Probably one of the hardest things is wearing a bra. Unfortunately, just
because you start taking hormones doesn’t mean that you wake up the
next morning with fully formed breasts. Just like any teen girl, it
takes time, years for most. Investing in a great fitting bra doesn’t
work that well if you are still developing.
Emma chats a bit about buying clothes for what was once a male frame. She shares her experiences on sizing, and places to shop in Clothes Make the Lady.
The People - Personal Thoughts
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“You’re a guy!”
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Most civilians are too busy with their own lives to pay much attention to
us. Occasionally, however, someone will recognize that the attractive woman
pas...
8 hours ago
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Yet One More Minute with Hannah McKnight
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Hi! I am excited to share with you the third video in the new
groundbreaking series ‘One Minute with Hannah McKnight’. This revolutionary
series takes a qu...
1 day ago
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From Tolerant to Toxic: My Trans Awakening +2
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Gwen's Saturday thoughts
The post From Tolerant to Toxic: My Trans Awakening +2 appeared first on Kandi's
Land!.
5 days ago
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Take a breath
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Hi, Friday off and it’s a birthday week as well. Get in! ☺️ The Ever Lovely
Mrs J and I have been out for a stroll and stopped off for breakfast. All
that,...
6 days ago
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Blog Post #170! And a Special Event
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Wow - 170 posts. And I had a wonderful experience to report on, too.
One of the hardest things for a crossdresser to do is interact with cis
women out i...
1 week ago
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Another short outing on Saturday
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It is the first Saturday of September and I had a busy day earlier, gym and
taking my car in for an oil change and a few other things I had to do so I
got ...
2 weeks ago
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My punk past at Grrrl Germs in Irvine, California
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I am super excited and honoured that some small pieces of my own punk
history are featured in the new exhibition Grrrl Germs: Feminism Goes
Viral, curated ...
2 weeks ago
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Review: Storm Over Camelot: Book Three in the Morgan le Fay trilogy
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[image: Storm Over Camelot: Book Three in the Morgan le Fay trilogy] Storm
Over Camelot: Book Three in the Morgan le Fay trilogy by Sophie Keetch
My rating:...
3 weeks ago
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Warning! Warning! Danger, Will Robinson!
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In the old campy sci-fi series “Lost In Space” from the 1960s, the Robinson
family’s robot frequently threw its arms around shouting “Warning! Warning!
Dan...
4 weeks ago
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And she's off
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As I start writing this, it's Friday August 14, 2026. (Here's the part
where I insert the cliche "where has the summer gone? But I know that
answer.)....
5 weeks ago
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Your partner as an attack surface
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When it comes to WordPress security, I employ numerous defense-in-depth
techniques. From a WAF to locking down WordPress core and keeping up to
date with...
1 month ago
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How JK Rowling once again proved trans women are women
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if that had been the bloke in shorts on the stage showing exactly the same
amount of inner thigh, with legs spread open instead of carefully crossed,
no su...
1 month ago
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Serve, and be of service.
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Over the course of the evening, reference was made to the many duties
behind carried out. In reply, I said that I knew my place which drew some
laughter in...
1 month ago
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A Want...or a Need
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JJ Hart Discovering her Needs
I am in the first row on the left.
When a want turns into a need, sometimes you can feel it. Other times, not
so much as if ...
2 months ago
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About Turn Article
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*The following is part of the campaign to support the High Court Appeal to
equalise the payments to all who had served and were forced to leave due to
th...
2 months ago
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Anna Arendt, RIP? But first we need to get her out of the closet. March
2025. The most awful thing happened. Jay died. A long illness ending with
Five week...
3 months ago
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D’Iberville school officials deadname transgender student on social media
days before graduation
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https://mississippitoday.org/2026/05/22/school-deadname-transgender/
Credit: D'Iberville school officials deadname transgender student on
social media d...
4 months ago
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Getting on with life
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As the world continues in turmoil and very few of us can even think of what
is coming next, life has to go on, Trans people throughout the world are
being ...
6 months ago
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Hand-Me-Overs and More..
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omething weird happened in the second half of last year...
[Ed: Madam is repeating herself.]
I'm what?
[Ed: This is exactly how you started the previous ...
7 months ago
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Good Saturday to you!
I know my posting has been a bit spotty but things are busy in my world.
Here I'm offering some wildflowers as a distraction from t...
8 months ago
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Farewell 2025
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So that was 2025.
To be honest, I won't be unhappy to see it go, though I worry, both
globally and domestically, what it bodes for 2026.
I can't rememb...
8 months ago
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MMXXVI
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Happy happy happy happy New year! Fingers crossed all comes true for you or
ar least it's peaceful.
X
8 months ago
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Hi! :) im so sorry if this is rude just curious/wanting to learn :) i was
wondering, when you transition, do you identify with the physical aspects
of your gender or like the societal aspect? (i’m not wording this right
but) for example someone afab transitioning to male, would they ‘want’ to
be male as in the like (for lack of a better word) illusion society has
made of it (like blue, very masculine, trucks, that kind of stuff) or would
they 'want’ to be male as in the physical aspects (muscles, facial hair,
that kind of stuff) sorry if this is rude i was just wondering! ty <3
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Hi there, that's a great question.
I think it's different for everyone but for me, it was a bit of both and
then some others. There were multiple aspect...
9 months ago
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I’m Glasgow’s Hidden Gem by the way! 😊
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Glasgow’s Hidden Gem: Anna Secret Poet
1 year ago
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Winning a Million
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Although I haven't been very active on this blog for a while, I was
astonished to find that my hit counter is approaching a *million* hits.
This makes it...
1 year ago
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A Return to Words: Dance, AI, and the Art of Living
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Almost nine years. That’s how long it has been since my last blog post.
Ironically, my most recent entry was about my concern for another friend
whose blog...
1 year ago
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Finding Light in the Dark
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Without a doubt, the times are dark right now. In a world that has gone mad
with hate and bigotry, that is looking to devolve to a darker time in
history...
1 year ago
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Drag king stories #9
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I’m back to performing, after a 5 year hiatus. “Adam Andro-matic” was last
seen at a small bar downtown doing drag-aoke as a wind-up-doll to the song
“Blue...
1 year ago
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Life on the other side
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I am posting less because I feel there is less to post about. Just my
continuing frustrations at not being in work, not being able to continue my
treatment...
1 year ago
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Out and about in my pretty sandals...
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Out and about in my pretty sandals:
Mandy
2 years ago
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Marking time…
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Well it had to happen at some point: I’ve run out of things to say again!
Way back in the earliest days of this blog, I mentioned that I’d been too
busy do...
2 years ago
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Shine
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Did progress actually stop when I felt like how things are was the place I
was happy to be? I mean I didn’t make any conscious decision to stop making
actu...
2 years ago
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Cynthia, Are you there?
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I’m not gone, still here, just really busy. 2023 has been a really
interesting year for me. I’m not going to get into great detail but suffice
to say there...
2 years ago
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Georgia Queen
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May I present: From our recent travels, a picture taken in Savannah, GA. We
had a fun ride, and the lunch from thee snack bar was actually decent! Mandy
3 years ago
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New & Improved!
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Kandi’s Land has been significantly upgraded. Check it out!
3 years ago
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As good a time as any
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This might be as good a time as any to stop since the beginning of another
chapter of my life seems like a duly appropriate milestone. I can now say
with...
4 years ago
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Taking a Break
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I have been writing for a long time. I even won an award for writing when I
wrote for World Wide Hippies. Unfortunately, I am not in a good place. I
lost m...
4 years ago
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Breasts are Awesome
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A talk about my shiny new cheat assets. Breasts I'm talking about my
breasts.
4 years ago
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What is “Hate Crime”?
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You have a few options if you live in Fife and need to report a hate crime.
You can report the incident directly to Police Scotland at Police Scotland
Onli...
5 years ago
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One Year
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Yes, I've been on a one year sort of hiatus. Nothing big happened but just
got wrapped up in things. Will try and post more and start up again. No
chang...
5 years ago
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On exceptionalism
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*The exceptional Jennifer Lawrence*
Sometimes I hold my hands out, palm upwards, in the manner of a
Pentecostalist awaiting the descent of the Holy Spirit...
5 years ago
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My Best Sex Ever Was With a Trans Woman
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Why Being Intimate with Your Transgender Lover Could Be the Best Experience
of Your Life Sexual encounters can happen in different ways and between
people ...
5 years ago
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Whinge with mother
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Mick Jagger and his merry men called them ‘Mothers little helpers’. Sadly,
I am not a mother. Antidepressants I’m referring to. I have been popping
these f...
6 years ago
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Posting from the front
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Now that my dad has passed, things have started to settle down to a new
normal. My brother and I have been talking more often, and XGFJ no longer
posts ...
6 years ago
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Thought for the day
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To all my trans readers, if someone tries to break your butterfly wings,
fly away from them. If, despite your efforts they succeed, summon up all
your st...
6 years ago
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Today’s dust bunnies
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My newly discovered comfort zone has become a springboard. It reminds me of
attachment theory – a stable centre from which to venture. Each day a new,
mode...
6 years ago
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Transitions: From My Heart to Yours
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On this day, seven years ago my world changed. I learned a new word;
transgender became part of my vocabulary. Along with that I learned about
the differen...
6 years ago
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Crossing the line in a blaze of glory
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Recently I was reading some spiritual insight and advice in which there was
a sort of breakdown of the inception and progression of a sin from fleeting
tho...
6 years ago
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Burn Out and Checking Out Are Also Parts of Transition
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So, I am about to turn 40. Not only is that a major milestone, it also
means that my official transition started five years ago. And, back in 2015
when ...
6 years ago
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The best laid plans of mice and transwomen
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It has been a while since my last blog entry and until recently I didn’t
have anything really worth talking about, or at least nothing that I was
motivated...
6 years ago
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Time to Upgrade
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November 5th, 2010 - I began this blog. When I started out, I did what
many bloggers do, I headed to Blogger.com. It is a nice friendly platform
"back e...
6 years ago
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Advocacy for men presenting as men in dresses
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This is terrific. Of course the mainstream public will write it off as
sensationalism and not take it seriously, but I’m glad of any positive
commentary on...
6 years ago
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The Three Little Pigs Reimagined
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For a school project, CJ had to design a set for a production of The Three
Little Pigs. CJ being CJ, he insisted on reimagining the classic story and
makin...
6 years ago
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Gratitude Journal
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Caregiver fatigue for the spouse supporting the one who has depression is
real. I’ve been trying to find a new therapist since I stopped seeing mine
due to...
6 years ago
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Transferring to a new Blog
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Due to circumstances beyond my control, I am forced to close down this blog
and open up a new one. Please visit my new blog, "Dotting I's and Crossing
T...
6 years ago
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September’s Blog
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Hi folks and followers, It’s been forever since I’ve posted anything new
but it really hasn’t been that much to report. I’ve decided to do a monthly
post...
7 years ago
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Mouse Hunt
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Still shaking off the rust:
If you have delved at all into the first four or five years of posts here
(and why haven't you?!), you know that my wife's re...
7 years ago
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New Beginnings
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“Are you sure you don’t want to come along?” It’d been a few months since I
gave Pandora her tattoo, and now the small shop was completely flooded with
dre...
7 years ago
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Stonewall’s radical history
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After the Noho Pride parade on Saturday, May 4th, join me in the Tri-County
Fairgrounds to hear the radical, true story of Stonewall. Continue reading →
7 years ago
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April 2019 - An update
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We are third of the way into the year and only my second blog entry! That
tells a story in itself I suppose and basically means it has been quiet for
me. ...
7 years ago
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I’m Devastated
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⌈Trigger Warning; language, female body functions, eating disorder, self
harm, mention of suicide⌋ When I started testosterone my period stopped
instantly....
7 years ago
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Detaching Myself from My Dysphoria
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The other day, I was trying to imagine how my life would be different if
I’d never suffered from gender dysphoria. The point wasn’t to create a
fantasy lif...
7 years ago
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Makeup Removal
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I have lost count of all the different things I have tried or used to
remove makeup quickly and efficiently. The past couple of years I have
been using ma...
7 years ago
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GRS – 3 Surgeries and One Beautiful Nightmare (Part 1/3)
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[Content warnings for graphic depictions of bodily functions, surgery,
suicide, mental illness, swearing] This isn’t an in-depth look into GRS,
just a stor...
7 years ago
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Progress, slowly slowly.
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So things seem now to be heading in a scary but ultimately more positive
direction for me at last. After a recent discussion with my wife she now
seems to ...
7 years ago
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Transgender Day of Remembrance
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Every year, there is a commemoration of Transgender Day of Remembrance
(TDoR) at my local LGBT drop-in centre. Fortunately, there was a lull in
the activit...
7 years ago
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Things That Make You Go Hymn
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I am the worst sort of Lapsed Catholic. So I began 2018 with that sort of
mindset. And everything served up this year has only continued to push me
further...
7 years ago
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Absolutely OUTstanding
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It has been quite a while since I have posted anything on this blog. Five
months, to be precise. Yet a few things have happened within the last week
or s...
7 years ago
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Who wears the trousers ?
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So was out with a friend,shopping in Marheinekeplatz market ; there's a
saturday and a sunday one, clothes, a few antiques , bicycles , a chess
stall, all...
7 years ago
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May You Find Peace
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I have made peace with myself, and can no longer in good faith leave or
recommend the content I once posted here. Those writings were my best
desperate ho...
8 years ago
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It’s been awhile
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Warning: this post is different. It talks about things that may make some
readers uncomfortable – especially ones that know me personally and in
parts it ...
8 years ago
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Processions 2018 - Why Trans Sisters Need to March Alongside Their Sisters
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My Partner and I at Processions 2018 - Credit: Tina Williams I am my
grandmother’s granddaughter. She fought for my right to vote and I wanted
to honour th...
8 years ago
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‘She Said’ a universal, personal wive’s tale
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The thing that most surprises me and never surprises me at all is how other
“wife of” stories are not at all like my story and totally like my story.
Yep, ...
8 years ago
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The merry-go-round
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It’s been 14 months since I wrote a Parenting Jeremy. Up until recently
there has been nothing really of note to write about in our lives with
respect to...
8 years ago
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Profile: Amy
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You can call me… Amy I identify as… Genderqueer/genderfluid I’m not sure??
As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them or she/her I’m attracted
to… Guy...
8 years ago
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MAGA?
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So far – as of 1/31/18 January 18, 2018: The Department of Health and Human
Services’ Office of Civil Rights opened a “Conscience and Religious Freedom
Div...
8 years ago
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Finale
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Unfortunately, I am finding that this blog and my life is being used far
too often as a political football to promote various agendas and the actual
messag...
8 years ago
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Futanari Convent Book 1 & 2
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When I was preparing to notify the world about my latest book
I came across two reviews that I hadn’t read. Surprised me. I thought
Amazon wa...
8 years ago
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Flying solo in Las Vegas – Part I
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I have had a great last 10 days. I have been on three wonderful outings in
which I did things that I have wanted to for a long time but never either
the c...
8 years ago
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Resetting the body clock
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Years ago, I mentioned that my sleep patterns were screwed up.
On new years eve, I found myself at home alone, with my wife and son having
gone to the last...
8 years ago
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Stuff people say when hearing about someone coming out…
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Whether they believe the things they say themselves is questionable, but
I think the majority of time people tend to jump to conclusions because
they’re ...
8 years ago
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Its been a while...
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I’m not really even expecting that anyone will remember me and read this,
but I did think that it was about time my long neglected blog got dusted
off and ...
8 years ago
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Wednesday November 15, 2017 - HIV Protection
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Now There's An HIV Prevention App Specifically For Trans Women Each week,
LGBT HealthLink, a program of CenterLink, and researcher and blogger Corey
Prac...
8 years ago
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Why there’re no posts ?
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Hi, I decided to take out all my posts from here as it seemed to have given
some people more insight into my life than they should ever have. I seem to
hav...
8 years ago
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Excuse our dust, but we have moved!
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I have moved my blog over to a dedicated hosting provider, and we have
successfully migrated over to the WordPress platform. We have our own
domain name, a...
9 years ago
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The Familial Revelation
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When it comes to family, I think we can all agree that it is never easy and
in a word, complicated. I have spent the last few months letting family
know ...
9 years ago
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On the Pride Center of the Capital Region, terfs, and Why Martha Harvey
Needs to Resign
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CW: lots of swears, lots of terfs (A quick aside on the word terf because
I’m going to use it about a thousand times. It’s not a slur. Here’s a
doctor tell...
9 years ago
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With Purpose
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The title of this post really highlights the way I’ve felt the last several
months and the experiences I’ve had the chance to take in. Since my last
updat...
9 years ago
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Transgender and LGBT++ Rights promised in UK Party Manifestos
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This piece is not written to influence how you vote in the general Election
on June 8th. it’s too late for that and in my humble opinion getting May
out of...
9 years ago
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I'll miss this platform
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But I don't think I'm going to keep using it. It's sad, because I've been
writing here for such a long time, and blogging for myself is therapeutic,
even i...
9 years ago
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Well…didn’t see this Coming.
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The following posts were made to my male Facebook profile. I finally came
to terms with it enough to [ost it here. I was trying to let this [profile
remain...
9 years ago
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Carpe diem, seize the day
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At the funeral of one of our Transmatters friends two weeks ago I reflected
how fortunate we are to have attended very few funerals, though as we - and
fri...
9 years ago
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Not a good week
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I've been angry, depressed and on the verge of tears most of the week. As
an older trans person, life can throw you some crap, especially these days
with ...
9 years ago
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Stuck In The Middle Again
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How to start? I said long ago when I made my choice to back our new
President that when he did things I felt were wrong I would call him out on
it. Today i...
9 years ago
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Dog People, Cat People, Nonbinary People (AKA The Draft For My Facebook
Coming Out)
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If you ask whether someone is a Dog Person or a Cat Person, most people
don’t have to think twice. They’ll immediately reply with which pet they
prefer, an...
9 years ago
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New Year, big changes.
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*Happy **New** Year!*
I begin the new year letting go of some important things. First up is the
pseudonym I have used for years. ‘Haust’ is gone, ...
9 years ago
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Dream Myself Awake
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I don't usually wake up startled in the middle of the night, sit up in my
bed in the stillness of a dark room and wonder why my heart is racing and
my ski...
9 years ago
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Week 85:Top Surgery Update:The collage above starts at 8 days...
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*Week 85:*
*Top Surgery Update:*
The collage above starts at 8 days post-op (image bottom left) and then
clockwise shows my chest at 10 ...
9 years ago
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Heroes and Hope
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It’s times like these that make me feel the most hopeless. I haven’t always
been good at dealing with feelings like this. But when the future looks
bleak, ...
9 years ago
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More education and awareness
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“Police records show there has been a significant rise in the number of
transgender hate crimes over the last four years - from 361 attacks in the
year en...
9 years ago
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Ringing the changes part 2
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So, my first post about how I changed my name with various organisations
was starting to get a bit long, so this is a continuation. The first can
be seen ...
9 years ago
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The cultivation corner...Marijuana master cultivation tip #1
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So you want to grow good marijuana? Don't we all!
First thing you need is some clones or some seeds. (I sell seeds. Shameless
self promotion.)
Now before yo...
9 years ago
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Second Contribution-Pre Dallas Trip
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Hi again.
I hope your day has gone nicely so far.
After my creation of this blog early on Tuesday morning, I felt it best to
dump a bit more crap on the ...
10 years ago
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My Return and First Time Out… again
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I’ve been trying to collect my thoughts the last few days. They have been
a jumble of emotions, mostly good. I haven’t felt this way in a long time
and f...
10 years ago
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Terrorism and the Violence of Otherness: Response to the Orlando Pulse
Massacre
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TW: Orlando Massacre, violence * ** *** **** ***** In the early hours of
Sunday, June 12, 2016, just after last call, a gunman entered the Pulse
Nightclub ...
10 years ago
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Good News from Oregon
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*The West is the Best. Get here and we'll do the rest. *
Long time no blog. The state of the nation at times looks bleak,
particularly after this w...
10 years ago
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An Update
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Hi, everyone. I know, I know, I promised to start blogging again. And
that was a hell of a long time ago. I just found myself far too busy, and
far too ...
10 years ago
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People who influence your life
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I haven't posted to this blog in a very long time, but there really isn't
much in the way of my spouse's transition or my own feelings about it to
report ...
10 years ago
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Feeling Positive Again :)
-
I had been feeling really down about things over the last few months and I
know that my recent posts on here haven’t been very positive about my
situation....
10 years ago
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To be or not to be – gay?
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After a nudge from my most patient follower, I thought I’d pen something I
have been thinking about posting for a while. Nicci has been on a long
journey a...
10 years ago
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Back on track
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It really sucked having to stop HRT at the beginning of this month. Unable
to get a prescription, and having difficulties importing what I needed to
self-m...
10 years ago
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A Sad Day in North Carolina
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North Carolina is a strange State and a great State (most of the time).
Today, it is a sad State. I have many fond childhood memories of summers
there wh...
10 years ago
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Back to the Stone Age.
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I think the song is fitting, It is not mine, the opinions on this page are
mine. In posting this video, I am in no way saying that this group believes
as I...
10 years ago
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hiatus
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just wanted to let you all know that Will is doing fabulous in recovery
(tracking everything diligently on @journeyintomanhood) and in England for
his se...
10 years ago
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Time to myself
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Recently I have been lucky to have a few evenings to myself to let Jenny
out of the wardrobe. Most of these occasions have been just in my room as
usual, ...
10 years ago
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Debunking Bathroom Myths
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*Debunking Bathroom Myths*
Original article by *Brynn Tannehill *can be viewed *Here*
*When the Houston Equal Rights Ordinance was defeated, the ostens...
10 years ago
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RUMBLED. BUT IT TURNS OUT TO THE GOOD
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As per usual on a Wed evening I make my way to the Butterfly Club support
premises to get my self ready to face the world. Nothing new in that. And
as per ...
10 years ago
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Postscript
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I thought that my urge to blog had departed. It hasn't... but I do need to
move on. Angie's Aspirations — aka About Angie — was written from the
perspecti...
10 years ago
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Got A Little Beautified…
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Not much here, but I went out for a bit of a day, treated by a couple of
friends, and had my brows waxed and got my hair done. Here’s the results.
I s...
10 years ago
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10 Ways to Destroy the Earth
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my mother died in this room now it is occupied by my nieces whenever they
sleep over a playroom i currently occupy it sleeping on the lower bunk of
their l...
10 years ago
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While I Am Away...
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So....
I have been away...yup. Not news. Been busy. Plus, not much to write about
really, I've just submerged into 'normal' Nairobi life, with a few bumps ...
10 years ago
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Coming soon
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[image: Coming soon]
10 years ago
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Become a girl
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[image: Become a girl]
10 years ago
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Stronger
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So I think it is safe to say that Keira is getting stronger or at the very
least more prevalent. I’ve been getting more confident doing certain
things, I k...
11 years ago
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5 months in
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*Continued**, from April 5th 2015*
5 months since the hospital I still don't know much about it.
Dissociative Identity Disorder.
My amnesia isn't just ha...
11 years ago
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Through The Looking Glass
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I’m not sure exactly when it happened, but it did. That is, I stopped
considering myself “transitioning.” What does that mean, exactly? Am I
where I want t...
11 years ago
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Finishing therapy
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I looked back to refer to other blog posts about the CBT I have been having
and found none, realising that I had not written anything about it since I
star...
11 years ago
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*Hey!*
So... tomorrow school begins again.
This schoolyear I am planning to come out and start dressing, acting,
talking, etc. like a girl. Honestly, it's ...
11 years ago
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Transition Is A Banquet
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Transition is not a one-way street, or a bowling lane with the bumpers up.
Transition is not a recipe with precise measurements, or a fixed
curriculum, or ...
11 years ago
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It’s Inherent
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The frequency and unexpectedness with which being transgendered asserts
itself is ever a source of amazement. Regardless of how deeply in
background one ma...
11 years ago
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The Biggest Changes Come in the Smallest Packages
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I know my posts have been lacking for the past year but I have done a lot
of soul-searching and cleanup around my home and in my life to prepare
myself to ...
11 years ago
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End game...
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So things didn't get better...I slipped further and last Tuesday I went to
my scheduled appointment...when she saw me the choices were go home for a
matter...
11 years ago
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Handbags & Glad Rags……….
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I always feel a bit rotten about writing a new post when I have so many
posts from others to …
Continue reading →
11 years ago
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Commenters and deep thoughts
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I would like to start by apologizing for the long break between posts. A
little thing called life intervenes and my writing suffers. Family, health,
work, ...
11 years ago
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Visibility
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i am a transman. I chose to medically transition so now I am on the other
side of the binary. Being visible for me now means continuing to advocate
for fr...
11 years ago
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Dangerous Situation
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***** This post might be triggering ***** Something really scary happened
last evening. I was standing outside with a friend (who is also homeless
and we u...
11 years ago
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Saying goodbye
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The time has come for me to say goodbye and put this blog to bed. I doubt
anyone reads it anymore, but I’m the type of person who likes closure, so I
gue...
11 years ago
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11-18-2014 Entry: Pulling Back the Transgender Curtian
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Two days from now will be Transgender Day of Remembrance, which I am sad to
say that before this year, I knew nothing about. I just finished scrolling
thro...
11 years ago
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I finally legally exist!
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On July 1st, 2014 it finally happened. The law that made it impossible for
me and many others like me to change their gender on any official documents
drop...
11 years ago
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A Controversial Stance On The Word “Queer”
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Controversial new video about the use of the word queer in the LGBT
community.
11 years ago
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8 Steps on How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Immediately
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If you are trying to get your ex boyfriend back, but are fighting and get
no results, then you should know this is a common thing that tons of girls
go thr...
11 years ago
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Pigtails
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Last night as I was hugging Kegan good night, I started playing with her
hair and realized her hair is at that almost long enough to put into a
super short...
12 years ago
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She Returns
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Gee, that was a long time coming, wasn't it?
I managed to survive from February to July at the Good Samaritan House at
Westgate. This is a Christian-run fa...
12 years ago
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Tumor no more
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On January 8, 2012 I was informed that the fight to live was over, I would
not be getting my last Chemo treatment, all scans have no cancer traces in
them ...
12 years ago
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*I think it is time to completely let my fears of letting those who know me
in my life, but may not know 'me' now because I did what I needed to do for
my ...
12 years ago
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Vote for Sophia
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I'm running in a mock election and I need your votes. You might be asking
why I need your vote, and *how in the heck did I wind up in politics?* Well,
my...
12 years ago
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Keepin’ On
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When I was driving home from work this afternoon I started to think of this
blog and its lack of updates. I think the general trend is that when I
dress mo...
12 years ago
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A Question
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So, I've been doing this girl thing for a while now.
It's good, but there is some weirdness...
Has anyone else experienced this?
[Bumps into a doorjam, o...
12 years ago
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Day 105: Whiskey Aging… DONE!
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So after nearly 3 and a half months it’s done! I ended up with a bottle
and a half of sweet, dark whiskey. It’s amazingly easy to do. At this
point, I’m ...
12 years ago
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Sweeping the Ashes
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“Things change. And friends leave. Life doesn't stop for anybody.”
“I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems
don't rhyme...
12 years ago
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Another new chapter
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*or the next stop on the timeline...*
*Anyway, as some of you may remember, in a galaxy, far, far..wait, wrong
story.*
*I married my other half 13 years a...
12 years ago
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It has been too long since last I blogged
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Yes, I know, more than two years have gone by, and some of you may be
wondering if all is well. YES! Everything remains wonderful. We've now been
happily m...
12 years ago
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It's "her's"
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I've been living as woman for two years now, two really good years. I was
and still am one of the lucky few. I have gone through this transition
without lo...
12 years ago
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Paula Deen Quote
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“I feel like ‘embattled’ or ‘disgraced’ will always follow my name. It’s
like that black football player who recently came out. He said, ‘I just
want to...
12 years ago
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I've finally finshed what I started.
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It's been quite a while since I've written. Again, not because there was
nothing to say. On the contrary, there's been plenty going on. I have
been una...
12 years ago
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Enough
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Originally posted on Nuclear Unicorn:
My approach to Cathy Brennan has long mirrored my approach to Ann Coulter;
I generally refuse to dignify their delibe...
12 years ago
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Ether Radio
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Last Tuesday I took the day off work to run errands. Around 8:30 in the
morning I was sitting in my boyfriend's car by a gas pump. Peter was
inside colle...
13 years ago
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Transgender children: 3 British case studies
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I was recently asked to speak at the NSPCC about the issues trans children
face. As part of my talk I read out three case studies, published below.
All nam...
13 years ago
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The Wedding and the Beach House
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It was a balmy June Saturday in Napa valley, California. The winery
Heather’s cousin Rosalind had chosen for the wedding was beautifully placed
amidst rol...
14 years ago
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Retrospect - Spring 2011 - The Highs and Low of being a TGirl
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Widemouth Bay, CornwallBy the spring of 2011 I felt that things were going
quite well and that with my new image I was well on the well to achieving
the g...
14 years ago
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I suppose an introduction is in order...
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I'm a woman living on the Left coast of America with a very much
appreciated spouse of over a decade and a half. We can usually be found
co-living our lif...
15 years ago
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Reality TV
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I was reassembling the bike last weekend with radio 4 on drip-feed and
heard a piece about people who live a second life on the Internet. It
appears that f...
17 years ago
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