - Felix stood at the edge of the clearing. Within it stood a small, homely cottage. A simple sign on the door read “A Tailor’s Touch.” This is the place, rig...3 years ago
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Life as a Trans Opera Singer - The National Opera Studio asked me what it was like, to be a trans opera singer – and how we could all make our industry better. So I wrote them this – I...3 years ago
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A Smile That Could Light up a Room - "I have a lot of questions for you. Do you have any for me?", I asked. "Yes!", she said. "How do you do it? How have you kept yourself from transitionin...3 years ago
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I'M BAAAAAACCCKKKK!!!!! - I AM BACK BIACHES!!! HAHAHA!!!!! Did y'all miss me? I've had such a great, difficult, exhausting, confusing and wonderful few years since I last posted. ...3 years ago
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Easter Rising - It’s been a few months since my last blogpost, and I felt today was a good day to count my blessings. Tonight is the 3rd night of Passover, and the day tha...3 years ago
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The Southern Strategy Is Real - The Southern Strategy is real and I have the proof – a PDF of a May 17, 1970 NY Times article where they interviewed Kevin Phillips, the man who created th...3 years ago
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Wow..so, where to start!? - Its obviously been quite a while since I wrote here. Truth told, I had almost forgotten about this page until I was listing relevant experience for a magaz...3 years ago
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Clearing Dad’s house - When Dad died, it didn’t shock me — I’d been expecting it for a while. And coping with his funeral was OK, too. But neither affected me so much as the chor...3 years ago
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What The Heck Is A Conservative Christian TG Gal? - I use the phrase "conservative christian TG gal" to describe myself, but wanted to clarify that phrase briefly in a blog post. The "conservative" in my d...3 years ago
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Afterword - If you’re wondering where the rest of this blog has gone, I’m sorry to disappoint but after hinting at it for a while, after reaching a particular mileston...3 years ago
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Sometimes - Sometimes I look in the mirror To make sure I’m still there I trace the scars That I made Five … More3 years ago
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They Taught Me - They taught me that I’m pretty. But I shouldn’t talk, because nobody will listen. I shouldn’t try hard, because nobody will care. I shouldn’t cry, because ...3 years ago
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GRS – 3 Surgeries and One Beautiful Nightmare (Part 3/3) - [Content warnings for graphic depictions/images of bodily functions, surgery, suicide, mental illness, swearing] This is Part III of my little tale about h...3 years ago
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Detaching Myself from My Dysphoria - The other day, I was trying to imagine how my life would be different if I’d never suffered from gender dysphoria. The point wasn’t to create a fantasy lif...3 years ago
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Purging -- Part 2 - Last month I wrote about how I have emotional attachments to everything in my closet. I'm thinking there are many others like me. Occasionally I am asked...4 years ago
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Notes for a sketch - thinking on Mermaids - Small cafe, two middleaged women, A and B, sitting down at a table talking in Northern English accents. A - So whats been happening whilst I've been down So...4 years ago
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2018 Review - Part 2 - Part 1 of my review of 2018 covered the goals I set myself. Part 2 deals with all the other things that happened this year, and there has been quite a bit ...4 years ago
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Progress, slowly slowly. - So things seem now to be heading in a scary but ultimately more positive direction for me at last. After a recent discussion with my wife she now seems to ...4 years ago
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Nothing to Say... - Just kidding. I have some stuff to say, my loyal readers. I'm sorry I haven't kept up with this blog, but do you people really want to know each week that ...4 years ago
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see postings on facebook 11 17 2018 - i haven't posted anything in awhile mainly because i spend most of my posting time on facebook. so any of my followers can catch up on my postings there4 years ago
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Caged - I was home after another day at work. I was soon in the bedroom and undressed. The cardboard box was hacked open, the packing removed to reveal a plain whi...4 years ago
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Time to Say Goodbye - In honor of Samhain and Scorpio season, I’m making a decision to clear something from my life that hasn’t really been active for a while. I’ll no longer be...4 years ago
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Ok, just to spout out an opinion and my understanding of UMBRELLAS. - There often and lately seems to be a question of who is trans? Who is more trans? Who suffers more? Who has it harder? Who is an ally and who is part of th...4 years ago
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Brighton - So last Tuesday we took ourselves orf to spend a couple of days away and stay with friends in Brighton. Well it got slightly extended and we came home on S...4 years ago
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UPDATE ON MY HEART AND MIND - People have been asking me how things are going in our families journey in the transgender world, but also my heart. Here is how my heart and soul are fee...4 years ago
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Turns Out I Was Right - Seems the setbacks I deemed minor actually were minor. I’m down 1.2 lbs from yesterday, and right back on track with where I was two days ago. I could se...4 years ago
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Review of The Fence by Lusty Soul - At one time in my life — for most of it actually — I was a male of the species. As I read this story by Lusty Soul, long forgotten memories of the overpow...4 years ago
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May You Find Peace - I have made peace with myself, and can no longer in good faith leave or recommend the content I once posted here. Those writings were my best desperate ho...4 years ago
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It’s been awhile - Warning: this post is different. It talks about things that may make some readers uncomfortable – especially ones that know me personally and in parts it ...4 years ago
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Panties – A Special Pleasure - In our recent poll on lingerie that trans girls and crossdressers prefer, panties tied for first place with 25% of the vote. I don’t profess to having th...4 years ago
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Profile: Alex - You can call me… Alex I identify as… Gender-fluid/non-bianary As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them and female pronouns sometimes he/him feels ri...4 years ago
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This Ain’t About Jobs (10/20/17) - Maybe you saw or heard about the memo put out by Attorney General Jeff Sessions on October 4th that essentially ordered the Justice Department to do a comp...4 years ago
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Last indolent Spinster Almost Daily Report from DOXA 2018 - My last laconic lazy one take video chatting about the last couple days of the festival DOXA 20184 years ago
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Finale - Unfortunately, I am finding that this blog and my life is being used far too often as a political football to promote various agendas and the actual messag...4 years ago
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Finale - Unfortunately, I am finding that this blog and my life is being used far too often as a political football to promote various agendas and the actual messag...4 years ago
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Interesting Article on CNN - Why girls can be boyish but boys can't be girlish - One topic that I find fascination is the idea of shifting gender stereotypes and how people, particularly "men" who enjoy trandtionally "female" things, ar...4 years ago
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Love the kid you've got, not the one you wish you had - Parents of LGBTQ kids, or any kids, even young adult kids, I ask you to listen; to read and to consider: In recent months, I've had the fortune and misfort...4 years ago
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one more cup of coffee - TW The hustle for work continues, which is discouraging but necessary. I’m having relationship issues, as all anyone wants to do is date. Decided that’s ...4 years ago
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Online competition redux - Back in April 2016, I mentioned an online competition where I won a voucher, which I used to buy a skirt and dress, both in size XL. According to their si...4 years ago
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Day 1,245: Moments Frozen in Time - I have to admit, we had a pretty good run here at So There’s That. 21 podcast episodes and 32 blog posts over the course of a year. And a little bit of n...4 years ago
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Flying Solo in Vegas, Part 2 - While I was happy I had arrived at my hotel room without any problems, I was tired, hungry, and a little sweaty from the journey. I was also behind my pla...4 years ago
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I wasn’t sure what my curtains are trying to tell me, but then I clued in….. - 40 Days till surgery. 😂😂😂😜 I’m really excited, somewhat petrified but not of the actual procedure and the pain after, but of the stay in a hospital. I ...4 years ago
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What's in a Name? - Many years ago, while the internet was still in its infancy, I started looking to find out information from other transgender individuals. At that time bul...5 years ago
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Sunday November 19, 2017 - Finally - I started this Journey in Feb/March of 2010, when after the early death of some clients and friends , I decided at 54 years of age, it was now or never. B...5 years ago
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Where is the Washing machine? - We were watching tele and caught the end of a who-dun-it. It involved the death of a rugby coach and he was murdered for being a cross-dresser or transgend...5 years ago
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25 October Journal - Well Folks, I am still working on my other post. I think it will be part of the next book of my life, rather than the end of this one. I am closing this bl...5 years ago
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Fingernails - little things aren't they, fingernails? Certainly nothing to get upset about. But for me fingernails seem to have become the straw that broke the camel's...5 years ago
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Apples & Apples - It was my second year at the Hendersonville Apple Festival in NC. The previous year I went with my wife, we had a great time and enjoyed the day, despit...5 years ago
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The Penultimate Post - It has been a while since I have blogged on here.... a long while. The gaps between my blog posts have slowly widened as I have begun to find myself, more...5 years ago
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Excuse our dust, but we have moved! - I have moved my blog over to a dedicated hosting provider, and we have successfully migrated over to the WordPress platform. We have our own domain name, a...5 years ago
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On the Pride Center of the Capital Region, terfs, and Why Martha Harvey Needs to Resign - CW: lots of swears, lots of terfs (A quick aside on the word terf because I’m going to use it about a thousand times. It’s not a slur. Here’s a doctor tell...5 years ago
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Trying to reconnect with my children - A lot has been written in the media about cis parents who grow to accept a transgender child. Sadly, very little is available about the opposite scenario ...5 years ago
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That’s all folks………. - Between 1955 and 1959, 143 episodes of “The Adventures of Robin Hood” emerged from a tiny studio in Walton on Thames and burst onto black and white telli...5 years ago
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That’s all folks………. - Between 1955 and 1959, 143 episodes of “The Adventures of Robin Hood” emerged from a tiny studio in Walton on Thames and burst onto black and white telli...5 years ago
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ABC TV Cancels Downward Dog Show - “Every Day my dog looks at me exactly the same way, like I’m the most beautiful thing he’s ever seen. And, I just thought, what if we could see ourselve...5 years ago
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With Purpose - The title of this post really highlights the way I’ve felt the last several months and the experiences I’ve had the chance to take in. Since my last updat...5 years ago
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With Purpose - The title of this post really highlights the way I’ve felt the last several months and the experiences I’ve had the chance to take in. Since my last updat...5 years ago
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Transgender and LGBT++ Rights promised in UK Party Manifestos - This piece is not written to influence how you vote in the general Election on June 8th. it’s too late for that and in my humble opinion getting May out of...5 years ago
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Trans Twitter Gives Bad Dating Advice - Trans Twitter Gives Bad Dating Advice — “You have much gold upon your head,” They answer’d all together: “Buy from us with a golden curl.” — Christina Ro...5 years ago
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It has been a long time… - since my last post. I’m still here. I am still battling with the trauma of multiple surgeries, a disfiguring scar on my forearm, a devastating betrayal f...5 years ago
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I'll miss this platform - But I don't think I'm going to keep using it. It's sad, because I've been writing here for such a long time, and blogging for myself is therapeutic, even i...5 years ago
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Sex, Drugs and Southern Hospitality: An Interview with Sam Peterson - Sam Peterson’s Trunky (Transgender Junky): A Memoir of Institutionalization and Southern Hospitality is the rare book that’s formally experimental AND impo...5 years ago
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India Willoughby, transvestites deserve protection too - Hi India, How are you? Years ago we used to frequent the same forum site so even though we’ve never met, I view you with the same fondness I feel for a...5 years ago
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Thoughts and Updates - I can't believe it's been almost a year since I've posted anything. Time flies and we don't... So...my marriage is still going strong. It's pretty much ...5 years ago
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And happily ever after... - Family snuggle timeI've retired from blogging. I've been channeling my creative energy into other hobbies, and I'm feeling uninspired to write about my wi...5 years ago
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Questions related to the surgery - As mentioned in my previous post i said i would post the questions i asked the surgeon’s assistant. Also, this post is NSFW as there are some details regar...5 years ago
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We Need A “Standards of Care” for Detransitioners - One of my biggest takeaways from attending the recent USPATH conference is that many clinicians and other providers sincerely want more information on unde...5 years ago
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Apology - Recently, I undertook the task of going through my blog posts to get a sense of my history. It has been a bit of a humbling experience – so much so that ...5 years ago
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What I’m talking about - Ok so many of you will have seen this photo, absorbed and passed it by. I just caught it on a video artical on the BBC website. Quite frankly I was surpr...5 years ago
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Watching When We Rise on ABC - I've been watching *When We Rise*, the four part miniseries on ABC about the birth and development of the LGBT movement in America and the parts played in ...5 years ago
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The door is open - One of the things that is true; and that I have been pondering, is that when you come out, your family comes out. I mean; once I am full time, then al...5 years ago
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Trying Out A New Name - I wrote just over a month ago about my anxieties about going away. It’s now less than a week until I actually go which is really exciting. I’m pumped to se...5 years ago
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Stuck In The Middle Again - How to start? I said long ago when I made my choice to back our new President that when he did things I felt were wrong I would call him out on it. Today i...5 years ago
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New pics … at last! - Finally got some long overdue “girl-time” yesterday – first time for over 2 years. I really shouldn’t leave it so long because it isn’t good for my genera...5 years ago
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Why I'm so passionate about the issues of others. - *It's been 2.5 years since I've posted. I said I would post if I had something to say and today, I do. Please note the experience I write about does not in...6 years ago
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We Interrupt This Program - After writing once a week for four years. I’ve finally decided is time to switch things up and stop posting on schedule and only post when I feel like it. ...6 years ago
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Love and Loneliness - *"I've looked at love from both sides now".... Joni Mitchell.* Down on the seawall in my town, a few blocks from where I live, the benches that look ...6 years ago
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New Year, big changes. - *Happy **New** Year!* I begin the new year letting go of some important things. First up is the pseudonym I have used for years. ‘Haust’ is gone, ...6 years ago
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Questioning the Fluctuations - This isn't the scribbling I intended (or promised) to note as I stated in the last entry. However, it is part of my developing thoughts on this future sub...6 years ago
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Yuletide greetings. - *Soon be nobody left now that Leonard Cohen is gone too... Someone else who had to deal with depression and his music soothed my troubled soul. Just sad to...6 years ago
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Victoria’s Secret – The Show - Hey, so yesterday it was time for the amazing show. I haven’t seen the show but I took a look at a lot of pictures and it seemed amazing and I can’t wait t...6 years ago
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Week 85:Top Surgery Update:The collage above starts at 8 days... - *Week 85:* *Top Surgery Update:* The collage above starts at 8 days post-op (image bottom left) and then clockwise shows my chest at 10 ...6 years ago
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Heroes and Hope - It’s times like these that make me feel the most hopeless. I haven’t always been good at dealing with feelings like this. But when the future looks bleak, ...6 years ago
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Cultivation Corner Starting Seeds - So you want to sprout those ganja seeds you found in your stash? First off I want you to be sure that your grow space will be warm enough for seed germinati...6 years ago
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I am able to talk again - I am back on deck and I think more in control of myself than I have been for quite some time. Will be making more additions to this blog as I go along. The...6 years ago
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Ringing the changes part 2 - So, my first post about how I changed my name with various organisations was starting to get a bit long, so this is a continuation. The first can be seen ...6 years ago
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September 22 2016 - Thank you. Thank you for the last four years. Thank you for letting me into your hearts, for letting me be a part of your day, for letting me bounce my th...6 years ago
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My response to a post by Tyler Charles Austen - Dear Mr Austen, On 26th August 2016, you made a post on your eponymous blog (that means you named it after yourself) called “I Can’t Believe I’m Saying Th...6 years ago
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Last Post - So this is it. The last post I’ll make here (for the foreseeable future anyway). I’ve moved my fitness adventures over to http://transtriathlete.com and I’...6 years ago
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A rediscovered poem - I found this in my 2013 dream journal, from when I was still in the closet. My dreams were born from above, not below, or if below, in the primal ember ...6 years ago
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This is goodbye (A happy one) - This is going to be my last post on It’s ok to be a glow stick. I am sad to be saying goodbye but my life has changed dramatically and sadly, there is no r...6 years ago
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Identity Crisis - I have lost my identity. I'm not sure if I'm still mom, wife, daughter or 911 dispatcher. If I'm not any of the above, then who am I besides lost?6 years ago
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Goodbye - It's been a couple of months since I last posted, despite my desire to do an A-Z on the issues I find important. My absence was caused by many things, but...6 years ago
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The gym experience - My fitness in recent years has been something that I have felt has become very important to me. I remember starting running back in the time when I was dea...6 years ago
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The Post-GRS Blues - On Twitter during the week, I joined in a conversation about Gender Reassignment Surgery and general fears regarding such a huge operation. Personally, GRS...6 years ago
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Me... - Realized I hadn't posted in a while. That will change starting with an updated picture of me.6 years ago
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A new audience - I am feeling a little humbled. I was asked last week at my college to talk about transgender issues, to my college group of counsellors in training. I star...6 years ago
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A new audience - I am feeling a little humbled. I was asked last week at my college to talk about transgender issues, to my college group of counsellors in training. I star...6 years ago
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Mid-Year Check In - At the beginning of this year, I wrote a post about my love of new beginnings and my resolutions for 2016. I was not too lofty in my goals; I attempted to ...6 years ago
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My Return and First Time Out… again - I’ve been trying to collect my thoughts the last few days. They have been a jumble of emotions, mostly good. I haven’t felt this way in a long time and f...6 years ago
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Thoughts on the Orlando shooting - There is something surreal, in moments like this, about being a privileged member of an oppressed minority. I can breeze through airport security with whi...6 years ago
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Honestly Geraldine, why do you need to crossdress? - This is the very tentative first step by a somewhat bewildered ordinary man who discovered that at sixty years of age, I needed to crossdress. I hope to de...6 years ago
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At work - It's definitely time for me to start thinking about when and how I'm going to transition at work. Outside of work I'm now living as myself pretty much full...6 years ago
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The First Mothers’ Day - If last year we celebrated the last Father’s Day, this year we introduced the first Mothers’ Day. And yes, the apostrophe is in the right place. I admit to...6 years ago
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On Being A Transwoman in a Bathroom - To be perfectly honest, I am actually really surprised this is a topic that presidential candidates are addressing. Seriously, it’s one thing for people to...6 years ago
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Feeling Positive Again :) - I had been feeling really down about things over the last few months and I know that my recent posts on here haven’t been very positive about my situation....6 years ago
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A good weekend - It’s been a good weekend. I actually feel pretty confident that I could pass one day. I know that’s not the most important thing, but it matters a lot to ...6 years ago
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A good weekend - It’s been a good weekend. I actually feel pretty confident that I could pass one day. I know that’s not the most important thing, but it matters a lot to ...6 years ago
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Goin' to North Carolina. Why Do I Feel Like A "Freedom Rider"? - In NO WAY am I comparing what Transgender people are going through in North Carolina to what Black Americans went through before and during the Civil Right...6 years ago
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My 100th post… - This is my 100th post. I was hoping to make it a special one with a description of another outing as Valerie, in my new modern “blending” outfit. Unfortuna...6 years ago
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Back - Where is she? When is she coming back? What's happening in Tammy World? These are all questions I've gotten over the last few months. Questions shouted...6 years ago
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Ghosts - So it has been almost a year since I last posted. It is not that I’ve had a lack of things to write about, more of a case of writers block – finding words...6 years ago
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Not sure what to say.. - I am not sure what to do, or what to say, depression is my only constant “friend”, with me all the time, someone I hate, yet never hates me back. Medical m...6 years ago
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Back to the Stone Age. - I think the song is fitting, It is not mine, the opinions on this page are mine. In posting this video, I am in no way saying that this group believes as I...6 years ago
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Come Up to the Lab: My Gender Workshop - Ever since Time Magazine proclaimed a “Transgender Tipping Point” a year and a half ago, I’ve been exploring trans identities and expressions that aren’t i...7 years ago
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hiatus - just wanted to let you all know that Will is doing fabulous in recovery (tracking everything diligently on @journeyintomanhood) and in England for his se...7 years ago
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Reminder: Follow my new blog! This one is closing imminently - This is just a quick reminder, in case anyone who cares missed it the first time, that GenderDrift is being turned into a private blog where it can rest pe...7 years ago
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Time to myself - Recently I have been lucky to have a few evenings to myself to let Jenny out of the wardrobe. Most of these occasions have been just in my room as usual, ...7 years ago
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Being a Gender Critical woman born trans is a very lonely place to be - My understanding of gender critical theory is limited. There's no reference text anywhere explaining it, and questioning GC theorists on their own turf nev...7 years ago
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Blogging about it…. - I started this blog because I wanted to help people in a similar situation to me. I was younger and never proclaimed to have all the answers. Sometimes the...7 years ago
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Debunking Bathroom Myths - *Debunking Bathroom Myths* Original article by *Brynn Tannehill *can be viewed *Here* *When the Houston Equal Rights Ordinance was defeated, the ostens...7 years ago
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RUMBLED. BUT IT TURNS OUT TO THE GOOD - As per usual on a Wed evening I make my way to the Butterfly Club support premises to get my self ready to face the world. Nothing new in that. And as per ...7 years ago
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Caitlyn Jenner Speaks at Chicago House Event - Caitlyn Jenner Speaks at Chicago House Event: grvsmth: sometranslady: grvsmth: sometranslady: snowflakeespecial: This isn’t a funny story. Trying on y...7 years ago
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Postscript - I thought that my urge to blog had departed. It hasn't... but I do need to move on. Angie's Aspirations — aka About Angie — was written from the perspecti...7 years ago
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Got A Little Beautified… - Not much here, but I went out for a bit of a day, treated by a couple of friends, and had my brows waxed and got my hair done. Here’s the results. I s...7 years ago
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17 Months on T Update - 17 Months on T Next week marks 17 months on T, nearly one and a half years. I cannot believe I have not posted any update for 5 months, time just really h...7 years ago
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10 Ways to Destroy the Earth - my mother died in this room now it is occupied by my nieces whenever they sleep over a playroom i currently occupy it sleeping on the lower bunk of their l...7 years ago
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Still Here - I realized last week that I hadn’t written a blog…or a Facebook post…or a journal entry…or much of anything in five or six months. Part of me was bothered ...7 years ago
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5 months in - *Continued**, from April 5th 2015* 5 months since the hospital I still don't know much about it. Dissociative Identity Disorder. My amnesia isn't just hav...7 years ago
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Through The Looking Glass - I’m not sure exactly when it happened, but it did. That is, I stopped considering myself “transitioning.” What does that mean, exactly? Am I where I want t...7 years ago
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Been Sick - Isn’t amazing? We tend to think we are the masters of the planet. Then, a debilitating illness hits and we become subservient cry-babies. Something crawl...7 years ago
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Transition Is A Banquet - Transition is not a one-way street, or a bowling lane with the bumpers up. Transition is not a recipe with precise measurements, or a fixed curriculum, or ...7 years ago
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It’s Inherent - The frequency and unexpectedness with which being transgendered asserts itself is ever a source of amazement. Regardless of how deeply in background one ma...7 years ago
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This Rain - Originally posted on chester maynes: Abruptly, water gushes from the sky. I hear the storm drops too loud. Wind creeps cold on my skin. Thunder slits these ...7 years ago
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Telling a Friend - I recently told a friend about Amy. I didn't go into many details or show him pictures or anything, but it felt good to talk about and get a positive reac...7 years ago
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And Last - I used that subject last week as well. It happens. Click to enlarge (the cartoon not the imagination)This is a hard post to organise and a hard post to wr...7 years ago
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The world keeps on turning. - So I guess it’s time to get back into this blog of mine. I mean I’ve been gone for so long and really it’s just time to start again. Since my last real b...7 years ago
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Why Bruce Jenner, Andreja Pejic and other Trans Celebrities Still Don’t Matter - Recently there have been a number of celebrities that have come out to announce that they define as transgender. For some of them it wasn’t a shocker, for ...7 years ago
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On Reconciling my Beliefs, Depression and Gender - Howdy. Sorry it's been a while, I am simply the most infrequent blogger in the world... I've been buried under piles of work for what seems like forever, a...7 years ago
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End game... - So things didn't get better...I slipped further and last Tuesday I went to my scheduled appointment...when she saw me the choices were go home for a matter...7 years ago
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Handbags & Glad Rags………. - I always feel a bit rotten about writing a new post when I have so many posts from others to … Continue reading →7 years ago
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Commenters and deep thoughts - I would like to start by apologizing for the long break between posts. A little thing called life intervenes and my writing suffers. Family, health, work, ...7 years ago
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Jenna Talackova, and the importance of transitioning when young - I greatly admire Jenna Talackova, the beautiful, sexy, and courageous M2F transgender model, beauty contestant, reality television star, and actress. I ...7 years ago
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Motorhead Girls - Motorhead Girls ... we are girls who love cars, trucks, bikes, planes, and boats. Anything with a motor. Maybe we love some of them, maybe we love all of ...7 years ago
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Shutting down - I've decided that I am not, after all, the blogging type. I never managed it in my other identity either, so I don't know why I should be surprised. So,...7 years ago
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Dangerous Situation - ***** This post might be triggering ***** Something really scary happened last evening. I was standing outside with a friend (who is also homeless and we u...7 years ago
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Could it really be THAT easy? - So, not going to get too excited here, but bear with me, kay? Last night, I decided to talk to Phyl about her withdrawals and pulling away. I wanted to try...7 years ago
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One Year as Me! - Dianne Piggott 10/30/2013 One year. Just one year. One entire year. All of one year. One circle of the Earth around the Sun. A year ago to...7 years ago
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Cumberbatch and his offense offence - Poor old Benny Cumberbatch…him and his big old posh, ex slave owning gob. Actually I feel for the bloke. Trying to do his best for British actors of colour...8 years ago
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Coming out on Facebook. - I have a relatively small number of friends on facebook, I keep it that way, I don’t add anyone I meet. Everyone on my friends list is actually my friend o...8 years ago
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New Hair … :) Trying different looks :) - So the new wig arrived… and figured a day off would be fitting to try it on :) Here are a few pics… Ya short and sweet post … :P Peace and Love! Tamara :)8 years ago
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Transgender Q&A - When it comes to the subject of transgender and the LGBT community, I think that there are three different types of people. The first (and the fastest gro...8 years ago
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I is for Identity Politics - Hello all. For my first post of 2015, I am going back to blogging through ye old alphabet. Today I is for identity politics. Identity politics are how i...8 years ago
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Leelah, and all the others who struggle - Happy New Year! I'm so sorry I don't update regularly! I have been off school for a couple weeks, so I have no good excuse, but I hope you all had a wonder...8 years ago
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A New Christmas with family - As anyone can expect the end of the year can bring surprises and lots of joy to one's heart and soul. This year is really an exception for Kay and I, as w...8 years ago
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On the other side! - It’s been a few days since I last posted on my blog, and for good reason. Thursday, 11th December 2014 I finally had the surgery I had been waiting so lon...8 years ago
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Saying goodbye - The time has come for me to say goodbye and put this blog to bed. I doubt anyone reads it anymore, but I’m the type of person who likes closure, so I gue...8 years ago
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Xmas 2014 - I thought I should drop a post in, and wish everyone a happy Xmas. If you should be reading this, and you are a Pagan like my son, or any of the non-christ...8 years ago
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11-18-2014 Entry: Pulling Back the Transgender Curtian - Two days from now will be Transgender Day of Remembrance, which I am sad to say that before this year, I knew nothing about. I just finished scrolling thro...8 years ago
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No Big Deal - My daughter started high school last month. The other night she told my wife and me that there's a transgender girl in her homeroom. During the summer ...8 years ago
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I finally legally exist! - On July 1st, 2014 it finally happened. The law that made it impossible for me and many others like me to change their gender on any official documents drop...8 years ago
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A Controversial Stance On The Word “Queer” - Controversial new video about the use of the word queer in the LGBT community.8 years ago
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8 Steps on How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Immediately - If you are trying to get your ex boyfriend back, but are fighting and get no results, then you should know this is a common thing that tons of girls go thr...8 years ago
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Pigtails - Last night as I was hugging Kegan good night, I started playing with her hair and realized her hair is at that almost long enough to put into a super short...8 years ago
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She Returns - Gee, that was a long time coming, wasn't it? I managed to survive from February to July at the Good Samaritan House at Westgate. This is a Christian-run fa...8 years ago
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The Maker of Noses - Like many of you, I enjoy music, and I look to it for inspiration and support. My taste in music is quite eclectic, ranging from hymns through jazz and roc...8 years ago
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July 18th 2014 - I know I haven't posted in a long time, things have just gotten crazy around here. We were finally able to get pregnant with our third, and recently found...8 years ago
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been proven wrong - I have had many people walk in and out of my life. And a lot of them have been anything but nice to me. Over the years most of my friend have turn against...8 years ago
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Tumor no more - On January 8, 2012 I was informed that the fight to live was over, I would not be getting my last Chemo treatment, all scans have no cancer traces in them ...8 years ago
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Vote for Sophia - I'm running in a mock election and I need your votes. You might be asking why I need your vote, and *how in the heck did I wind up in politics?* Well, my ...8 years ago
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Keepin’ On - When I was driving home from work this afternoon I started to think of this blog and its lack of updates. I think the general trend is that when I dress mo...8 years ago
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A Question - So, I've been doing this girl thing for a while now. It's good, but there is some weirdness... Has anyone else experienced this? [Bumps into a doorjam, or...8 years ago
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Day 105: Whiskey Aging… DONE! - So after nearly 3 and a half months it’s done! I ended up with a bottle and a half of sweet, dark whiskey. It’s amazingly easy to do. At this point, I’m ...8 years ago
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Here's a Little Something No One Told You - Milestones are things to be celebrated. In our culture we have only a few of them high school graduation, marriage, parenthood, (divorce), and death. Other...8 years ago
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Sweeping the Ashes - “Things change. And friends leave. Life doesn't stop for anybody.” “I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme...8 years ago
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Another new chapter - *or the next stop on the timeline...* *Anyway, as some of you may remember, in a galaxy, far, far..wait, wrong story.* *I married my other half 13 years a...8 years ago
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I'm coming out and I want the world to know... - As the weeks went by I've became more and more emboldened with my transition. I started buying more clothes, and started laser hair removal. On Christmas...8 years ago
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It has been too long since last I blogged - Yes, I know, more than two years have gone by, and some of you may be wondering if all is well. YES! Everything remains wonderful. We've now been happily m...8 years ago
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It's "her's" - I've been living as woman for two years now, two really good years. I was and still am one of the lucky few. I have gone through this transition without lo...8 years ago
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Paula Deen Quote - “I feel like ‘embattled’ or ‘disgraced’ will always follow my name. It’s like that black football player who recently came out. He said, ‘I just want to...8 years ago
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Link to my daughter’s blog post - Here’s something my daughter posted today… Hexydezimal A fallen angel returns. hexydezimal.wordpress.com Questions for the Transgender Community Happy bela...9 years ago
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Three Unwise Men - Yet another bawbag is frothing at the mouth. This latest cretinous oaf, a Russian actor of whom this reporter at least has never heard, says he would "stuff...9 years ago
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Hanging in, hanging out, hanging on - It has been a while since I have posted anything here. Up to this point, I have maintained this blog as a combination of sporadic articles, and the occasio...9 years ago
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I Dreamed a Dream in Times Gone By... - This past week has been especially difficult because of the second coming out of 'Marcy' Michael's female alter gender identity. My strife is entirely i...9 years ago
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Enough - Originally posted on Nuclear Unicorn: My approach to Cathy Brennan has long mirrored my approach to Ann Coulter; I generally refuse to dignify their delibe...9 years ago
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Ether Radio - Last Tuesday I took the day off work to run errands. Around 8:30 in the morning I was sitting in my boyfriend's car by a gas pump. Peter was inside colle...9 years ago
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Hatred, Transphobia & Twitter storms.. - I'm far from surprised that this has blown up like it has.. To be honest it was only a matter of time, Trans people put up with an awful lot, I don't want ...10 years ago
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Solace for the Soul - I made it back to Arizona safely. No cops, no sandstorms, and no video. I tried filming a quick vlog but was repulsed with the way I looked. With the rela...10 years ago
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The Wedding and the Beach House - It was a balmy June Saturday in Napa valley, California. The winery Heather’s cousin Rosalind had chosen for the wedding was beautifully placed amidst rol...10 years ago
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Retrospect - Spring 2011 - The Highs and Low of being a TGirl - Widemouth Bay, CornwallBy the spring of 2011 I felt that things were going quite well and that with my new image I was well on the well to achieving the g...10 years ago
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Queer Utopia - Up until last month, I hadn’t been abroad for years. Two trips to Crete, aged 13 and 14, and then I found myself in a desert. A travel one. As a student in...11 years ago
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A BLOG ON BLOGGER? OLDER POSTS FOUND BY LINK. - After a flat out hectic two months I am sitting here with no pressing commitments except perhaps to try and cure this terrible cough and sore throat. In th...13 years ago
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Reality TV - I was reassembling the bike last weekend with radio 4 on drip-feed and heard a piece about people who live a second life on the Internet. It appears that f...14 years ago
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