Why am I looking for validation?

I so want something to tell me definitely that I am trans and that I should transition. I want something to tell me that I should live my life as a female and that all my wishing that I was born that way is for a purpose.  I want somebody to tell me to transition and that things will all work out.



I've always said I like the "from the heart" posts.  In this one, Jaclyn asks herself why she is looking for validation.  I'm sure many can relate.  I'm sure she would like some comments on her post.