If your audience is inclined to be sympathetic with trans people, you
can claim to be too- but only in theory, never in practice. You do not
oppose the decent transsexuals, you say, the ones who want no trouble;
but you claim that any actual trans woman is not truly transsexual. You
say they have autogynephilia, and ignore the fact that theory is
discredited. You claim they have penises, though most trans women want
surgery. Insist that they are all men.
Sad, but pretty true. A good post, from Clare.
The People - Personal Thoughts
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So You Thought The Conservatives Are Only Going After Trans People
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The right-wing makes no difference between trans people and lesbians and
gays!
*Megyn Kelly launches vile personal attacks on lesbian firefighters
battlin...
44 minutes ago
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Defying the bad
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January is never the jolliest time of the year, let's face it, so I have
been planning and preparing for fun times ahead. In addition, today is
Friday 1...
1 hour ago
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A better place
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Hi, The end of the week and thank my lucky Big Girls pants, it’s Friday off
as well. Get in! 💃 Blue Monday – no, not the song – is behind us and it’s
the ...
6 hours ago
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Actually, Sarah McBride does have an agenda
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Congresswoman Sarah McBride
Story by Jesús Rodríguez
McBride, 34, was chipper about her new life as a Democratic congresswoman,
elected in November...
10 hours ago
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Marilyn
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This represents the final photoshoot I have removed from the blog. I have
done so because my evolution continues, and these have become dated. They
can a...
12 hours ago
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Quakers at Queer Spirit
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God danced at the Queer Spirit festival. I went there in mental torment. In
terror and trauma in childhood, that part of me that considers how to be
with o...
13 hours ago
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St Mary's, Charlcombe
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It was another icy morning. But the sun came out, and so, when I cycled
across to the Post Office in Larkhall, I decided on the spur of the moment
to go...
15 hours ago
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Got Holes In Your Head?
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*By Norah Blucher*
Do you have holes in your head? No? Me neither and it creates a fashion
dilemma for many of us.
JJ Atwell recently wrote about New Y...
15 hours ago
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A visit to the computer fixit shop and the bookstore
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Today was not the best of days, nor was it the worst of days. It was a day
where things didn't go right, and yet, not go completely wrong.
- - - - - ...
15 hours ago
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Brownsea Island - the voyage there, and my arrival
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Poole Harbour is a large expanse of sheltered water named after Poole, the
ferry port in East Dorset, close to Bournemouth the famous resort. It's
protecte...
22 hours ago
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national/world - Gang detained over transgender student stab attack
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Thomas Mackintosh
BBC
Harrow, London, UK
Credit:
*https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/3/3b/St_John_the_Baptist%2C_Sheepcote_Road%2C_Harrow_...
23 hours ago
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Foggy London Town
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A few times I have mentioned my aspiration to go to "something" at least
once a month, a concert I'm not playing in, an exhibition, a play ~ not
anythin...
1 day ago
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‘Facebook Memories: 16 Jan 2024 – Memes And Images: 16 Jan 2022’
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** ** I have no control over those ads that appear at this web-site. The
sponsored visual presentations are not mine. Thus, I am reluctant to post
pictur...
1 day ago
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Saturday and got a little Susan time late in the day after a busy morning
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It is Saturday January 11 and I have had a busy day. Yes lots of things I
needed to do on my male side. My blog is about my female side of my life
and yes ...
4 days ago
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Upcoming gigs in London and Leeds
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New year, new gigs! We have two headline shows coming up for wormboys. Come
and see us if you can! Thursday 23rd JanuaryThe Cavendish Arms, LondonWith
the ...
5 days ago
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I decided to create myself an account on Substack! I’m so done with social
media. Except you,…
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I decided to create myself an account on Substack! I’m so done with social
media. Except you, Tumblr. Tumblr, I love you.
But anyway, see you there!!
5 days ago
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Logical Deduction
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It's possible to deduce conclusions by observing facts. For example, you
can tell which of my neighbors tipped the garbage men for Christmas and
which d...
6 days ago
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Vorweihnachtsausflüge/Some walks before Christmas
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Hallo meine Lieben, willkommen in der zweiten Jännerwoche,
Hello dear visitors, welcome in second week of January
Translation button on the right side.
Sc...
1 week ago
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Weekend trip crossdressed: Journey by train to Düsseldorf
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I had comprehensively reported about Franziska’s previous three weekend
trips crossdressed. Please see my previous posting with the respective
links. The...
1 week ago
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January Seven, Two thousand twenty-five! I made someone's day brighter.
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Hi friends,
I'm here. I'm managing as well as possible and hope y'all are coping as
well as possible.
I encountered a nice person today. They were in my...
1 week ago
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A little manual assistance for some of that fat redistribution.
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One of the most hoped for aspect of changing one’s hormones is the effect
of fat redistribution. (Every time I write that word I want to insert a
letter A ...
1 week ago
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MMXXV
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Starting the 2025 entries. Is there a deadline for wishing a happy new
year? A bit light on posts last year so promising to write a bit more
should be a ea...
1 week ago
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Trans persists, but is not everything
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Yes, I am still here, 12 years on, older and wiser by a street. I ran out
of steam with the trans blog years ago. After all everything had already
been sai...
2 weeks ago
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Audio Advent Calendar: December 24
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‘Twas the night… Music credit: “Silent Night,” Kevin MacLeod
(incompetech.com)
3 weeks ago
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Solstice Scribblings
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As I type this, the sun has set on the shortest day of the year. This
entry will be a mish mash of bits I've written over the past few months,
some stuf...
3 weeks ago
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Year end message/thoughts for 2024
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It was another breakout year for visibility and progress. Another year of
firsts. Another year of steps. It’s that time of year again where I’m off
for fiv...
3 weeks ago
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Oh hell NO!
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The orange one is once again blathering about making Canada the 51st state.
He apparently stated on his Truth Social site for following: No one can
answer ...
4 weeks ago
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Commentary: The Cass Review revealed as a fraud... and a dangerous one.
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It seems to me that the widely discredited Cass Review has just been
revealed as even more dubious than before, as Hilary Cass went back on the
recommen...
4 weeks ago
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It's very hard
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It's a lot to take in, you know? I don't even live in the United States,
but I know what happens there soon happens here.
I don't intend to obey in advan...
1 month ago
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Into the Woods
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This was written for the storytelling group I belong to about my favourite
forest. I step out of the sunlight and into the dim cedar woods. Trees rise
up o...
2 months ago
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Is queer a slur?
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Many folks are aware of how "queer is a slur" discourse has been reanimated
by TERFs and is wandering around 2020s LGBTQA+ spaces with its arms
outstretche...
2 months ago
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Heartbroken
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These remarks reflect my personal position alone. They do not reflect the
position of AspirePress or anyone else. Today, I am heartbroken. I feel
many di...
2 months ago
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Mousies ate my boobs.
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The mice have been at my tits. Luckily I wasn't wearing them at the time (I
haven't had an opportunity to express my Susie side for months) or else it
mi...
2 months ago
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ARC Review: The Greatest Superpower
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I received a copy of The Greatest Superpower from the publisher via
Netgalley in exchange for an honest review. The Greatest Superpower by Alex
Sanchez is ...
3 months ago
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social Media Integration Test 001
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just working out the kinks. (All day and all of the night)
3 months ago
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[Philosophy] The Problem with ‘P’
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For some unknown reason my workload has gone off the charts. I mean, my
drab workload; since I got Covid the last time I’ve felt a bit ‘worn thin’,
if that...
3 months ago
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what media coverage of online "transvestigators" & the Imane Khelif ordeal
get wrong
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Hi everyone, I just published a brand new essay: *Why Does
"Transvestigation" Happen? On Gendering, Ungendering, and (Mis)Perceiving
Trans People*!
I h...
4 months ago
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Out and about in my pretty sandals...
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Out and about in my pretty sandals:
Mandy
6 months ago
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Lynn Conway: Trans Icon and Pioneer, 1938 – 2024
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I am very sad to hear that the trailblazer Lynn Conway has passed. She
invented things I don’t even understand, created one of the most ferocious
and usefu...
7 months ago
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Marking time…
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Well it had to happen at some point: I’ve run out of things to say again!
Way back in the earliest days of this blog, I mentioned that I’d been too
busy do...
11 months ago
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AI Image Generation
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It’s a strange world that we live in. Now that generative AI is so
commonplace, it’s reasonable to start distrusting everything that you see
and read. Th...
1 year ago
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Fast Forward
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I have not blogged in three years. This blog post is a short one to say
that I'm still around. I had pulled down all of my blog posts a year or
two ago...
1 year ago
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Tennis Anyone?
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Image Courtesy Renith R
on UnSplash
Years ago I felt the need to attempt to copy many of the most popular
feminine mannerisms and/or activities I could f...
1 year ago
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Kind of Curiosity
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“I’ve got to get stuff from the garage and the boots so we can clear the
table” I heard him say from behind the garden fence.“Oh, that’s ok. Go sort
it out...
1 year ago
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A Year Later
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I guess it's time. No time like the present, they say.
A year ago today, I experienced my last real feminine day. I wrote about it
in Wednesday on Saturd...
1 year ago
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New & Improved!
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Kandi’s Land has been significantly upgraded. Check it out!
1 year ago
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ferm living glas
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*Glass & Mirrors – ferm LIVING*. WebGlass & Mirrors. We use a broad range
of types of glass in our collection. We use soda lime glass for glass
tablewar...
2 years ago
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That Letter To My Wife
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Thanks for the mail I received from my last blog. It’s amazing how up
lifting your messages of support are to me. THEY DO MAKE A DIFFERENCE.
Thank you. ...
2 years ago
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My New Novel Disgusta is Here!
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*Available now in print and electronic formats!*
2 years ago
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Thanksgiving
-
Trigger warning! This post speaks bluntly about my grandchildren getting
hurt in an accident. It is not happy and uplifting. If you have horrible
me...
2 years ago
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Space Elevator
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The white body I wear is mine, but ill-fitting and not me. A phantom body
that is also mine and is me rides within like a ghost, teasing my brain
with each...
2 years ago
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...and then some time passed
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Hard to believe that its been 7 years since my last posting. I've been
busy.
Since I last posted, several positive events have happened with a multitud...
2 years ago
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Matt Walsh & Piers Morgan You Ain’t Trans Experts So Shut The Fuck Up!
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With the increasing inevitably of armed conflict in Ukraine, I’m sure
there’ll be an increasing frequency of barstool generals in Wetherspoons
pubs across ...
2 years ago
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Stars. Needles. Poop. Plates. Wishes.
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Aside from (very) occasionally checking my horoscope, I am not big into
astrology. That being said, however, I do kinda believe in it and its
impact on us...
3 years ago
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Breasts are Awesome
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A talk about my shiny new cheat assets. Breasts I'm talking about my
breasts.
3 years ago
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I’ve moved the blog!
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Continue to https://schrodingerswardrobe.blogspot.com/ for further
infrequent ramblings!
3 years ago
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What is “Hate Crime”?
-
You have a few options if you live in Fife and need to report a hate crime.
You can report the incident directly to Police Scotland at Police Scotland
Onli...
3 years ago
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Jenna’s Journal - September 2021
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Normal 0 false false false false EN-GB X-NONE X-NONE
3 years ago
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Farewell
-
I’ve been thinking hard about ending this blog and have decided it’s time.
When I first started this it was to leave testament of my coming out and
transit...
3 years ago
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One Year
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Yes, I've been on a one year sort of hiatus. Nothing big happened but just
got wrapped up in things. Will try and post more and start up again. No
chang...
3 years ago
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On exceptionalism
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*The exceptional Jennifer Lawrence*
Sometimes I hold my hands out, palm upwards, in the manner of a
Pentecostalist awaiting the descent of the Holy Spirit...
4 years ago
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My Best Sex Ever Was With a Trans Woman
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Why Being Intimate with Your Transgender Lover Could Be the Best Experience
of Your Life Sexual encounters can happen in different ways and between
people ...
4 years ago
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Whinge with mother
-
Mick Jagger and his merry men called them ‘Mothers little helpers’. Sadly,
I am not a mother. Antidepressants I’m referring to. I have been popping
these f...
4 years ago
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Posting from the front
-
Now that my dad has passed, things have started to settle down to a new
normal. My brother and I have been talking more often, and XGFJ no longer
posts ...
4 years ago
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Review: Anna Secret Poet-No Brainer
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The Tempohouse Anna Album Review Thank you so much to Lorna Irvine of The
Tempohouse for this lovely review of my forthcoming album! You can also
check out...
4 years ago
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Thought for the day
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To all my trans readers, if someone tries to break your butterfly wings,
fly away from them. If, despite your efforts they succeed, summon up all
your st...
4 years ago
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Elie Wiesel’s The Night Trilogy
-
About a year ago, a friend of mine took me to the Amarillo Pubic Library,
where they had basement full of books they were giving away to members of
the lib...
4 years ago
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Cassi-DJ: Featuring My Nephew C!
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Hello all - hope you're having a good winter so far and are doing well.
I meant to write about this last week, but I was under the weather nearly
the entir...
4 years ago
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My Personal Views on Trans Rights Issues
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So, it’s been a while since I last posted here. Rather than give a full
update on my life, the purpose of this post is to express my views on
various trans...
4 years ago
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A sassy Valentine and my love for Mister Rogers.
-
No glitter, plastic gems or sparkly rhinestones decorated the valentine I
gave my kid Harry this year. I’m usually drawn to cards with the same items
Har...
4 years ago
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Sissy.
-
“male femme” — my blog title says.
“genderqueer femme” — my profile says.
“non-binary femme” — Jam Rostron says.
“sissy femme” — Jacob Tobia says.
Actually:...
4 years ago
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Transitions: From My Heart to Yours
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On this day, seven years ago my world changed. I learned a new word;
transgender became part of my vocabulary. Along with that I learned about
the differen...
4 years ago
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Crossing the line in a blaze of glory
-
Recently I was reading some spiritual insight and advice in which there was
a sort of breakdown of the inception and progression of a sin from fleeting
tho...
4 years ago
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The Quads of Hope
-
2020 has come. It arrived in the usual way on January 1 for most of the
world that follows the Gregorian calendar, some 13 days later in the Old
Style Ju...
4 years ago
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New Year, Same Stef?
-
I know it’s a bit belated, but Happy New Year! It’s finally 2020 and all I
can say is where the hell did all the time go? Didn’t Y2K just happen? When
did ...
5 years ago
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The best laid plans of mice and transwomen
-
It has been a while since my last blog entry and until recently I didn’t
have anything really worth talking about, or at least nothing that I was
motivated...
5 years ago
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An Important Little Date
-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=https://youtu.be/ksGE4cqRzPM Six years ago
to the exact day I took my first steps into the world of employment as a
female. ...
5 years ago
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Holding on
-
“Is she going to die?” I ask the firefighter. It’s been 20 minutes
since I’ve dialed 911, my wife is lying collapsed on the living room floor
of our r...
5 years ago
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Merry Christmas to all
-
Wishing you all a very merry Christmas. ❤️ ✌️ BY FOR NOW
5 years ago
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Time to Upgrade
-
November 5th, 2010 - I began this blog. When I started out, I did what
many bloggers do, I headed to Blogger.com. It is a nice friendly platform
"back e...
5 years ago
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Advocacy for men presenting as men in dresses
-
This is terrific. Of course the mainstream public will write it off as
sensationalism and not take it seriously, but I’m glad of any positive
commentary on...
5 years ago
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The Power of Music
-
It’s incredible to me how a song can really change your mood or spark an
idea. I have this weird quirk where I often remember the first time I
heard a son...
5 years ago
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I'm not even counting any more...
-
Err... Right... You're not supposed to appologise when you have a massive
gap between posts are you?
Well, sorry...
The last 2 years have been a roller co...
5 years ago
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November 2019 - Life on hold for now!
-
Currently life is on hold due to ongoing health issue which will sadly not
go away. Mentioned in my previous entry about an ongoing ‘virus’ which I
had fo...
5 years ago
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Bno
-
My suit case for the weekend was so big it was the only thing that would
fit in the boot. Mrs Sox's rather small case had to go on the back seat.
For weeke...
5 years ago
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The Three Little Pigs Reimagined
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For a school project, CJ had to design a set for a production of The Three
Little Pigs. CJ being CJ, he insisted on reimagining the classic story and
makin...
5 years ago
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Transferring to a new Blog
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Due to circumstances beyond my control, I am forced to close down this blog
and open up a new one. Please visit my new blog, "Dotting I's and Crossing
T...
5 years ago
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September’s Blog
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Hi folks and followers, It’s been forever since I’ve posted anything new
but it really hasn’t been that much to report. I’ve decided to do a monthly
post...
5 years ago
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Mouse Hunt
-
Still shaking off the rust:
If you have delved at all into the first four or five years of posts here
(and why haven't you?!), you know that my wife's re...
5 years ago
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My take on 2019 St. John's Pride
-
Well, I stayed away from the Pride Parade in St. John's for 6 years in a
row now. it's unfortunate that I don't feel welcome or comfortable to
attend with ...
5 years ago
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Perfect Scores Masking Critical Inadequacies and Failures in Trans Wellness
-
I had a routine follow-up visit with my surgeon earlier this week to assess
healing from my procedure 3 weeks ago. The good news is that the
discomfort is...
5 years ago
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Where is our trans history?
-
...it is an historical record of erasure, a pan-global register of undoing
and enforced forgetting.
5 years ago
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Book Launch – Transgressive: A Trans Woman on Gender, Feminism, and Politics
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“Taking unerring aim at the patriarchal transphobia that saturates our
lives, Williams’ piercing insights and vivid personal accounts capture the
heartbr...
5 years ago
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Stonewall’s radical history
-
After the Noho Pride parade on Saturday, May 4th, join me in the Tri-County
Fairgrounds to hear the radical, true story of Stonewall. Continue reading →
5 years ago
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DRAB = Dressed As A Boy
-
It's been kind of an up and down time for me, so about time for an
update....starting with my time with the Gems.
Eleven years ago, I joined a new trans...
5 years ago
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April 2019 - An update
-
We are third of the way into the year and only my second blog entry! That
tells a story in itself I suppose and basically means it has been quiet for
me. ...
5 years ago
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12 Week-Recovery, 12-Month Relapse… & Uncelebrated Anniversaries
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About 13 months ago I wrote a euphoric post about my gender reassignment
surgery. I do remain extremely pleased about the physical result, it looks
like it...
5 years ago
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Trans Radio UK first birthday
-
Friday 22nd February 2019 was Trans Radio UK’s 1st birthday. We had come
such a long way from all the ideas and planning of a radio station to those
firs...
5 years ago
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Sometimes
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Sometimes I look in the mirror To make sure I’m still there I trace the
scars That I made Five … More
5 years ago
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Risk to human rights after Brexit?
-
This recent article from the Guardian gave me some cause for thought
https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2019/feb/13/post-brexit-trade-partners-ask-uk-to-l...
5 years ago
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OBSESSION by Kelli
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First thing first, I'm not talking about the perfume. I'm talking about
our little ol' minds taking in something, not being able to forget it, and
const...
5 years ago
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I’m Devastated
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⌈Trigger Warning; language, female body functions, eating disorder, self
harm, mention of suicide⌋ When I started testosterone my period stopped
instantly....
5 years ago
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Makeup Removal
-
I have lost count of all the different things I have tried or used to
remove makeup quickly and efficiently. The past couple of years I have
been using ma...
6 years ago
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Progress, slowly slowly.
-
So things seem now to be heading in a scary but ultimately more positive
direction for me at last. After a recent discussion with my wife she now
seems to ...
6 years ago
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Twilight Zone: Nails III - Press on Nails - Part One
-
irst up nothing has changed on my own nail front since last time. I’ve put
in a few hardening cycles which seems to work. This is due to having a
combina...
6 years ago
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Today's Fashion Inspiration
-
One of my favourite colour combinations is red, black and gold and so when
I happened to be looking at pencil skirts online last year I came across
Alan...
6 years ago
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Cancer is stalking me
-
It’s taken me all week to process this, and share this news. A few days
ago, on my mother’s birthday, I got the results of a genetic test following
my annu...
6 years ago
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Turns Out I Was Right
-
Seems the setbacks I deemed minor actually were minor. I’m down 1.2 lbs
from yesterday, and right back on track with where I was two days ago. I
could se...
6 years ago
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May You Find Peace
-
I have made peace with myself, and can no longer in good faith leave or
recommend the content I once posted here. Those writings were my best
desperate ho...
6 years ago
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It’s been awhile
-
Warning: this post is different. It talks about things that may make some
readers uncomfortable – especially ones that know me personally and in
parts it ...
6 years ago
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Processions 2018 - Why Trans Sisters Need to March Alongside Their Sisters
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My Partner and I at Processions 2018 - Credit: Tina Williams I am my
grandmother’s granddaughter. She fought for my right to vote and I wanted
to honour th...
6 years ago
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Panties – A Special Pleasure
-
In our recent poll on lingerie that trans girls and crossdressers prefer,
panties tied for first place with 25% of the vote. I don’t profess to
having th...
6 years ago
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‘She Said’ a universal, personal wive’s tale
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The thing that most surprises me and never surprises me at all is how other
“wife of” stories are not at all like my story and totally like my story.
Yep, ...
6 years ago
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Profile: Amy
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You can call me… Amy I identify as… Genderqueer/genderfluid I’m not sure??
As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them or she/her I’m attracted
to… Guy...
6 years ago
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MAGA?
-
So far – as of 1/31/18 January 18, 2018: The Department of Health and Human
Services’ Office of Civil Rights opened a “Conscience and Religious Freedom
Div...
6 years ago
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almost daily report from DOXA 2018... indolent Spinster variety.
-
Here is my report i meant to do yesterday (well i filmed it yesterday after
seeing the movie, but went to work right after, then kitty cat took up my
a...
6 years ago
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Finale
-
Unfortunately, I am finding that this blog and my life is being used far
too often as a political football to promote various agendas and the actual
messag...
6 years ago
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Finale
-
Unfortunately, I am finding that this blog and my life is being used far
too often as a political football to promote various agendas and the actual
messag...
6 years ago
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Interesting Article on CNN - Why girls can be boyish but boys can't be
girlish
-
One topic that I find fascination is the idea of shifting gender
stereotypes and how people, particularly "men" who enjoy trandtionally
"female" things, ar...
6 years ago
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Futanari Convent Book 1 & 2
-
When I was preparing to notify the world about my latest book
I came across two reviews that I hadn’t read. Surprised me. I thought
Amazon wa...
6 years ago
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Love the kid you've got, not the one you wish you had
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Parents of LGBTQ kids, or any kids, even young adult kids,
I ask you to listen; to read and to consider:
In recent months, I've had the fortune and misfor...
6 years ago
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one more cup of coffee
-
TW The hustle for work continues, which is discouraging but necessary. I’m
having relationship issues, as all anyone wants to do is date. Decided
that’s ...
6 years ago
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This Week's Calogrenant
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A Change of Venue
calogrenant.com
6 years ago
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Day 1,245: Moments Frozen in Time
-
I have to admit, we had a pretty good run here at So There’s That. 21
podcast episodes and 32 blog posts over the course of a year. And a little
bit of n...
6 years ago
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Flying solo in Las Vegas – Part I
-
I have had a great last 10 days. I have been on three wonderful outings in
which I did things that I have wanted to for a long time but never either
the c...
6 years ago
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Stuff people say when hearing about someone coming out…
-
Whether they believe the things they say themselves is questionable, but
I think the majority of time people tend to jump to conclusions because
they’re ...
7 years ago
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Its been a while...
-
I’m not really even expecting that anyone will remember me and read this,
but I did think that it was about time my long neglected blog got dusted
off and ...
7 years ago
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It is time I shared my heart...my mind and a little bit of my soul
-
**update**This was written in the middle of the entire experience. We are
now settling into the changes but I wanted to share my emotions, my hurts
and m...
7 years ago
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Why there’re no posts ?
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Hi, I decided to take out all my posts from here as it seemed to have given
some people more insight into my life than they should ever have. I seem to
hav...
7 years ago
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Excuse our dust, but we have moved!
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I have moved my blog over to a dedicated hosting provider, and we have
successfully migrated over to the WordPress platform. We have our own
domain name, a...
7 years ago
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The Familial Revelation
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When it comes to family, I think we can all agree that it is never easy and
in a word, complicated. I have spent the last few months letting family
know ...
7 years ago
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On the Pride Center of the Capital Region, terfs, and Why Martha Harvey
Needs to Resign
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CW: lots of swears, lots of terfs (A quick aside on the word terf because
I’m going to use it about a thousand times. It’s not a slur. Here’s a
doctor tell...
7 years ago
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My friend's Rainbow Journey
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I recently met someone from Japan, one who I now consider to be my friend,
who is traveling around the world talking to Transgender folk and sharing
their ...
7 years ago
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What was said. What I’d have loved to have said. In Two Parts.
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What was Said. Part 1 *Mrs. Bellejambes* celebrated a birthday recently.
Some of the things I picked up for her were not perfect, and one was a
complete r...
7 years ago
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I'm Not Myself
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I've been calling myself Genderfluid for just over a year now, at the time
it seemed to describe the ever changing nature of how I felt about myself
and my...
7 years ago
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That’s all folks……….
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Between 1955 and 1959, 143 episodes of “The Adventures of Robin Hood”
emerged from a tiny studio in Walton on Thames and burst onto black and
white telli...
7 years ago
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That’s all folks……….
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Between 1955 and 1959, 143 episodes of “The Adventures of Robin Hood”
emerged from a tiny studio in Walton on Thames and burst onto black and
white telli...
7 years ago
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Thoughts on Pride Month
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Growing up is never easy, but the difficulty is compounded when one is
an LGBT youth. Born a boy, I longed desperately to be female. I knew who
I w...
7 years ago
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With Purpose
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The title of this post really highlights the way I’ve felt the last several
months and the experiences I’ve had the chance to take in. Since my last
updat...
7 years ago
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Trans Twitter Gives Bad Dating Advice
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Trans Twitter Gives Bad Dating Advice — “You have much gold upon your
head,” They answer’d all together: “Buy from us with a golden curl.” —
Christina Ro...
7 years ago
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Fracas
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So, today after an awesome meeting with a group I will be working with for
a time I went to the store. At said store there was a huge line but we were
all ...
7 years ago
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Well…didn’t see this Coming.
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The following posts were made to my male Facebook profile. I finally came
to terms with it enough to [ost it here. I was trying to let this [profile
remain...
7 years ago
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We Need A “Standards of Care” for Detransitioners
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One of my biggest takeaways from attending the recent USPATH conference is
that many clinicians and other providers sincerely want more information on
unde...
7 years ago
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Carpe diem, seize the day
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At the funeral of one of our Transmatters friends two weeks ago I reflected
how fortunate we are to have attended very few funerals, though as we - and
fri...
7 years ago
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Dog People, Cat People, Nonbinary People (AKA The Draft For My Facebook
Coming Out)
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If you ask whether someone is a Dog Person or a Cat Person, most people
don’t have to think twice. They’ll immediately reply with which pet they
prefer, an...
7 years ago
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Why I'm so passionate about the issues of others.
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*It's been 2.5 years since I've posted. I said I would post if I had
something to say and today, I do. Please note the experience I write about
does not in...
7 years ago
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Are You Going To The Women’s March?
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For me, that is an easier question to answer than, “Are you a woman?” or
“What are you going as?” Yes. Donna and I will be going to the NYC Women’s
March o...
8 years ago
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Was only a reader, till now
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Me thinks it is time to write something. I’ve been reading T-Central for
almost 7 years now. I have much …
Continue reading →
8 years ago
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When my night collides with my day
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My night will collide with morning, probably without the benefit of
sleep. Too many demons this time. They just smiled, and kept on coming.
This just f...
8 years ago
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New Year, big changes.
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*Happy **New** Year!*
I begin the new year letting go of some important things. First up is the
pseudonym I have used for years. ‘Haust’ is gone, ...
8 years ago
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Yuletide greetings.
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*Soon be nobody left now that Leonard Cohen is gone too... Someone else who
had to deal with depression and his music soothed my troubled soul. Just
sad to...
8 years ago
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Dream Myself Awake
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I don't usually wake up startled in the middle of the night, sit up in my
bed in the stillness of a dark room and wonder why my heart is racing and
my ski...
8 years ago
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Week 85:Top Surgery Update:The collage above starts at 8 days...
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*Week 85:*
*Top Surgery Update:*
The collage above starts at 8 days post-op (image bottom left) and then
clockwise shows my chest at 10 ...
8 years ago
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Heroes and Hope
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It’s times like these that make me feel the most hopeless. I haven’t always
been good at dealing with feelings like this. But when the future looks
bleak, ...
8 years ago
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More education and awareness
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“Police records show there has been a significant rise in the number of
transgender hate crimes over the last four years - from 361 attacks in the
year en...
8 years ago
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I am able to talk again
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I am back on deck and I think more in control of myself than I have been
for quite some time. Will be making more additions to this blog as I go
along. The...
8 years ago
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Ringing the changes part 2
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So, my first post about how I changed my name with various organisations
was starting to get a bit long, so this is a continuation. The first can
be seen ...
8 years ago
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The cultivation corner...Marijuana master cultivation tip #1
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So you want to grow good marijuana? Don't we all!
First thing you need is some clones or some seeds. (I sell seeds. Shameless
self promotion.)
Now before yo...
8 years ago
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the thursday lunch run to Popik's Place - thur. sept 15th, 2016
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me at the local hot dog stand last thur sept 15th called "Popiks Place" on
Terrill rd. in Scotch Plains NJ
Steve Popik sells only the best quality ...
8 years ago
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My response to a post by Tyler Charles Austen
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Dear Mr Austen, On 26th August 2016, you made a post on your eponymous
blog (that means you named it after yourself) called “I Can’t Believe I’m
Saying Th...
8 years ago
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Last Post
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So this is it. The last post I’ll make here (for the foreseeable future
anyway). I’ve moved my fitness adventures over to
http://transtriathlete.com and I’...
8 years ago
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Second Contribution-Pre Dallas Trip
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Hi again.
I hope your day has gone nicely so far.
After my creation of this blog early on Tuesday morning, I felt it best to
dump a bit more crap on the ...
8 years ago
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This is goodbye (A happy one)
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This is going to be my last post on It’s ok to be a glow stick. I am sad to
be saying goodbye but my life has changed dramatically and sadly, there is
no r...
8 years ago
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Identity Crisis
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I have lost my identity.
I'm not sure if I'm still mom, wife, daughter or 911 dispatcher.
If I'm not any of the above, then who am I besides lost?
8 years ago
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Goodbye
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It's been a couple of months since I last posted, despite my desire to do
an A-Z on the issues I find important. My absence was caused by many
things, but...
8 years ago
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Progress report: changes and measurements month 21
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https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1wb8kGWWGmt3HJpo_7PUiBviFdWlOzBoNlvJnJbSr2jE/edit?usp=sharing
Click on the tab ‘year 2’ for the data. Changes Boobs g...
8 years ago
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Texas Transgender Nondiscrimination Summit in Killeen July 29-30
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So yeah. Tough year. And that's why I'm about to say something I've never
said before: I'm really excited to be going to Killeen this weekend. That's
right...
8 years ago
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My Return and First Time Out… again
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I’ve been trying to collect my thoughts the last few days. They have been
a jumble of emotions, mostly good. I haven’t felt this way in a long time
and f...
8 years ago
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Terrorism and the Violence of Otherness: Response to the Orlando Pulse
Massacre
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TW: Orlando Massacre, violence * ** *** **** ***** In the early hours of
Sunday, June 12, 2016, just after last call, a gunman entered the Pulse
Nightclub ...
8 years ago
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These Recent Events
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Hello, my amazing readers.
I don't have much to report personally, except to say that Natasha is
scared. She's not exactly letting it run her life. Because...
8 years ago
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Trans Proud.
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For along time in my life I didn't come out as a trans woman. Mostly due to
fear. Fear of how those close to me would react. Fear of backlash from the
comm...
8 years ago
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Honestly Geraldine, why do you need to crossdress?
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This is the very tentative first step by a somewhat bewildered ordinary man
who discovered that at sixty years of age, I needed to crossdress. I hope
to de...
8 years ago
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The First Mothers’ Day
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If last year we celebrated the last Father’s Day, this year we introduced
the first Mothers’ Day. And yes, the apostrophe is in the right place. I
admit to...
8 years ago
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An Update
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Hi, everyone. I know, I know, I promised to start blogging again. And
that was a hell of a long time ago. I just found myself far too busy, and
far too ...
8 years ago
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People who influence your life
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I haven't posted to this blog in a very long time, but there really isn't
much in the way of my spouse's transition or my own feelings about it to
report ...
8 years ago
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Feeling Positive Again :)
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I had been feeling really down about things over the last few months and I
know that my recent posts on here haven’t been very positive about my
situation....
8 years ago
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To be or not to be – gay?
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After a nudge from my most patient follower, I thought I’d pen something I
have been thinking about posting for a while. Nicci has been on a long
journey a...
8 years ago
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To be or not to be – gay?
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After a nudge from my most patient follower, I thought I’d pen something I
have been thinking about posting for a while. Nicci has been on a long
journey a...
8 years ago
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My 100th post…
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This is my 100th post. I was hoping to make it a special one with a
description of another outing as Valerie, in my new modern “blending”
outfit. Unfortuna...
8 years ago
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A Sad Day in North Carolina
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North Carolina is a strange State and a great State (most of the time).
Today, it is a sad State. I have many fond childhood memories of summers
there wh...
8 years ago
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Clue
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This was a test. This was the ultimate test.
To have brought a humble being out of the woods, out of the swamp, out of
the wild
And plop it into her life a...
8 years ago
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Not sure what to say..
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I am not sure what to do, or what to say, depression is my only constant
“friend”, with me all the time, someone I hate, yet never hates me back.
Medical m...
8 years ago
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Back to the Stone Age.
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I think the song is fitting, It is not mine, the opinions on this page are
mine. In posting this video, I am in no way saying that this group believes
as I...
8 years ago
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Come Up to the Lab: My Gender Workshop
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Ever since Time Magazine proclaimed a “Transgender Tipping Point” a year
and a half ago, I’ve been exploring trans identities and expressions that
aren’t i...
8 years ago
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Time to myself
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Recently I have been lucky to have a few evenings to myself to let Jenny
out of the wardrobe. Most of these occasions have been just in my room as
usual, ...
9 years ago
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Being a Gender Critical woman born trans is a very lonely place to be
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My understanding of gender critical theory is limited.
There's no reference text anywhere explaining it, and questioning GC
theorists on their own turf nev...
9 years ago
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RUMBLED. BUT IT TURNS OUT TO THE GOOD
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As per usual on a Wed evening I make my way to the Butterfly Club support
premises to get my self ready to face the world. Nothing new in that. And
as per ...
9 years ago
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Got A Little Beautified…
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Not much here, but I went out for a bit of a day, treated by a couple of
friends, and had my brows waxed and got my hair done. Here’s the results.
I s...
9 years ago
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Paranoid Locker Room Fantasies (mostly about naked Trans bodies)
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Remember the 80’s sex comedy? This is where men learned what girls did in
the locker room (or conversely where women learned what men fantasized
about what...
9 years ago
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While I Am Away...
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So....
I have been away...yup. Not news. Been busy. Plus, not much to write about
really, I've just submerged into 'normal' Nairobi life, with a few bumps ...
9 years ago
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Coming soon
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[image: Coming soon]
9 years ago
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Become a girl
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[image: Become a girl]
9 years ago
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A SHORT VID
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9 years ago
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Stronger
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So I think it is safe to say that Keira is getting stronger or at the very
least more prevalent. I’ve been getting more confident doing certain
things, I k...
9 years ago
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Stronger
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So I think it is safe to say that Keira is getting stronger or at the very
least more prevalent. I’ve been getting more confident doing certain
things, I k...
9 years ago
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5 months in
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*Continued**, from April 5th 2015*
5 months since the hospital I still don't know much about it.
Dissociative Identity Disorder.
My amnesia isn't just ha...
9 years ago
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Through The Looking Glass
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I’m not sure exactly when it happened, but it did. That is, I stopped
considering myself “transitioning.” What does that mean, exactly? Am I
where I want t...
9 years ago
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Can you Rewrite History & Eliminate Hate?
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I read about an attempt to remove another civil war memorial. I shook my
head. It’s obviously an over-reaction to the recent attacks on churches.
With tha...
9 years ago
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Transition Is A Banquet
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Transition is not a one-way street, or a bowling lane with the bumpers up.
Transition is not a recipe with precise measurements, or a fixed
curriculum, or ...
9 years ago
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It’s Inherent
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The frequency and unexpectedness with which being transgendered asserts
itself is ever a source of amazement. Regardless of how deeply in
background one ma...
9 years ago
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The Biggest Changes Come in the Smallest Packages
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I know my posts have been lacking for the past year but I have done a lot
of soul-searching and cleanup around my home and in my life to prepare
myself to ...
9 years ago
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Telling a Friend
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I recently told a friend about Amy. I didn't go into many details or show
him pictures or anything, but it felt good to talk about and get a positive
reac...
9 years ago
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The world keeps on turning.
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So I guess it’s time to get back into this blog of mine. I mean I’ve been
gone for so long and really it’s just time to start again. Since my last
real b...
9 years ago
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Why Bruce Jenner, Andreja Pejic and other Trans Celebrities Still Don’t
Matter
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Recently there have been a number of celebrities that have come out to
announce that they define as transgender. For some of them it wasn’t a
shocker, for ...
9 years ago
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End game...
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So things didn't get better...I slipped further and last Tuesday I went to
my scheduled appointment...when she saw me the choices were go home for a
matter...
9 years ago
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Commenters and deep thoughts
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I would like to start by apologizing for the long break between posts. A
little thing called life intervenes and my writing suffers. Family, health,
work, ...
9 years ago
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Visibility
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i am a transman. I chose to medically transition so now I am on the other
side of the binary. Being visible for me now means continuing to advocate
for fr...
9 years ago
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Early attempts to deal with my feminine feelings (chapter 2 of my book, My
Transvestite Addictions)
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I began feeling like I wanted to be a girl when I was 10. All these years
later, it’s hard to explain why. It was just like a feeling and knowledge
that c...
9 years ago
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Shutting down
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I've decided that I am not, after all, the blogging type.
I never managed it in my other identity either, so I don't know why I
should be surprised.
So,...
9 years ago
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Dangerous Situation
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***** This post might be triggering ***** Something really scary happened
last evening. I was standing outside with a friend (who is also homeless
and we u...
9 years ago
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One Year as Me!
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Dianne Piggott
10/30/2013
One year. Just one year. One entire year. All of one year. One circle of
the Earth around the Sun.
A year ago t...
9 years ago
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Cumberbatch and his offense offence
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Poor old Benny Cumberbatch…him and his big old posh, ex slave owning gob.
Actually I feel for the bloke. Trying to do his best for British actors of
colour...
9 years ago
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Coming out on Facebook.
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I have a relatively small number of friends on facebook, I keep it that
way, I don’t add anyone I meet. Everyone on my friends list is actually my
friend o...
9 years ago
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New Hair … :) Trying different looks :)
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So the new wig arrived… and figured a day off would be fitting to try it on
:) Here are a few pics… Ya short and sweet post … :P Peace and Love!
Tamara :)
10 years ago
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Transgender Q&A
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When it comes to the subject of transgender and the LGBT community, I think
that there are three different types of people. The first (and the fastest
gro...
10 years ago
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Saying goodbye
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The time has come for me to say goodbye and put this blog to bed. I doubt
anyone reads it anymore, but I’m the type of person who likes closure, so I
gue...
10 years ago
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Xmas 2014
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I thought I should drop a post in, and wish everyone a happy Xmas.
If you should be reading this, and you are a Pagan like my son, or any of
the non-christ...
10 years ago
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11-18-2014 Entry: Pulling Back the Transgender Curtian
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Two days from now will be Transgender Day of Remembrance, which I am sad to
say that before this year, I knew nothing about. I just finished scrolling
thro...
10 years ago
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I finally legally exist!
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On July 1st, 2014 it finally happened. The law that made it impossible for
me and many others like me to change their gender on any official documents
drop...
10 years ago
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8 Steps on How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Immediately
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If you are trying to get your ex boyfriend back, but are fighting and get
no results, then you should know this is a common thing that tons of girls
go thr...
10 years ago
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Pigtails
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Last night as I was hugging Kegan good night, I started playing with her
hair and realized her hair is at that almost long enough to put into a
super short...
10 years ago
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The Maker of Noses
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Like many of you, I enjoy music, and I look to it for inspiration and
support. My taste in music is quite eclectic, ranging from hymns through
jazz and roc...
10 years ago
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Tumor no more
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On January 8, 2012 I was informed that the fight to live was over, I would
not be getting my last Chemo treatment, all scans have no cancer traces in
them ...
10 years ago
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*I think it is time to completely let my fears of letting those who know me
in my life, but may not know 'me' now because I did what I needed to do for
my ...
10 years ago
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Keepin’ On
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When I was driving home from work this afternoon I started to think of this
blog and its lack of updates. I think the general trend is that when I
dress mo...
10 years ago
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A Question
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So, I've been doing this girl thing for a while now.
It's good, but there is some weirdness...
Has anyone else experienced this?
[Bumps into a doorjam, o...
10 years ago
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Sweeping the Ashes
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“Things change. And friends leave. Life doesn't stop for anybody.”
“I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems
don't rhyme...
10 years ago
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Another new chapter
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*or the next stop on the timeline...*
*Anyway, as some of you may remember, in a galaxy, far, far..wait, wrong
story.*
*I married my other half 13 years a...
10 years ago
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I'm coming out and I want the world to know...
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As the weeks went by I've became more and more emboldened with my
transition. I started buying more clothes, and started laser hair removal.
On Christmas...
10 years ago
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It's "her's"
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I've been living as woman for two years now, two really good years. I was
and still am one of the lucky few. I have gone through this transition
without lo...
10 years ago
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Paula Deen Quote
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“I feel like ‘embattled’ or ‘disgraced’ will always follow my name. It’s
like that black football player who recently came out. He said, ‘I just
want to...
10 years ago
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Link to my daughter’s blog post
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Here’s something my daughter posted today… Hexydezimal A fallen angel
returns. hexydezimal.wordpress.com Questions for the Transgender Community
Happy bela...
11 years ago
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I Dreamed a Dream in Times Gone By...
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This past week has been especially difficult because of the second coming
out of 'Marcy' Michael's female alter gender identity. My strife is
entirely i...
11 years ago
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Ether Radio
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Last Tuesday I took the day off work to run errands. Around 8:30 in the
morning I was sitting in my boyfriend's car by a gas pump. Peter was
inside colle...
11 years ago
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Hatred, Transphobia & Twitter storms..
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I'm far from surprised that this has blown up like it has.. To be honest it
was only a matter of time, Trans people put up with an awful lot, I don't
want ...
12 years ago
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The Wedding and the Beach House
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It was a balmy June Saturday in Napa valley, California. The winery
Heather’s cousin Rosalind had chosen for the wedding was beautifully placed
amidst rol...
12 years ago
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Retrospect - Spring 2011 - The Highs and Low of being a TGirl
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Widemouth Bay, CornwallBy the spring of 2011 I felt that things were going
quite well and that with my new image I was well on the well to achieving
the g...
12 years ago
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I suppose an introduction is in order...
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I'm a woman living on the Left coast of America with a very much
appreciated spouse of over a decade and a half. We can usually be found
co-living our lif...
13 years ago
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A BLOG ON BLOGGER? OLDER POSTS FOUND BY LINK.
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After a flat out hectic two months I am sitting here with no pressing
commitments except perhaps to try and cure this terrible cough and sore
throat. In th...
15 years ago
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