Vaginoplasty or labiaplasty?

If you want male partners, it makes sense to have the orifice. If you don’t, it is less clear to me. Then the orifice is part of your self-image as a woman. You would have a uterus transplant if you could, but given that you can’t at the moment you go as far as you can. So it’s about being genuine, being a real trans woman, rather than about what the alteration will accomplish. It is about ideas and not reality. It is all in your head.


Clare goes into explicit detail on the subject of vaginoplasty or labiaplasty.  Written from the point of view of someone who has had the surgery but also has second thoughts.